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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL

So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Are you sure he fell asleep because of your blow job? He might just have been really ever-so extra tired.

Slow and for a long time please

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"Are you sure he fell asleep because of your blow job? He might just have been really ever-so extra tired.

Slow and for a long time please "

I want to believe that and obviously I'm not a guy so I don't know if that's a thing but I would hope it felt good enough to keep his attention

I like the sound of that. With it being slow, I'm guessing it's about suction pressure and teasing. Hmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man is different. I like it sucked hard and to be takin deep. Im sure it wasn't your blow job that put him sleep unless you knocked his socks off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow and firm but no teeth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All wonderful advice

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"Slow and firm but no teeth! "

Ha! The teeth are definitely a danger zone with firm do you mean suction firm or pressure of your lips firm? I'm thinking I should have a masterclass at this

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"All wonderful advice "

Definitely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow and firm but no teeth! "

Slow firm but something special about having teeth drawn over the head and sometimes even the head bitten (gently) communication is key when it comes to teeth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you"

Coming from the fet scene use vibrating cock ring to assist. Ice, mints and cinnamon sweets create effects too lol but just keep going hun

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always make sure my mouth is really wet, and that I have as much skin to skin contact between the cock and the surfaces of the inside of my mouth as I can. I use my tongue to lick in broad strokes (rather than using the tongue), and I don't tend to do it all very firmly or suck very hard unless prompted to.

Good luck!

xxx

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


" (rather than using the tongue)"

*rather than using the tip of the tongue

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you

Coming from the fet scene use vibrating cock ring to assist. Ice, mints and cinnamon sweets create effects too lol but just keep going hun"

Now I never thought of the vibro ring! Does that work like a cock ring as well though? I want him to come not to hold it off? where on earth do you find cinnamon sweets? I just got some throat numbing sweets so I can go deeper but they're more for me. I tried ice and it was messy

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"Slow and firm but no teeth!

Slow firm but something special about having teeth drawn over the head and sometimes even the head bitten (gently) communication is key when it comes to teeth. "

Definitely one to ask but I can imagine gently it does feel nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you"

Happened to me once too the guy was very tired. I just laughed and I think you should too.

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you

Happened to me once too the guy was very tired. I just laughed and I think you should too."

I've definitely gotten over it in the last hour haha. It's never happened before so it threw me. I can't wait for sleeping beauty to wake up so I can rib him about it

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By *sVictory OP   Woman
over a year ago

HULL


"I always make sure my mouth is really wet, and that I have as much skin to skin contact between the cock and the surfaces of the inside of my mouth as I can. I use my tongue to lick in broad strokes (rather than using the tongue), and I don't tend to do it all very firmly or suck very hard unless prompted to.

Good luck!

xxx"

Thanks for the tongue and contact tip. That I will definitely have to give a go

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Speaking as a bloke who, if tired, could fall asleep standing up, I'm sure it wasn't you.

I've done the same. Sometimes it (a bj) can be very horny, sometimes it's actually just incredibly relaxing so it could well have been a combination of those things.

I usually fall asleep when getting a massage too which never goes down well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you

Coming from the fet scene use vibrating cock ring to assist. Ice, mints and cinnamon sweets create effects too lol but just keep going hun

Now I never thought of the vibro ring! Does that work like a cock ring as well though? I want him to come not to hold it off? where on earth do you find cinnamon sweets? I just got some throat numbing sweets so I can go deeper but they're more for me. I tried ice and it was messy "

Buy a larger ring size or just use the vibrating part agaist the cock. Cinnamon sweets try holland and Barrett or same effect from herbal sweets lol messy can be fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cupping the balls and a gentle massage is always a winner for me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very much doubt that it is anything to do with you, and he is going to be one hell of an embarrassed guy when he wakes up (be kind lol) and realised what he has missed. All good suggestions above btw.... personally I like a good mix of soft and firm and plenty of tongue action particularly just below the "head"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow and firm but no teeth!

Slow firm but something special about having teeth drawn over the head and sometimes even the head bitten (gently) communication is key when it comes to teeth. "

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Slow and firm but no teeth!

Ha! The teeth are definitely a danger zone with firm do you mean suction firm or pressure of your lips firm? I'm thinking I should have a masterclass at this "

There should be training courses for this.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you"

Take it as a compliment . I was told to close my eyes and experience the BJ fully. Guess what - I was so caught up that it soothed me to sleep.

We laugh at it now

I made up for it once everything had awakened

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

My advice to you would be; do whatever you enjoy doing, don't just take a cock in your mouth because you feel you should/want to please. The best blowjobs I've had were always from women who genuinely adore sucking cock, there's no real 'right' way to do it, as every cock is different, but the one thing that guys have in common is the fact that their lover loves sucking his cock, however she chooses to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you"

VS had this with her ex. Her suggestion is to blame it on him.

We're both agreed its a dick move and that its completly his fault.

We both hope you feel better soon and are sure you can knock a guys socks off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two-year-old spits on the floor...

Wife: "We don't spit! If it's in your mouth you swallow it!"

Husband: *raises eyebrows*

Wife: "You shut up!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said every mans different. I like slow at first but built up speed and firmness to make me cum.

I know this sounds stupid but ask the guy while your doing it and I'm sure he'll tell you

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By *iscoStarMan
over a year ago

Somewhere

Eye contact - look up at him and smile with his cock in your mouth. Let him know you are enjoying it.

The mental aspect is almost as big as the physical.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

It's definitely a compliment to you that he was so relaxed and in the zone that he fell asleep. It's not good etiquette, admittedly, so give him a few words ends when he wakes up, but don't get knocked back by the experience. Men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys and gals, I've just had a guy fall asleep on me whilst I was giving him a blow job and now my confidence has taken a slight knock.

I've always been unsure in the sex department because I haven't practised a lot with varied partners *cue violin* and whilst communication is key not a lot of people would tell you if you're pants in the bedroom. Blow jobs are one of those things that you're naturally gifted with or you work at it.

So what to do? Why, come here and ask you guys for blow job tips of course so I can practice practice practice. Your filthiest, simplest and best tips and advice would be lovely please

What makes you come? What is your go-to trick? Ladies and gents - over to you"

As someone who gives as well as takes, variety change pressure as well as rythym and look up his eyes. Don't be afraid to pause for dinner breaths and lick the underside as it's the most sensitive part. Xxx. I want some more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i like the tip underneath to be licked thenbtske the cock all the way down slowly . Making sure its all very wet

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By *ullswapcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Valleys

Wet and deep for me and don't forget about the balls!

Most importantly as others have said you have to be enjoying it yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always make sure my mouth is really wet, and that I have as much skin to skin contact between the cock and the surfaces of the inside of my mouth as I can. I use my tongue to lick in broad strokes (rather than using the tongue), and I don't tend to do it all very firmly or suck very hard unless prompted to.

Good luck!

xxx"

You sound my kind of pro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

now when you say blowjob do you use your hand a lot or is it just sucking because some women think that when she's got the top of the cock in her mouth and she's 'using her hand

thats a blowjob, but let me tell you thats just wanking him with your mouth around his knob there's alot more to a good blowjob than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the lady looking me in the eye whilst performing the act, especially if they've got glasses on, call me strange lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had 4 hours sleep in the last 36+ hours and still in work till 6am.

Tbh laying down and being slowly and gently aucked and licked till i fall asleep sounds far more relaxing and tempting than a vigorous porn star bj right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ram a finger in his ass, im sure that will wake him up!!

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