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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So , looking for a little feedback on my profile. Seem to be struggling a little with finding people.

Help me out then. All comments welcome.

Thanks in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your pics, you look friendly and approachable.

The profile is fine too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I like to think I'm both friendly & approachable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree, the pics are good.

could be the unshockable that you have on your profile as this can translate to 'up for anything', that can put some people off.

but obviously if you want people that are into more extreme stuff then it's better to leave it on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i agree, the pics are good.

could be the unshockable that you have on your profile as this can translate to 'up for anything', that can put some people off.

but obviously if you want people that are into more extreme stuff then it's better to leave it on."

Hhm never thought of that actually, good point. I'll fix now, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i agree, the pics are good.

could be the unshockable that you have on your profile as this can translate to 'up for anything', that can put some people off.

but obviously if you want people that are into more extreme stuff then it's better to leave it on.

Hhm never thought of that actually, good point. I'll fix now, cheers "

nice. open minded sounds much better.

good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Smashing! Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree with the previous posters but will keep quiet for fear of criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to us. Good to see that your photos are not all cock pics. Makes a nice change.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me too, nice pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I disagree with the previous posters but will keep quiet for fear of criticism."

No, no there'll be no criticism from me. Quite the opposite. I'm wanting honest opinions & am confident I've broad enough shoulders to carry the load. Please do..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I disagree with the previous posters but will keep quiet for fear of criticism.

No, no there'll be no criticism from me. Quite the opposite. I'm wanting honest opinions & am confident I've broad enough shoulders to carry the load. Please do.."

You have several people here agreeing that your profile is fine so it just goes to prove that I am no great judge.

I don't find the text in your profile particularly revealing or interesting. It is a bit generic without any humour or personality. Just sounds like the usual single male stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I disagree with the previous posters but will keep quiet for fear of criticism.

No, no there'll be no criticism from me. Quite the opposite. I'm wanting honest opinions & am confident I've broad enough shoulders to carry the load. Please do..

You have several people here agreeing that your profile is fine so it just goes to prove that I am no great judge.

I don't find the text in your profile particularly revealing or interesting. It is a bit generic without any humour or personality. Just sounds like the usual single male stuff."

Quite the opposite, as I must be doing something wrong, as I'm not getting the responses I'd like when messaging people.

I'll take that onboard & try & mix it up a little bit. Make it a touch more unique & personable I suppose - but first I'm having dinner! Ha , thanks for your honesty! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ach! Profile hidden, will check back later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ach! Profile hidden, will check back later "

Had to hide it whilst I blocked all males(turns out that my profile seemed to attract them due to this post lol)

Back to normal now

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

It's an ok profile..a little bland but I expect in time with more reading of the forums you'll be changing what you've written.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I would question why you have hidden the verification from a tvts?

The photos are good - you look healthy and happy. A smile goes a long way. Just from the photos, you look like good company.

I agree with hants earlier on - your profile has words but says nothing interesting about you. There's no 'hook' for a lady to chat to you. Name 3 things you're good at...or enjoy. Doesn't have to be sexual. At the moment, your profile is beige and I think a vibrant purple would be better. It might not be to everyone's taste but will certainly be someone's. I don't know anyone who likes beige.

Think of your profile as a shop window in a street full of other profile windows. How do you make a lady stop and visit, ie. message you. Answer: you have to make your shop window bright and interesting and full of things she can talk about.

Start writing....

Don't forget the chatrooms, forums, messaging, clubs, socials and bars

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would question why you have hidden the verification from a tvts?

The photos are good - you look healthy and happy. A smile goes a long way. Just from the photos, you look like good company.

I agree with hants earlier on - your profile has words but says nothing interesting about you. There's no 'hook' for a lady to chat to you. Name 3 things you're good at...or enjoy. Doesn't have to be sexual. At the moment, your profile is beige and I think a vibrant purple would be better. It might not be to everyone's taste but will certainly be someone's. I don't know anyone who likes beige.

Think of your profile as a shop window in a street full of other profile windows. How do you make a lady stop and visit, ie. message you. Answer: you have to make your shop window bright and interesting and full of things she can talk about.

Start writing....

Don't forget the chatrooms, forums, messaging, clubs, socials and bars "

Very informative response , all digested! Thank you very much mate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's an ok profile..a little bland but I expect in time with more reading of the forums you'll be changing what you've written."

Thank you, that's a common response so far I've found today "bland" so I'd best get my creative cap on & get to work! Ta x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an ok profile..a little bland but I expect in time with more reading of the forums you'll be changing what you've written.

Thank you, that's a common response so far I've found today "bland" so I'd best get my creative cap on & get to work! Ta x"

You got plenty of responses saying it was good, too. Do what you feel is right. For me, it was just not enticing but I may be on a different wavelength.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's an ok profile..a little bland but I expect in time with more reading of the forums you'll be changing what you've written.

Thank you, that's a common response so far I've found today "bland" so I'd best get my creative cap on & get to work! Ta x

You got plenty of responses saying it was good, too. Do what you feel is right. For me, it was just not enticing but I may be on a different wavelength."

I agreed. It can be improved. It needs to be an artisan sour dough loaf rather than an asda smart price thin sliced.

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