FabSwingers.com forum: Wait an hour or go home

By *kblueeyes OP Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

At least he txt, give it the hour but no more... Good luck xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

Texted before hand to say he was running an hour late, or texted you at the supposed meet time after being an hour late?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Oooh, I hate it when people are late. At least he warned you.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Wait the hour if you can and want to.Hope your meet shows ,miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def wait crap happens he informed you . Enjoy and have a great time X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if he is traveling a long distance to you? Could be the traffic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he was just a no show....he wouldn't have texted. Maybe something happened to delay him (let's hope not his mrs?). Or could be bad traffic like Shag said....

Give him the hour, or it will be you that's the no show....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you something better to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aw bit rubbish that.

if i was out and waiting for someone to arrive i'd be messaging guys to keep me company for an hour. but i'm a bitch like that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me saying I was late I'd be giving plenty of notice. If it's say an hour before the meet is set for I wouldn't entertain them I'd still wait the hour see if they show but I wouldn't be getting my hopes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends where you're waiting. Is it comfortable? Can you read or shop while you're waiting? Could you go home and wait there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Men are like buses .... there will be another one along in a minute .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right by you

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By *kblueeyes OP Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

He texted said on way then 2 min from meet said be an hour only 15 min drive so not waitin not worth it wats for u won't pass u

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

Phone him and see where he is, texts can hide a multitude of sins and you might just hear his mrs in the background

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

"Men are like buses .... there will be another one along in a minute .....

And of course they come in very different sizes and colours, and most importantly can take you on some very different journeys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd give him the time. we are all human and shit does pop up now and then. if he don't turn up in the hour. then give him a bell.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

At least he let you know.

We'd wait if already there and it was comfortable/inside but would be clear that we wouldn't give them any longer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He texted said on way then 2 min from meet said be an hour only 15 min drive so not waitin not worth it wats for u won't pass u "

hope you don't let it get to you and have a nice night anyway. men aren't that keen on socials i've noticed, or socialising, so i've pretty much stopped meeting now.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

It really just depends on the reason. A flat tire could hold somebody up. It could be legit....

You know this situation best to make a call on it.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"He texted said on way then 2 min from meet said be an hour only 15 min drive so not waitin not worth it wats for u won't pass u

hope you don't let it get to you and have a nice night anyway. men aren't that keen on socials i've noticed, or socialising, so i've pretty much stopped meeting now."

^^^ I agree with this, anytime I have done a social meet today, men aren't interested unless play is guaranteed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He texted said on way then 2 min from meet said be an hour only 15 min drive so not waitin not worth it wats for u won't pass u

hope you don't let it get to you and have a nice night anyway. men aren't that keen on socials i've noticed, or socialising, so i've pretty much stopped meeting now."

I've had several who've cancelled socials right at the last minute, and they turned out to have girlfriends or fiancées, etc. Very annoying. Genuinely single guys are more reliable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would wait give him the benefit of the doubt at least he did text hope he turns up and you get some naughty fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always up for a brew. Gets me out house and we'll I never expect anything first meet. If anything happens on the meet I let it be the Ladies choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 min journey can easily take an hour if something has happened. My normal route to the cinema is 15 mins... But I had to miss a movie because 30mins later id not moved.

He let you know. Id have waited the hour x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

I say go home....clearly it wasn't that important to him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

its been an hour now....has he showed?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

I say go home....clearly it wasn't that important to him!"

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

personally I'd actually give an hour and half to hear...I've had all roads near me stuffed because of a bad accident,and been unable to text daughter I was running late because of mobile problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

I would wait the hour only because he did text

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

op not been on over an hour so im hoping he showed up

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

Hope he shows.

My meet yesterday said sometime between 8:30 and 9:30.

Then they texted and said delayed and would 10:30 be okay? Oddly I said no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"op not been on over an hour so im hoping he showed up "

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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So did he show up?

I hope so op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had several who've cancelled socials right at the last minute, and they turned out to have girlfriends or fiancées, etc. Very annoying. Genuinely single guys are more reliable."

Exactly this

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Your call. I was late for one meet by an hour.

I did apologise at the meet and did say i fully understood if you went home and blocked me.

Things do and can happen. The response of my meet as to why she waited was her gut feeling told her I was genuine and would come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on OP, we all want to know if he showed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Come on OP, we all want to know if he showed !"

I don't want to know

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By *kblueeyes OP Couple
over a year ago

kilkenny

No show guys but he kept checkin to seeif I was on fab lol maybe cold feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No show guys but he kept checkin to seeif I was on fab lol maybe cold feet

"
having cold feet is no excuse. You can get thick socks

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By *ubbykittenWoman
over a year ago

Kent

That's terrible! I can't believe the behaviour of some people! Spineless . Not a man at all. Let's hope he has read this post and feels throughly ashamed of himself for behaving so shamefully.

If he changed his mind for any reason, them whilst disappointing for you, he should have had the decency to tell you he isn't coming so you aren't left there waiting for him.

I am sorry he wasted your time but pleased he didn't get the pleasure of your company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

F**ksake, if I'd of read this thread yesterday I'd of advised go home!

"I'll be an hour late do you mind awfully??" Go f**k ya self!!

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

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Very sorry he wasted your time op.

Make sure to report his profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A no show is bad enough but to drag it out by saying he's running late is time wasting to the extreme. Sorry to hear this happened OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him and move on, his loss

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"It really just depends on the reason. A flat tire could hold somebody up. It could be legit....

You know this situation best to make a call on it. "

Once took me 45 minutes to get a wheel off as the nuts had been tightened with an air hammer at the tyre place. Even with a long torque wrench and a lot of cursing - it was a major struggle.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"meant to have a meet tonight, he texted be an hour late shud I stay or shud I go not impressed

If it was someone id met before - I'd wait, Someone new - then I would know whether to call it off by the conversations I would have had prior to this. I rarely meet without several conversations beforehand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men are like buses .... there will be another one along in a minute .....

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