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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

What should you include in a 1st message to someone and what should you leave out ?

Cheers !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Leave out the word 'syphilis' and include the word 'interested'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep message short n sweet..."fuck now?" Is ideal.

Make sure you attach a few Vick pics...preferred if taken in a dirty bathroom....?

Only joking m8.

Taylor your message to the individual! There is NO generic message.

Most importantly READ their profile....don't waste time/messages on those you don't suit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock * not Vick lol!

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By *andB6969Couple
over a year ago

Well worth a visit, East Coast, Norfolk

Leave out 'tiny knob', include 'I'm really not that ugly that I have to wear this mask'

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

In my case, a message with a plan will usually get a response, even if its a decline.

But then that would entail reading my profile, and so few people do.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"Hello,

What should you include in a 1st message to someone and what should you leave out ?

Cheers !"

write your own messages i ain't doing it for you

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"Hello,

What should you include in a 1st message to someone and what should you leave out ?

Cheers !

write your own messages i ain't doing it for you "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also don't add your face pic

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

I would like to say that anyone should be able to write a simple message without advice on a forum, but actually it seems not!

A simple 'hello', 'please' 'thank you' goes a long way and most of us can see a generic message a mile away.

Just read the profile, tailor your message and be polite. If you don't get a reply, don't take it to heart as couples/ladies can get hundreds of messages a day and if you don't float their boat, they may not reply. Oh and include a face pic with your message as it shows, openness and trust; plus the recipient can see straight away if you're their 'type'.

If someone sends me a cock pic with 'Hi', it gets deleted without a response. If I get a 'wanna fuck', it gets deleted. If I get a 'you look nice' it gets deleted. Someone who makes an effort to engage will catch my attention but not necessarily to play.

The best one I got was a guy who said 'can I make you pregnant'. No hello, no please, no nothing lol I would usually delete and ignore but I couldn't resist telling the nob that 'you need to be a miracle worker as I don't have a womb!'

As I have the club, I need to remain professional but I can tell you, it takes every ounce of willpower at times to resist the urge to tell some of these uninspiring no marks to do one! lol I get around 250 messages a day and at least 50 of these are from chancers who don't know how to sell themselves and think I am a quantity and a woman who is desperate!

xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I would like to say that anyone should be able to write a simple message without advice on a forum, but actually it seems not!

A simple 'hello', 'please' 'thank you' goes a long way and most of us can see a generic message a mile away.

Just read the profile, tailor your message and be polite. If you don't get a reply, don't take it to heart as couples/ladies can get hundreds of messages a day and if you don't float their boat, they may not reply. Oh and include a face pic with your message as it shows, openness and trust; plus the recipient can see straight away if you're their 'type'.

If someone sends me a cock pic with 'Hi', it gets deleted without a response. If I get a 'wanna fuck', it gets deleted. If I get a 'you look nice' it gets deleted. Someone who makes an effort to engage will catch my attention but not necessarily to play.

The best one I got was a guy who said 'can I make you pregnant'. No hello, no please, no nothing lol I would usually delete and ignore but I couldn't resist telling the nob that 'you need to be a miracle worker as I don't have a womb!'

As I have the club, I need to remain professional but I can tell you, it takes every ounce of willpower at times to resist the urge to tell some of these uninspiring no marks to do one! lol I get around 250 messages a day and at least 50 of these are from chancers who don't know how to sell themselves and think I am a quantity and a woman who is desperate!

xx"

What about "gizzashagyabitch"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep message short n sweet..."fuck now?" Is ideal.

Make sure you attach a few Vick pics...preferred if taken in a dirty bathroom....?

Only joking m8.

Taylor your message to the individual! There is NO generic message.

Most importantly READ their profile....don't waste time/messages on those you don't suit!"

what they said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your help !

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Hello,

What should you include in a 1st message to someone and what should you leave out ?

Cheers !"

As if I'm going to share this? Sort it out for yourself (like the rest of us have done)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always go for "Howz u?" It makes blocking such an easy decision.

Put "Hi" in the subject line. It is so unusual the girls will fall into your lap.

Don't waste time getting to know anyone. Suggest sex within a maximum of two messages.

Hide your veris (if you have any), black profile pic and moaning updates all help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello FABUSER,

I have penis and can insert to you. Be mine?

Copy and paste to everyone within 150 miles then watch the 'tang roll in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all seriousness though, search online for inspiration on dating site first messages to get a few ideas, then sculpt to suit the person you are interested in. Take time to find suitable people first instead of shot gunning as it never works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best message for us are those that demonstrate they understand what we are looking for from a single guy.

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