FabSwingers.com forum: MM or MF?

By *adyboy-Daddy OP Couple
over a year ago

Andover

As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

We had a good few unpleasant messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're stuck between a rock and a hard place here... I think whichever way you decide should be fine as long as it's addressed in your profile as is now.

I think you're a gorgeous couple and have perved your pics many times lol.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "

My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.

Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I would say MF too and bearing in mind a large proportion of "straight" guys that message us on here also want to play with Paul you should be able to find plenty of playmates...good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do think that admin should put tv as an option in couple's profiles.

If Fab allows you to have a m/f profile go with it,and make sure anyone messaging you is aware.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments.

My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.

Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button"

I would agree..put mf, but explain in ur profile. Anyone who doesn't read profile is ignored/blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think you and your profile are fairly obvious as to who you are.

I wouldn't say that you are misleading whichever way you identify, but those that don't read your profile and just perve over photos.

I've seen your postings on the forums and I have looked at your profile and although of no interest to me as I one of those men that is actually straight and means it, I can't see where the confusion comes.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I can understand your quandary over this. As long as your profile explains things - what more can you do?

I guess in some respects I see things simplistically - if you have a cock then you are a bloke...

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

I think your profile makes people aware and only the ignorant would be confused. If that couple the other day got there's changed I don't see why yours shouldn't be changed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile name says it all to be honest. You have to be some sort of dumb ass to get upset over it.

But this is Fab after all and who reads profiles after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree that you should identify with what you're comfortable with. I think like attracts like, therefore if you portray how you feel, you'll attract what you're after. Good luck. Xx

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By *adyboy-Daddy OP Couple
over a year ago

Andover

" if you portray how you feel, you'll attract what you're after. Good luck. Xx"

Thanks for the responses people's, much appreciated.

Love the quote above. Could be the simplest summary of what to put in a profile ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "

I just wish I was nearer

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By *hat the hellCouple
over a year ago

Down South

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "

We think you are both gorgeous and should run your profile the way that you want to...bob odd else matters and if they don't like it ignore them x

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By *bione_1Man
over a year ago

Broxbourne

First of I think your profile is very honest and very hot to be honest.

You shouldn't take too much notice of the idiots on here, most people are decent and if it's not there thing they don't don't have to chat but the small minority can get you down whatever your profile says.

To the question.

I would say keep it as mm profile myself but must admit its difficult to know where to place a couple in your circumstances.

Anyway hope you have fun and love the profile as you have it right now very sexy of you both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MF in our opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if Erika is tg female then you are m/f couple, if she is tv then m/m. If guys can't be bothered to read a profile tell them where to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab should have more couples option combinations.

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By *adyboy-Daddy OP Couple
over a year ago

Andover

Thanks everyone for your comments.

Admin have very kindly amended our profile for which we are incredibly appreciative.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If one of you presents as female, then you should have a MF profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If one of you presents as female, then you should have a MF profile."

FWIW - my partner and I would look for a couple with a trans partner as the gender that they presented as. We wouldn't think to look for a couple with a transwoman under the MM category, and we wouldn't look for a transman under the FF category.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the way you posted the first time mf and explain it in your profile. Fuck those stupid guys who are insecure. Good luck to you guys and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But this is Fab after all and who reads profiles after all. "

Many of us read profiles..why does this comment keep repeating itself?

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By *ooking to watch93Man
over a year ago

near spalding

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

We had a good few unpleasant

messages from guys unhappy about this as they felt it was misleading. Usually after ignoring the profile name, the content which explained exactly who we are and messaging to say she was gorgeous and could they fuck her. I guess finding out you've been wanking over another guy is too much for some people to handle!

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments. "

100% MF as she classes herself a women who cares what anyone else thinks but it in your profile if they don't read it they should lose out anyway

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"As mentioned in another post, we are brushing the cobwebs off the profile.

There is an aspect that has given us a dilemma.

We first joined fab as an MF couple as Erika identifies as a fem.

Wasn't really bothered about the abuse as we found it amusing but we did realise we were mostly getting messeges from people using the who's near function, not the search function.

So we changed to MM which we are comfortable with as it's factually correct but again, if you're searching for an MM couple, you're probably not looking for us.

So here's the dilemma.

People searching for MF are not looking for us.

People searching for MM are not looking for us.

People searching for TV/TS may find Erika's single profile, but then take offence when she says she has a boyfriend.

So your opinions please? MM or MF?

Not looking for a debate on wether Erika and other TS are M or F but thoughts on which profile will be the most appropriate and give the best chance of being located via the search function.

If you've stuck it out this far, well done and thanks in advance for any comments.

My advice for what it's worth is why should Erica deny who she is. If she identifies as a woman then MF. Anything g else us denying her true self.

Their fault if they don't read the profile Get reacquainted with the block button"

This. If they don't read your profile, which clears it all up, then that's on them.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Go for MF in my opinion and first line of profile explain it. You will probably need to use short words as in my experience many don't seem to be able to read very well and often have a very short attention span.

Those that have a go just delete and block.

Best of luck.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

Oh. And Erika looks amazing

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Whatever you identify as is what's best

Fab do need to review the categories though.

And it's not your fault people don't read profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should put what you're happy with. You are a very sexy couple.

Erika is very sexy.

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