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By *isterPepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Central Swindon

Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much was it and what does she look like? Seriously though, sounds like a piss take. Unless you took 'fantasy' money, from a Monopoly game or something.

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By *isterPepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Central Swindon

I was just thinking I never asked/she never specified how much so I don't know. If it was like a token amount I suppose it might be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"

If it was someone on here you should report them as this is strictly against site rules

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"
If it is genuine role play , she will hand you the cash back just before you leave . If she doesn't , she's a prostitute . And if she denys she's a prostitute after keeping your cash.....she's a fucking black tongued , Pinochio nosed pants on fire liar as well . Cash for sex : Prostitute . If you are happy with this , fill your boots....and her purse .

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By *isterPepper OP   Man
over a year ago

Central Swindon

Funny thing is she's got 4 verifiations from last year. I suppose the truth is in the fact I explained how I felt about the proposition and she's gone silent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget to get a receipt and a refund lol.

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Report her to the police for receiving swollen goods .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"

Take monopoly money

Or Zimbabwean dollars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny thing is she's got 4 verifiations from last year. I suppose the truth is in the fact I explained how I felt about the proposition and she's gone silent. "

There's a possibility that she may have said it in an attempt to put you off. Always difficult to tell why some people specify certain requirements in messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she was on here, she should be reported as that's against the rules.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I've had a few messers n scammers n I've heard of this one who when ur playing with her her hubby is hidding taking vids n photos to scam u . Don't pay any woman ok . If u want to pay u would better going to a lady of d nite . At least u might b safer

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I wouldnt even do it with someone i trust... pay them for sex.??!. prostitute comes to mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How much was it and what does she look like? Seriously though, sounds like a piss take. Unless you took 'fantasy' money, from a Monopoly game or something."

Lool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't forget to get a receipt and a refund lol."

Take a business client and claim it as a business expense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

came across one recently who asked for contribution for diesel money!

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I've done this roleplay before but it wasn't with a stranger, an occasional fuckbuddy. The amounts were nominal which added to the sleezy factor I wanted. I even had a price list for certain activities. A few friends have told me they had the same fantasy. If it's nominal amounts, I don't see the problem.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Tell her your fantasy is to pay £1.34 tops. (If she's any good)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've done this roleplay before but it wasn't with a stranger, an occasional fuckbuddy. The amounts were nominal which added to the sleezy factor I wanted. I even had a price list for certain activities. A few friends have told me they had the same fantasy. If it's nominal amounts, I don't see the problem. "

I'm thinking about this. £5 a hole, buy two and get the third one free sounds about right to me. An insultingly small sum would add to the fun

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll


"I've done this roleplay before but it wasn't with a stranger, an occasional fuckbuddy. The amounts were nominal which added to the sleezy factor I wanted. I even had a price list for certain activities. A few friends have told me they had the same fantasy. If it's nominal amounts, I don't see the problem.

I'm thinking about this. £5 a hole, buy two and get the third one free sounds about right to me. An insultingly small sum would add to the fun "

Sounds like daylicht robbery but then I do live in Scotland where we like to keep our sporrans tightly shut!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Would you get e refund if she's a shite shag?

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth

On a more serious note!

We were told by a couple who "pop up" on FAB every so often, that they would meet us so long as we paid for their meal and drinks.

We struggled to find the taxi fare acceptable though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it."

A Spunk Bucket ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BOGOF ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Current status someone has in my area is asking if anyone wants to buy them something from their amazon wishlist.....wtf is that all about???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts are that if it's somebody you've met before (a few times I'd add) or she hands the money back once the role play is over then that's fine if she keeps it its prostituion

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"

Suggest toy town or Monopoly money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a chicken with you and barter

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

Mcr

Is this one the "taboo"things I keep seeing ? I still don't know what the taboo things people keep talking about on profiles but this fits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Current status someone has in my area is asking if anyone wants to buy them something from their amazon wishlist.....wtf is that all about??? "

Im so tempted to stick an amazon wishlist up, i need to furnish a house soon damnit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you get e refund if she's a shite shag? "

If you have sex with a prostitute then dont pay her is it rape or shoplifting

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By *ishopstippleMan
over a year ago

Purley


"Would you get e refund if she's a shite shag?

