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By *5happycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tooting / dept 23 France

Just trying to find out if others have a similar problem or have worked out a solution. Mr Happy's cock doesn't like getting dressed to play. We discovered early on that as Mr Happy has more in the girth department than average, normal sized condoms were almost impossible to put on and would put a swift end to any play. So we managed to find some larger condoms and that makes the getting dressed part easier, especially as Mrs Happy now does that part for him so that he doesn't have to lose concentration.

However, the condoms that we now use are probably industrial thickness and so very little is felt by Mr Happy and his cock, that after a while the inevitable happens and play ends again. Having looked online, you can get extra thin condoms but they don't seem to come in different sizes. Are we the only people who find this to be an issue? Is there no-one who can supply extra thin and extra large condoms?

Someone else has suggested that Viagra might be the way forward, as even when dressed Mr Happy's cock should stay hard and be able to continue playing. Have others found this to be the case? A bit reluctant to start looking for drugs online if the proper sized and textured condom is out there. As it is, soft play is what is promised as getting Mr Happy's cock to play ball is never guaranteed. His mouth and fingers seem to compensate very well, but he likes to be able to play fully. Any suggestions, experiences or advise?

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Just trying to find out if others have a similar problem or have worked out a solution. Mr Happy's cock doesn't like getting dressed to play. We discovered early on that as Mr Happy has more in the girth department than average, normal sized condoms were almost impossible to put on and would put a swift end to any play. So we managed to find some larger condoms and that makes the getting dressed part easier, especially as Mrs Happy now does that part for him so that he doesn't have to lose concentration.

However, the condoms that we now use are probably industrial thickness and so very little is felt by Mr Happy and his cock, that after a while the inevitable happens and play ends again. Having looked online, you can get extra thin condoms but they don't seem to come in different sizes. Are we the only people who find this to be an issue? Is there no-one who can supply extra thin and extra large condoms?

Someone else has suggested that Viagra might be the way forward, as even when dressed Mr Happy's cock should stay hard and be able to continue playing. Have others found this to be the case? A bit reluctant to start looking for drugs online if the proper sized and textured condom is out there. As it is, soft play is what is promised as getting Mr Happy's cock to play ball is never guaranteed. His mouth and fingers seem to compensate very well, but he likes to be able to play fully. Any suggestions, experiences or advise? "

Assuming you have found condoms that fit - I'd hazard a guess that the inability to maintain an erection when wrapped is a mind thing...

I'm blessed with an average cock so I am spoilt for choice re condom selection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting on a condom does cause me a few problems sometimes. I have a thick cock and the normal condoms feel like having a rubber band around the base of my old fella, he doesn't like this at all. Once removed the mark left lasts a day or so. Larger condoms do help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to find out if others have a similar problem or have worked out a solution. Mr Happy's cock doesn't like getting dressed to play. We discovered early on that as Mr Happy has more in the girth department than average, normal sized condoms were almost impossible to put on and would put a swift end to any play. So we managed to find some larger condoms and that makes the getting dressed part easier, especially as Mrs Happy now does that part for him so that he doesn't have to lose concentration.

However, the condoms that we now use are probably industrial thickness and so very little is felt by Mr Happy and his cock, that after a while the inevitable happens and play ends again. Having looked online, you can get extra thin condoms but they don't seem to come in different sizes. Are we the only people who find this to be an issue? Is there no-one who can supply extra thin and extra large condoms?

Someone else has suggested that Viagra might be the way forward, as even when dressed Mr Happy's cock should stay hard and be able to continue playing. Have others found this to be the case? A bit reluctant to start looking for drugs online if the proper sized and textured condom is out there. As it is, soft play is what is promised as getting Mr Happy's cock to play ball is never guaranteed. His mouth and fingers seem to compensate very well, but he likes to be able to play fully. Any suggestions, experiences or advise? "

I've got a girth (circumference) of 16.5cm and also have a bit of an issue with condoms and am looking for comfortable ones. Which ones do gentleman of penile girth recommend?

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By *ave_69Man
over a year ago

Westhill

Have you tried female condoms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same problem. Regular condoms are far to tight and a bugger to get on. Try Trojan Magnums. You can get them in Amazon and they work a treat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried female condoms?

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Femidons. Tried though and they are interesting. Got to get a women who is happy to use them though as they have to be inserted first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby had the same problem but eBay are selling pasante condoms extra large worth a try x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

Yes, yes, yes!

The best way to overcome this is definitely get the right condom...there are lots of King Size condoms out there; just shop around. There are 'My Size' condoms which come in all different sizes for girth and length.

Then you need to start using condoms in your own play for a while until it becomes normal ish to use a condom, so when it comes to using them with new play partners, it isn't an issue.

Good luck xx

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Try one of the custom made condom sites online. I have no experience of their services, but remember being given a safe sex pack in a club once, with condoms, lube, safe sex information and a leaflet from one of these places with a measurement guide, I can't remember which brand it was, but I'll have a hunt and see if I still have it.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Try one of the custom made condom sites online. I have no experience of their services, but remember being given a safe sex pack in a club once, with condoms, lube, safe sex information and a leaflet from one of these places with a measurement guide, I can't remember which brand it was, but I'll have a hunt and see if I still have it."

Yep, my post above has the name. They are great for those especially with length AND girth as even king size condoms can ride up! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've looked at mr happy's cock pic and will recommend skyns large.

He's not particularly long but I'd agree a standard condon would be tight because he has a reasonable girth.

They're very thin and I can't feel them when I use them.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"I've looked at mr happy's cock pic and will recommend skyns large.

