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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there a way to let others know about time wasting fakes?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes, name and shame their profiles! Seriously, no - but they are easy to spot if you have a decent screening system. We sometimes have a bit of a play along with them and pretend we think they're real! Don't worry too much about them, they're just a nuisance! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother x

It's a further waste of your time.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"Is there a way to let others know about time wasting fakes?"

You just have.....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Am I likely to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People can work them out all by themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest ."

Great idea, as timewasters don't have money!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest ."

In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Are they really timewasters? Or just pretending to be fakes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest ."

I've been on other sites where the membership fee is a lot higher than here and you still get the same kind of thing.

Think about how much people are prepared to spend on lapdancers or porn collections - this is a constantly refreshed porn collection for some people with the added bonus of maybe getting people to cyber or describe meets etc.

So in my opinion putting up the fees wouldn't really change anything.

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest ."

Another free site decided to limit access by non verifieds. Within six months what had been a vibrant and active site, became a ghost town.

Like it or not, we need the 'time wasters'. They seem to generate the activity that keeps a site going.

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By *ompoathomeMan
over a year ago

anglesey

there should be a 3 strike and your banned on time wasters.. they should be named in a page designed for time wasters.. nothing worse than waiting in for someone who does nt turn up..when u could have arranged something else.. ban the time wasters we say.

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By *ompoathomeMan
over a year ago

anglesey


"Is there a way to let others know about time wasting fakes?

You just have....."

set up a time wasters page..and name them.if ppl dont bother with them they ll move on somewhere else

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i give them two chances then thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a way to let others know about time wasting fakes?"

Tell your friends and get them to tell their friends and so on. If you see the offender reappearing in yet another guise - do it all over again until you feel suitably smug about the whole buisness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a way to let others know about time wasting fakes?"

No, because it's entirely subjective as your definition of a "time wasting fake" may be totally different to the next persons.

Not to mention, any system of user control is utterly open to abuse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully! "

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

"

how very lucky you are and when it happens to you guys will you be saying the same thing will wait and see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

how very lucky you are and when it happens to you guys will you be saying the same thing will wait and see "

Not really, because we are selective and careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

how very lucky you are and when it happens to you guys will you be saying the same thing will wait and see

Not really, because we are selective and careful."

Wanna meet?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

how very lucky you are and when it happens to you guys will you be saying the same thing will wait and see

Not really, because we are selective and careful."

can i be your first ten before i turn up witch i wont because ive got cold feet and i dont like the look of you guys ,and ive telling you what great meet its going to be the will go sorry my cats just died ,now how would you feel just think how some of these peeps feel yes all hate these posts but it happens and its not nice on the new peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i allow one meet if dnt show there blocked delete but never had it as a single person but as a couple and doing partys they was a lot of time wasters put there name down for partys not turn up .i dnt mind ones that say sorry i cnt make it have to work etc ....but not to be polite dnt turn up is rude .but hey there loss they move on to the next i say .

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Admin created a 'timewaster' option within the report function.. for a reason.

hope you all have used it rather than bleat on here..

bet many haven't tho..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters "

I am fed up of hearsay! who said they are timewasters? you? I have met people who no pics or verifications who have been on here over a year and guess what. Not a timewaster Arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters "

Or to qualify as a non timewaster you need pages of verifications???

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters "

In your (considered?) opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I said before I must pick the right people as I have never had this. And yes some have had no verifications or pictures. Verifications mean bugger all,someone elses written account of that person means bugger all. Next people will be wanting a swinging C.V

As it really come down to this? No,just do your homework. I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters "

Posting pics or displaying verifications* is simply a matter of personal preference.

Some folks do and some folks don't.

* one need only read the multitudinous posts on the subject of the dubiety of some verifications to know how much faith can be placed in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there should be a 3 strike and your banned on time wasters.. they should be named in a page designed for time wasters.. nothing worse than waiting in for someone who does nt turn up..when u could have arranged something else.. ban the time wasters we say."

Not really because not everyone has the same definition of timewasters so you'd have people naming other members left right and centre purely because they'd emailed a few times then lost interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Again it's down to she said he said. It's all hearsay and that's why naming and shaming isn't allowed simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

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Couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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In three years not once have I had a sniff of a timewaster. Therefore, why should I pay because some people are unable to select their playmates carefully!

It's funny, you and I seem to appear in all these thread with this very line - we've never had a timewaster either.

I do agree, people who have problems most likely bring it on themselves.

how very lucky you are and when it happens to you guys will you be saying the same thing will wait and see "

Absolutely nothing to do with luck.

I'm not desperate to meet people...this is fun, so I can take my time in arranging a meet. My first meet is ALWAYS a social - no exceptions. My meets are during my lunch hour...in a coffee shop three minutes walk from my desk - note not office, desk. I have to walk pass the coffee shop to get to the Sainsbury's/M&S where I grab a sandwich. If they are not there when I'm walking past to get my lunch anyway, what would I have lost? Nothing...and guess what...they've always been there.

If I meet after work I meet at 5.15 or 5.45, again the time I'm usually in the station, so if they don't turn up I can just head off to catch my train - again, they've always been waiting.

After the social meet we arrange to meet in my home, it's a day I was going to take off anyway to spend time with myself, do my windows, clean my cooker etc. So if they don't turn up, again, I've lost nothing...but they always turn up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they have been on here more than 4 months and have no pics or verifications,,,,usually timewasters

I am fed up of hearsay! who said they are timewasters? you? I have met people who no pics or verifications who have been on here over a year and guess what. Not a timewaster Arhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh"

Here...here! I meet unverified men, I know if I'm going to meet someone from their opening message to me. If the tone/humour is right - they'll get my attention; verifications don't mean anything to me.

As I've said on numerous threads like this, the opinions of strangers have absolutely no bearing on who I'll invite into my home or bed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same with me Sassy never been stood up I can't believe all these people have been stood up. Shame on those timewasters

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"As I've said on numerous threads like this, the opinions of strangers have absolutely no bearing on who I'll invite into my home or bed! "

Absolutely spot on 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"name shame them i say ,,,,or put the fees up for thepaying ones and would get rid all the twonks if we all paid bit more for the site .think should be away banning there ips to be honest .

Great idea, as timewasters don't have money!

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

personally I would just move on and forget it,plenty of more people that are fun to be around who dont waste your time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the site seems to class ppl who arrange meets and dont turn up as timewasters as in the report page there is an option for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them and move on, that's what we do

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