FabSwingers.com forum: Managing Veris

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi,

My first post in the forums although I have been having a good nose on the sly, so be kind please

I was wondering how people choose to manage their veris. At the moment we have all but the newest which is a social displayed as well as the summary.

But...I personally don't bother to look at every veri on a profile when they start to rack up and wonder whether to just pick a few of the ones I like best, only display meets or figure out another way to do it.

On the other hand I don't want to be accused of hiding things, because happily so far they're all good.

I'd be really interested to hear what works for other people, and what opinions are.

Thanks, T x

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By *angbang junkieCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

I think most peopl, as you have done just display the most recent.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We choose to just show the summary. In our opinion we only need to show that we're verified and don't take too much h notice of other people's. As with everything on here I would say do what suits you best because you will never please everyone.

Welcome to the forum.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

On show are some selected ones that indicted a variety of who and what is on offer. No summary on show .... not a numbers game.

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

I show new ones for a few days then hide them. One of my regular meets got some abuse after he left me a veri so I tend to keep them hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a delete function for veri's that you may never chose to display !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the replies and the welcome. I'm not sure which way we'll jump yet but you've given me some ideas to think about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show the summary for the simple reason it doesn't give a clearer picture and if I did people would judge. Sad but true. I show social meet veris for a week out of respect for those that gave them and then I hide them.

I have veris I can't show due to them having my pervious name on fab in them and I was recognised. I do swap and change them around when I can be bothered

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I chose the last few and hid a load of old ones plus the one that says I'm a shit shag cos I don't want people to know that or the one that says I'm slightly better than a wank.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to swap and change veris , depending on what we are looking for .

We have literally hundreds of veris but tend to show more recent and relevant ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our verifications pretty well reflect our swinging journey since we have been using Fab. We go to a lot of parties and sometimes get verified by people we briefly chatted to, so if it doesn't look like we will keep in touch, we may take down their verification. But we keep the verifications from people we have played with, or those who are good friends. And we like our verifications to reflect what we are about, like an addition to what we say about ourselves in our profile. We always read the verifications of those we are interested in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I chose the last few and hid a load of old ones plus the one that says I'm a shit shag cos I don't want people to know that or the one that says I'm slightly better than a wank. "

Lol, tongue in cheek and teasing surely? You might as well unhide them though if you're going to tell us about them on here!

Thanks for all the replies, think I have a feeling for what we will do in future.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't display the graphic ones. Stick to some that I think sum me up; hot bitch that's a great fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show what you want if people dont like it or think your hiding somthing then they aint worth meeting.. its your profile so your rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I choose to show neither the summary or my verifications.

I don't read othersome either I base my opinion on how people are with me and prefer the people in engage with to do the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's really interesting reading the different takes people have on veris. I do like a little nose at them to get a snapshot but would never use them as a be all and end all.

As with many things on here you can't please all the people all the time. Feel like we're still finding our feet with the site and etiquette so thanks for the input!

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