He's not particularly long but I'd agree a standard condon would be tight because he has a reasonable girth.

They're very thin and I can't feel them when I use them. "

*Goes off to check out his cock*....pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've looked at mr happy's cock pic and will recommend skyns large.

He's not particularly long but I'd agree a standard condon would be tight because he has a reasonable girth.

They're very thin and I can't feel them when I use them.

*Goes off to check out his cock*....pmsl xx"

Sssshhh. I'm trying to help here

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

My friend who is very girthy uses MySize and has no complaints.

C would recommend trying Skyn - he says the feeling is half way between other condoms and bare so they might be your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

https://www.mycondom.com/condoms/size/large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The loss of erection sounds like a psychological thing, but I can understand the condom sizes as normal condoms hurt me

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Try the mates range as they are not made from latex and stretch a little more and they are thin too.

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By *onny bigMan
over a year ago

london harrow

There's plenty of sites out there that supply extra large thin ones, i'd try them before you go down the viagra route.

Good luck though, i hope it all works out and mr happy stay's happy, it'd be sad otherwise lol...

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By *B2016Man
over a year ago

and around

I've always used durex xl. Really good gear and have never split like others. So I swear by em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just trying to find out if others have a similar problem or have worked out a solution. Mr Happy's cock doesn't like getting dressed to play. We discovered early on that as Mr Happy has more in the girth department than average, normal sized condoms were almost impossible to put on and would put a swift end to any play. So we managed to find some larger condoms and that makes the getting dressed part easier, especially as Mrs Happy now does that part for him so that he doesn't have to lose concentration.

However, the condoms that we now use are probably industrial thickness and so very little is felt by Mr Happy and his cock, that after a while the inevitable happens and play ends again. Having looked online, you can get extra thin condoms but they don't seem to come in different sizes. Are we the only people who find this to be an issue? Is there no-one who can supply extra thin and extra large condoms?

Someone else has suggested that Viagra might be the way forward, as even when dressed Mr Happy's cock should stay hard and be able to continue playing. Have others found this to be the case? A bit reluctant to start looking for drugs online if the proper sized and textured condom is out there. As it is, soft play is what is promised as getting Mr Happy's cock to play ball is never guaranteed. His mouth and fingers seem to compensate very well, but he likes to be able to play fully. Any suggestions, experiences or advise? "

Mates skyns are great condoms, if you google there is a company that do condoms that you can order in girth and length and thickness.

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By *rown ThunderMan
over a year ago

newport

The websites above are a good place to start..but just looked at the profile pics..and all this fuss about nothing....I was expecting to see a huge 14incher the way the OP went about it.....lol happy hunting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The websites above are a good place to start..but just looked at the profile pics..and all this fuss about nothing....I was expecting to see a huge 14incher the way the OP went about it.....lol happy hunting..."

I think it's more a girth issue than length, standard condoms are very restrictive if you have plenty of girth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The websites above are a good place to start..but just looked at the profile pics..and all this fuss about nothing....I was expecting to see a huge 14incher the way the OP went about it.....lol happy hunting...

I think it's more a girth issue than length, standard condoms are very restrictive if you have plenty of girth."

As several of us have said; skyns large are good for girth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr PK would also recommend skyns and they come in large size. he was having problems with normal ones chaffing but he tried skyns and a big thumbs up and he says you get a lot more feeling with them

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

I find using a cock ring with condoms is a big help

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"I've looked at mr happy's cock pic and will recommend skyns large.

He's not particularly long but I'd agree a standard condon would be tight because he has a reasonable girth.

They're very thin and I can't feel them when I use them.

*Goes off to check out his cock*....pmsl xx"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We play bare, I did buy skyns for visitors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Large Skyns are excellent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yip get this a lot my boy just not happy wearing wet weather gear likes it Au naturale best

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By *5happycouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tooting / dept 23 France


"I've always used durex xl. Really good gear and have never split like others. So I swear by em"

We were using Durex XL the other night. They were difficult to put on and Mr Happy said he couldn't feel a thing. Have just bought some Trojan Magnum Thins to try, so will see how that goes.

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By *ugga81Man
over a year ago

West Malling

These posts are very funny.

My cock is thicker and longer, never had an issue getting a condom on it: )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These posts are very funny.

My cock is thicker and longer, never had an issue getting a condom on it: )"

Ha ha I know. Blatant I've got a big dick thread. I too have a massive cock but I've found the perfect solution. I just stretch a carrier bag over it. Fits just right, nice and snug.

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

O err cock of the North.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a salt and vinegar crisp packet...inside out if youre feeling kinky!

Skyns as recommended above are really worth a try x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Just play bareback then no worries about condom size

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By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Just play bareback then no worries about condom size"

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By *ustaceSmithMan
over a year ago

Saxmundham

Try www.theyfit.co.uk for bespoke condoms.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Thumbs up for skyns large

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By *eteinhantsMan
over a year ago

Southsea

My Size are what i have to use and would definitely reccommend them

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd ask at your local clinic for help. Once equipped it's something to deal with in our heads. Regular use should normalize it.

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

I have used condoms with no problems for yerars infact it can become part of the arousal

Try getting used to the sensation of wearing a cock ring and enjoy the restriction learn to associate the feeling with pleasure and anticipation rather than negative thoughts

if it reduces sensativity think of it as a way of prolonging the pleasure find one that is the right size and not like an inner tube i swear i cant tell if one is on or has slipped off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try "MySize" normal thickness of the condom but various girth sizes

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