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By *oodprincess69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?

I don't see the point in it,

So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just dont reply to those you arnt intrested in. In the rules it sayes a no reply means a no thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not at all some will always take the huff however you say no xx

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside


"Just dont reply to those you arnt intrested in. In the rules it sayes a no reply means a no thank you xxx "

I have on my profile that I don't respond to messages from people I'm not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just dont reply to those you arnt intrested in. In the rules it sayes a no reply means a no thank you xxx

I have on my profile that I don't respond to messages from people I'm not interested in. "

I had that n got more abuse lol so now I just delete. If they message again it's a block. Xxx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?

I don't see the point in it,

So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "

Its not down to you to change your approach because they're rude. We rarely have an abusive response to a refusal but if we do we block without a second thought, we also have on our profile that no reply means a polite no thank you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Say nothing and just block. Time is too valuable to bother with people you don't know, don't want to meet and never will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we just ignore people who message us who aren't our cup of tea, people who send us friend invites without a message just get a blocked as well.

Not had any nasty replies yet. Fingers crossed.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Only MF couples and single ladies can message me. Makes it more manageable. I still delete messages from couples and women if I'm not interested and don't usually get any problems.

I've blocked single men from messaging me.

I only message those I'm interested in then forget it after.

No point wasting time and energy on the little things. Otherwise you don't have any fun at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?

I don't see the point in it,

So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "

you could reply and say no thanks so they know you aren't interested....then block them, as this sort of response occurs all too often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?

I don't see the point in it,

So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "

You can always say thanks but no thanks and then block. I never understand why people are reluctant to block. It is not rude. It is a site tool and very useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok here goes, I try to be nice and polite to everyone including when I'm not interested in them, a polite thanks but no thanks happy swinging etc, I've just turned down a sub male as I'm not interested, so why send a nasty name calling message back?

I don't see the point in it,

So is there a more polite way of saying thanks very much but I'm not interested? "

Think of that as a lucky escape OP. We have had this a few times of late. That's why sometimes, the old, delete without replying is easier as harsh as that sounds. It doesn't open up the avenue for further conversation/abuse. Report & block.

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By *oodprincess69 OP   Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

Thank you all for your advice, it's helped xxx

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