If you have sex with a prostitute then dont pay her is it rape or shoplifting "

Could be shoplifting! As she'd agreed to sex so it cant be rape. Just prey she doesn't sue you for breach of contract.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Go to kitchen draw ...

Rummage through contents...

Find old out of circulation currency...

Give her that and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you get e refund if she's a shite shag?

If you have sex with a prostitute then dont pay her is it rape or shoplifting "

Probably a punch in the mouth or a kick in the balls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you get e refund if she's a shite shag?

If you have sex with a prostitute then dont pay her is it rape or shoplifting

Could be shoplifting! As she'd agreed to sex so it cant be rape. Just prey she doesn't sue you for breach of contract. "

It is rape. She/he consented to sex for money, without that money there is no consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it."

Lol this tickled me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

Lol this tickled me "

i'm always half serious me.

it's honestly how i feel some days, so many guys think you're a service so i think fuck it should i just charge them for services they're after? on days when nobody is floating my boat, which is often lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

Lol this tickled me

i'm always half serious me.

lol that would shock half of them by the sounds of it... as most are complaining about buying there date 4 the evening a meal

it's honestly how i feel some days, so many guys think you're a service so i think fuck it should i just charge them for services they're after? on days when nobody is floating my boat, which is often lately."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's some ill mannered guys on this site....

Half dont read ur profile and the other half just ignore it

and then there r the really creepy 1s that like u say think there owed a shag as there on the site... or the real weird 1s who set up fake profiles to collect pics

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Ive got an argos book list of things id like ....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"

ask her how much and if she intends to keep the money, that will give you your answer. However I reckon I already know. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it most probably is a duck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?

ask her how much and if she intends to keep the money, that will give you your answer. However I reckon I already know. If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck it most probably is a duck."

Especially if they get a message saying 'fancy a duck?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

Lol this tickled me

i'm always half serious me.

lol that would shock half of them by the sounds of it... as most are complaining about buying there date 4 the evening a meal

it's honestly how i feel some days, so many guys think you're a service so i think fuck it should i just charge them for services they're after? on days when nobody is floating my boat, which is often lately."

yeah i get offered a lot of socials that slowly change into only coming round to mine for sex after chatting for a while or they just stop talking, i offer to pay for myself obviously.

i've stopped talking to most guys now, hardly any i would class as give a shit about me as anything other than a sex toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel for u huni I'd hate being a single lady on here I can only imagine the amount of crap u have to deal with.... I wouldn't dare meet a soul lol x

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool

As you haven't met this lady, I would say she is chancing her luck and seeing if she can actually get away with escorting on here (assume it was on here).

Depending on how the message was worded, she could just be saying this to get rid of you if she is inundated with sleezy guys.

I think that the former is more likely though as I have heard of this before.

Just a reminder to anyone out there who is thinking of this...it is not an offence to sell sex for money but it is illegal to pay for sex...so I'd be a bit worried about entrapment too as there are some right feckin weirdos on here who get kicks out of shit like this!! xx

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

There's some ladies from Birmingham who spam on here all the time with similar.

I think they get away with it because they say that the monies are to cover fees for the room, and 'stuff'(!!?).

I really think Fab should get it together and kick them out. Doesn't take a genius to see that they're pimps. 10-30 people to cover 'costs' at ten/twenty/more a pop?

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

Lol this tickled me

i'm always half serious me.

it's honestly how i feel some days, so many guys think you're a service so i think fuck it should i just charge them for services they're after? on days when nobody is floating my boat, which is often lately."

Aww!

I do not believe you are struggling for patrons! xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"maybe she's sick of being used as a free cum dump? idk.

but yeah she's after cash if she's asking for it.

