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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, we're brand new to this and looking to attend our first club in the Northampton area.

What we're really wondering is, what would be the best club for newbies.

We're looking for a relaxed, laid back atmosphere with no pressure.

Any advice or tips would be very welcome.

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We will go this month.

I think it will be like first day at school...older ones will help you familiarise your self and show you around.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Not sure how close it is to Northampton but by far our favorite club is The Vanilla Alternative. It was our first club and is still our favorite. It's ideal for your first visit...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not sure how close it is to Northampton but by far our favorite club is The Vanilla Alternative. It was our first club and is still our favorite. It's ideal for your first visit..."

Thank you very much.

I'll look into it.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

No problem. Check out the reviews in the club review section too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chams is a great place to go

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Yep concur Chameleons is a nice 1st-time venue, worked well for us, good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree the vanilla alternative

Or tease 2 if you want a closed room or a quieter night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VA all the way from us, our first visit there last week, our first dabble into the scene and it was fantastic, cant recommend it highly enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all who have replied so far.

Still a difficult choice as there's multiple recommendations

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

VA and Chams are totally different in how they run. You'll need to 'dress down' at Chams which you don't need to do at VA.That makes a lot of difference for new couples at times we believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"VA and Chams are totally different in how they run. You'll need to 'dress down' at Chams which you don't need to do at VA.That makes a lot of difference for new couples at times we believe."

That's very true. That's the reason we love Chams as we prefer dress down clubs and it's far easier to use the jacuzzis if you're wearing a towel

I personally don't have anything to wear to a club where you stay dressed as i wear jeans t shirts and converse most of the time and they generally aren't allowed in clubs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At Chams you don't have to wear a towel if your not comfortable with that, fems can wear sexy lingerie and guys can wear shorts etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's probably not for us on a first club visit then. Haha!

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By *ynchedWoman
over a year ago

Dunstable

There are a few near to you, depends what youre comfortable with... These are the ones I can tell you about....

VA - quite large club, pay bar, nightclub atmosphere, separate couples area, towels only in the wet area, large hot tub, but all play is open, no lockable rooms

Tease 2 - small club, pay bar, quieter atmosphere means easier to chat, some lockable rooms, some open rooms, no dress down required, food on saturdays include!, friendly staff, they run a newbie night

Jaydees - medium size club, BYOB, hot tub,buffet on saturdays included, friendly staff, disco area, lockable rooms, open areas upstairs, no dress down required

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By *andJCouple
over a year ago

fun town

Liberty Elite if it's not too far from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to the Atlantis in Stoke on Trent a very friendly club and get a lot of newbies going.

But where ever you go, just go and enjoy yourselves, remember I can just watch others and see how you both feel, maybe you like others too watch you play, just do what you feel at ease with.and don't rush things.

So go and enjoy yourselfs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow.

Thank you everyone for your input.

So nice to see people taking time out to help.

It is Really and truly appreciated.

And who knows...hopefully we'll get to meet some of you on our journey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might be best to go on a couples and single ladies nite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

VA, Tease, Jay deed are all pretty close. Chams and Xtasia are in the Midlands. All are great clubs, most people will recommend them based on their own preferences but they are all very different clubs and really a lot depends on what you want from a club

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock


"Liberty Elite if it's not too far from you.

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I've only been once as a single female, accompanied by a couple who are friends of mine, and had a great time. 4th Thursday of the month is newbie night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all again.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I would recommend Jaydees for a 1st timer, it is the friendliest club I've been too. The staff are great and the clientele are very non pushy and you don't have to do anything, just go for a laugh and see if clubs are for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, we're brand new to this and looking to attend our first club in the Northampton area.

What we're really wondering is, what would be the best club for newbies.

We're looking for a relaxed, laid back atmosphere with no pressure.

Any advice or tips would be very welcome.

Thanks in advance. "

I think most clubs are 'no pressure' environments. You can do as much or as little as you want. We visited VA earlier this year and really enjoyed it but their play area dress code could be daunting for you.

Further afield is Ab Fabs near Heathrow - a mix of wet and dry facilities and Saturday night is couples only so has a relaxed atmosphere. Plan far enough ahead and you can stay over at the T5 Travelodge (or Shaggalodge as it's been christened) for £29 and get involved in the frequent after parties there...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think we've narrowed it down to a choice between Jay Dee's or Tease II.

Just going to check what events are in and then make a choice.

Quite excited now!

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