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Is my age a problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys and girls, just wondering if you could shed a little insight on why I might not be having much luck?

Is It something to do with my profile or my age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because you're male.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Everything looks in order to me

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By *t my DesiresWoman
over a year ago

Bitchville

Too young!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there is anything wrong with your profile at all, it's just a case of waiting. Maybe get involved in the forums to let your personality shine but apart from that it's just a waiting game

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Hey guys and girls, just wondering if you could shed a little insight on why I might not be having much luck?

Is It something to do with my profile or my age?"

you have to accept that there are 100s of single guys to every cpl and single lady, and a lot will have kids older than you,

both of which puts you at a disadvantage on here,

I can't say get yourself to a club as most have an over 21 policy, your best bet is getting known in the forums and in the chat rooms

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I agree its not your age its your gender that's the problem. If you don't think of this site as a place to meet women you will be fine.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

For some yes your age will be an issue, having children older than yourself.

Others no not a problem.

Get your personality across on the forums and it will take time.

Good luck.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Not for me but put more picures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was wondering the same :P a bit like stapling jelly to a wall even getting a reply haha

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Possibly age.....possibly lousy messages?

Your profile reads quite interestingly tbh.

It is ironic that many young men think their age is an attractive trait but in many cases, it isn't. How one reacts to that insight can be quite revealing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have shoes older than you op, so not for me. However, there's nothing wrong with your profile per se and you don't have a cock pic up!

There are just a lot of men and the competition is tough. Hot bod always an advantage, so good luck, keep on in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me definitely your age, you've a nice body but the pictures are awful and don't show it in a good light, profile reads well though least you've made an effort to put 'pen to paper' so do speak

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Your profile looks fine, you are to young for us but there are plenty who look for guys your age. Good luck X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with your profile, but for the type of friendships we pursue with single men, we find it works better with older guys, but that's just us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys and girls, just wondering if you could shed a little insight on why I might not be having much luck?

Is It something to do with my profile or my age?"

stick with it.....you are bound to be someone's cup tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait until you are older, then moan about not having many private meets, I go to clubs now, people can see me face to face and I am having a great time now.

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By *am2016Man
over a year ago

west Midlands

I have the same problem mate, nothing to do with your age, I think my profile needs changing, any ideas ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers people, guess I'll just stick at it and try my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers people, guess I'll just stick at it and try my best"

You look like a boy in your profile pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree its not your age its your gender that's the problem. If you don't think of this site as a place to meet women you will be fine."

Not his gender, age for us would be the issue. Same age as our eldest, which puts us off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your age would be a no from us as we have children all older than you,saying that we have seen many a profile actively seeking young guys.good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys and girls, just wondering if you could shed a little insight on why I might not be having much luck?

Is It something to do with my profile or my age?"

If it is a problem. Think of the positives. You'll eventually get to a stage where you could fit the bill and meet the suggested age criteria. Difficult to do it the other way (unless you fake your age. But no one ever does that on this site )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age us big problem for us as we have children older. But also you say looking for couples around your own age. . So older couples maybe put off x marie

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"Patience is the key lol"

I must admit your very patient

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

read this:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/support/494441

its a good fab support thread about swinging from an experenced swinger

2ndly get rid of the profile pic, although its a face pic which is good it makes you look like a chav(esp with baseball cap) and some people have preconceptions about them which interms makes you look even younger.

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