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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a violet wand

Can be a tickle or pain- depends what you like

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Try a site called fetlife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try a site called fetlife."

There are some quite kinky people on here

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Yes there are but in my own experience its a lot more relaxed and honest environment.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT


"We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others "

Try going to a local Fetish Event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a pinwheel

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others "

Wax play

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Pin wheel is good, vibrating nipple and clit bulbs appear to give enjoyment to ladies.

Spreader bars, and soft bondage rope are hard to beat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good to know I'm on the right track !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others

Wax play"

How do you do it safely ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What about a pinwheel"

Will have to look that up ??

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

one inch disc with pin sharp points that have a wnderfull effect when rolled over inner thighs or nipples

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"one inch disc with pin sharp points that have a wnderfull effect when rolled over inner thighs or nipples"

Thanks ! Don't think I'll try that one yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one inch disc with pin sharp points that have a wnderfull effect when rolled over inner thighs or nipples"

Especially when combined with a violet wand

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others

Wax play

How do you do it safely ?? "

Special candles that melt at lower temperature than your normal candles. Another thing to Google, or go along to a local fetish event.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT


"one inch disc with pin sharp points that have a wnderfull effect when rolled over inner thighs or nipples

Thanks ! Don't think I'll try that one yet ? "

Used gently these can be very sensual

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Candles: Google bondageman.

Add a blindfold to take away sight too, then mix up the sensations. Don't think of only all the pain related stuff. Think feathers and soft fur mitten, think hot (drink hot tea and take a taste of her), think cold with thin chains (like you find on an old style plug bunched up (drapped over the skin).

Tie her on her front with pillows under her hips and prop her bum in the air, with a spreader bar between her knees. Hands soresd out above her head. Make her feel open and vulnerable.

Caress her bum, stroke her pussy then flick her bum with a crop then kiss it better while you stroke her pussy some more.

You can swap out floggers, pinwheels, violet wands, candles, pegs, nipples clamps, suction cups, vampire gloves are all good. Google is your friend.

Drive her high with pleasure and make her drip, then bring it back down with pain. Then build her back up again. Tease her, tempt her listen for the sounds that tell you she's desperate and in need.

The trick is that she never knows what's coming next. Her body will come alive and she will melt for more.

Ps: if you are using just rope don't forget the scissors to get her out quick if you need to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Candles: Google bondageman.

Add a blindfold to take away sight too, then mix up the sensations. Don't think of only all the pain related stuff. Think feathers and soft fur mitten, think hot (drink hot tea and take a taste of her), think cold with thin chains (like you find on an old style plug bunched up (drapped over the skin).

Tie her on her front with pillows under her hips and prop her bum in the air, with a spreader bar between her knees. Hands soresd out above her head. Make her feel open and vulnerable.

Caress her bum, stroke her pussy then flick her bum with a crop then kiss it better while you stroke her pussy some more.

You can swap out floggers, pinwheels, violet wands, candles, pegs, nipples clamps, suction cups, vampire gloves are all good. Google is your friend.

Drive her high with pleasure and make her drip, then bring it back down with pain. Then build her back up again. Tease her, tempt her listen for the sounds that tell you she's desperate and in need.

The trick is that she never knows what's coming next. Her body will come alive and she will melt for more.

Ps: if you are using just rope don't forget the scissors to get her out quick if you need to."

Looks like she's in for a good afternoon I'm off to try and get some of the things you've suggested!!

Thank you

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By *iss ACWoman
over a year ago

london


"Candles: Google bondageman.

Add a blindfold to take away sight too, then mix up the sensations. Don't think of only all the pain related stuff. Think feathers and soft fur mitten, think hot (drink hot tea and take a taste of her), think cold with thin chains (like you find on an old style plug bunched up (drapped over the skin).

Tie her on her front with pillows under her hips and prop her bum in the air, with a spreader bar between her knees. Hands soresd out above her head. Make her feel open and vulnerable.

Caress her bum, stroke her pussy then flick her bum with a crop then kiss it better while you stroke her pussy some more.

You can swap out floggers, pinwheels, violet wands, candles, pegs, nipples clamps, suction cups, vampire gloves are all good. Google is your friend.

Drive her high with pleasure and make her drip, then bring it back down with pain. Then build her back up again. Tease her, tempt her listen for the sounds that tell you she's desperate and in need.

The trick is that she never knows what's coming next. Her body will come alive and she will melt for more.

Ps: if you are using just rope don't forget the scissors to get her out quick if you need to."

Wow... lucky Mrs Phoenix xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have violet wand, pinwheel, crop and flogger. All nice to use when cuff'd up.

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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago

STOKE-ON-TRENT


"We have violet wand, pinwheel, crop and flogger. All nice to use when cuff'd up. "

Love all those ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blindfolded and have earbuds in her ears playing music just loud enough so she can't hear or tell what you are doing or where you are.

Then drip hot wax on her then ice cubes rubbed and dripped on her or any combination to send her senses into a tizzy.

Then even the lightest touch with a feather will drive her wild!!

Scarlett loves it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have violet wand, pinwheel, crop and flogger. All nice to use when cuff'd up. "

Oh yes indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like someone else said - whip, pin wheel.

Clover clamps are good.

Bit gag or ball gag.

Candle play - dripping it onto boobs and flogging it off. Alternating with ice makes it more interesting.

Feathers - gently brushed over skin.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It was an amazing afternoon. He spoilt me so much. Thanks for giving him the tips guys. Mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being restrained and the violet wand is my favourite, the difference between the light tickly feeling then to the more intense, like others have said combined with the pin wheel and wax starting to experiment with breathplay. Iv definately found my place as submissive.

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By *igneachtWoman
over a year ago

Upton Wirral

I don't really get anything from a pin wheel

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"We have started to experiment with a bit of rope play and teasing of my female partner.

She enjoys being totally unable to move and so far have used pegs , ice , a few forms of spanking implements a crop being the latest !

I'm wanting to push both of our boundaries and surprise her with something new ?

Just after a few ideas that have been successful with others "
..wax?..

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"I don't really get anything from a pin wheel "

It never did anything for me until a different man used one with me. Couldn't believe how tingly and naughty it felt. It may be the way it's used that's the problem. Don't dismiss it

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Try a site called fetlife.

There are some quite kinky people on here "

A lot are on both I hear

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey


"Try a site called fetlife.

There are some quite kinky people on here "
They only talk on there , more posing than fucking .

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