FabSwingers.com forum: Recognised

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been chatting to a couple and when it came time to swap face pics, realised that I knew the female from work. Anyone had similar, what should we do?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"We have been chatting to a couple and when it came time to swap face pics, realised that I knew the female from work. Anyone had similar, what should we do?"

We are all on here for the same thing try saying don't we work at the same place and see if they block you

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

"We have been chatting to a couple and when it came time to swap face pics, realised that I knew the female from work. Anyone had similar, what should we do?"

Depends on what your comfy with but if it's a case of too close for comfort leave it there and respect discretion. Dont say to much in case they recognise you from work too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have been chatting to a couple and when it came time to swap face pics, realised that I knew the female from work. Anyone had similar, what should we do?"

Yes a colleague messaged us with a face picture, we blocked him it was too close for comfort.

You must do what you're most comfortable with.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

You could do a few things really.

Tell them that you recognise them so won't be sending your face pic as it's too close to home. Obviously that puts them at a huge disadvantage as you have something over them so discretion is key.

You could just go cold on them and block with no further reply.

You could let them down by saying you don't find them attractive enough to want to take things further (ouch but fair).

We don't have anything against swinging with people we know from vanilla life but you need to trust them that they won't leak information. If you don't think you could trust them then I'd cut them loose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you swapped face pics. Assuming by swap you both sent photos then they may already have recognised you?

You could just say that you both work in the same place and ask them or her if it would make them uncomfortable? If it does then block and move on, if not it could be the start of a friendship. If that's what you want?

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Shouldn't be a problem of you can keep your work relationship professional. No asking for a quicky at lunch... That sort of thing.

The only problem is if either side wants to mix business with pleasure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You swapped pics? - Did she recognise you too and hasn't said anything? Maybe they are worried now too - could be time for a chat with them assuring discretion etc and deciding whether to take it further

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

If they recognize u too they might be equally horrified so just be honest and say u dint think it's good to proceed.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

It's inevitable you'll run into someone you know from your regular life (work or otherwise) if you swing enough. Especially at parties, clubs etc. Unless I hated that person for other reasons, it wouldn't bother me. Enough coworkers have over the years seen me get picked up by different men from work at closing time so they all probably know I swing....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the first people I chatted to ended up being an old school acquaintence and his wife. All is fine, but we don't play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy, fake your own death, and never leave the house again.

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By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied

You did well to recognise them .we have met may people from on here and very few look anything like their pictures

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"We have been chatting to a couple and when it came time to swap face pics, realised that I knew the female from work. Anyone had similar, what should we do?"

It's fine tbh if you know them and asking what to do you must know yourself you'd like too lol X go for it but just remember think about what happens when/if work gets in the way. We've been there done that and still friends xxxx

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