Lol this tickled me

i'm always half serious me.

it's honestly how i feel some days, so many guys think you're a service so i think fuck it should i just charge them for services they're after? on days when nobody is floating my boat, which is often lately.

Aww!

I do not believe you are struggling for patrons! xxxx "

thanks. i'm struggling to find anyone i fancy, that's all. feeling a bit let down about guys as well and not enjoying NSA any more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offered money many times, always refused as I am certainly not a 'poor Student' anyway!

Administrator saw one of the posts, removed them from site and sent me a message to than me for not accepting.

Others I have received since, tell them what happened on the past and they have appreciated the warning.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"Offered money many times, always refused as I am certainly not a 'poor Student' anyway!

Administrator saw one of the posts, removed them from site and sent me a message to than me for not accepting.

Others I have received since, tell them what happened on the past and they have appreciated the warning. "

Was it a forum post or a private message? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Private message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has been a post i have seen a few occasions on the site and all you can do is either accept the offer and hope its not to expensive or report the message asking for money to Admin and let them deal with it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK and don't all jump down my throat here but playing devils advocate so I don't have an opinion either way....

Two ladies book a hotel room for £60 and then advertise a gang bang charging 10 guys £30 each thus making a nice profit. The guys are paying for sex....right or wrong?

A woman I know chatted to a guy who invited her to his, and said he could arrange a few guys for a little mmmf, found out after that the guys weren't his friends and had paid him for the pleasure.

This is different to most well run parties where the party organiser would say any type of sex is never guaranteed.

Just thoughts really.

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By *ownhouseTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Birkenhead/Liverpool


"OK and don't all jump down my throat here but playing devils advocate so I don't have an opinion either way....

Two ladies book a hotel room for £60 and then advertise a gang bang charging 10 guys £30 each thus making a nice profit. The guys are paying for sex....right or wrong?

A woman I know chatted to a guy who invited her to his, and said he could arrange a few guys for a little mmmf, found out after that the guys weren't his friends and had paid him for the pleasure.

This is different to most well run parties where the party organiser would say any type of sex is never guaranteed.

Just thoughts really."

OK first scenario...it's like running a private party and not guaranteeing sex. People make money on parties all the time.

Second scenario is different as the guy is almost pimping the lady by making a promise of sex. The guys are also paying expecting sex regardless.

I personally think the whole sex trade thing needs overhauling in this country. Make it legal and controlled for the sex workers and the lines are less blurred. I actually don't have a problem whatsoever with people paying for sex...why not? I do have a problem with people using the facade of swinging to prostitute themselves though. If you're asking for money guaranteed sex, it's prostitution, simple. In swinging, sex is never guaranteed whether money has changed hands or not. If we had better laws this would still go on but would be unnecessary.

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree but as I said was just putting it out there following a discussion I had with a close friend the other day (male) and was just interested to see others points of view.

And the differences from where the ladies organise it and charge and a guy organises it and gets the women and charges the guys. A fine line in some cases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a lady suggesting that she'd like to try being paid "for the thrill" as a fantasy. I'm not totally against that as a role play, but I've never met this girl, so it didn't feel like it would be a fantasy, but actually like she might actually just be after cash. Have I misread this completely, or would that normally only be something you'd do with someone you trust?"

guy's sometimes want to use me like a chat line but i've got wise to that now too tight to pay £1.50 a minute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be no money offered for sex on fab. I would be extremely offended if a man offered to pay me for sex and would report him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK and don't all jump down my throat here but playing devils advocate so I don't have an opinion either way....

Two ladies book a hotel room for £60 and then advertise a gang bang charging 10 guys £30 each thus making a nice profit. The guys are paying for sex....right or wrong?

A woman I know chatted to a guy who invited her to his, and said he could arrange a few guys for a little mmmf, found out after that the guys weren't his friends and had paid him for the pleasure.

This is different to most well run parties where the party organiser would say any type of sex is never guaranteed.

Just thoughts really."

... creative guty a I suppose if the lady enjoyed her afternoon, week what t he'll!

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