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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Last night was interesting. We'd bought some new PVC outfits and were trying them on, camming in then and then went to the bedroom.

We've got a spanking paddle, nothing to heavy but Mrs N seems quite willing to experiment and it sort of developed into a truth or dare game. In the background to all of this is fact we haven't been playing much. However and this is what I need advice on.

The game developed along lines of I want the truth about what we should do swinging wise. If she didn't say she would do exactly what I said I want her to do in future she would have to accept punishment. Now the spanks I gave her were very soft guys. I hardly had to touch her arse with the paddle and in no time she was promising to fuck other men more, let them shoot all over her tits so that I could clean them and loads more filthy things.

She said she preferred medium sized cock, not huge and was happy if we played more but she wanted to be controlled and be more of a sex slave.

Question is, was she telling truth or was it just pillow talk to avoid the paddle LOL ?

Perhaps if any women on here could advise that would be great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spanking is powerful can provoke all kinds of reactions .done correctly can be very erotic o am sure your wife meant what she said .good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, you are on here as a couple. Surely you know who to ask.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Last night was interesting. We'd bought some new PVC outfits and were trying them on, camming in then and then went to the bedroom.

We've got a spanking paddle, nothing to heavy but Mrs N seems quite willing to experiment and it sort of developed into a truth or dare game. In the background to all of this is fact we haven't been playing much. However and this is what I need advice on.

The game developed along lines of I want the truth about what we should do swinging wise. If she didn't say she would do exactly what I said I want her to do in future she would have to accept punishment. Now the spanks I gave her were very soft guys. I hardly had to touch her arse with the paddle and in no time she was promising to fuck other men more, let them shoot all over her tits so that I could clean them and loads more filthy things.

She said she preferred medium sized cock, not huge and was happy if we played more but she wanted to be controlled and be more of a sex slave.

Question is, was she telling truth or was it just pillow talk to avoid the paddle LOL ?

Perhaps if any women on here could advise that would be great."

do you mean any women who don't know your partner at all could advise on what she actually meant? You must know that the only person who can answer your questions is her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I suppose you are right. Like most blokes though I am pretty crap at reading things. Just musing really as it was very erotic.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Don't muse. Sit down with her and lay it on the table. 'The other day with the paddle, was that waffle or was there something in that?, because in the spirit of being totally open I found it really hot'.

That should get you started lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good idea,

My gut feeling is she loves being controlled and made to do things. Just need to make sure I'm right as I'm not a natural Dom, infact I too am very sub but if that's what she really wants then I feel I should make sure it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good spank long as it's not hard lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is she any good at table tennis

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love a good spank long as it's not hard lol "

Yes, it's very very erotic.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Certainly sounds like your gut instinct might be going down the right road. Sometimes a little persuasion like that can give a person a reason to feel free let their inner desires free.

The Dom/sub thing is harder. But you don't have to be Dom to play with bdsm. Just hand her the paddle after your done spanking her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last night was interesting. We'd bought some new PVC outfits and were trying them on, camming in then and then went to the bedroom.

We've got a spanking paddle, nothing to heavy but Mrs N seems quite willing to experiment and it sort of developed into a truth or dare game. In the background to all of this is fact we haven't been playing much. However and this is what I need advice on.

The game developed along lines of I want the truth about what we should do swinging wise. If she didn't say she would do exactly what I said I want her to do in future she would have to accept punishment. Now the spanks I gave her were very soft guys. I hardly had to touch her arse with the paddle and in no time she was promising to fuck other men more, let them shoot all over her tits so that I could clean them and loads more filthy things.

She said she preferred medium sized cock, not huge and was happy if we played more but she wanted to be controlled and be more of a sex slave.

Question is, was she telling truth or was it just pillow talk to avoid the paddle LOL ?

Perhaps if any women on here could advise that would be great."

If it was light it probably wasn't the paddle. Maybe she wants to try you being in control during swinging meets. It does it big style for some women. It certainly does it big style for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I don't really think it was the paddle. I think it was just her way of letting me know that she is happy for me to be in control and to carry on being the organiser of our fun and not to hold back as she enjoys it when I and other men take control and use her gorgeous body.

She enjoys it basically and wants the fun to continue.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

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