FabSwingers.com forum: How to get a female threesome advice

By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Hi everyone, Mrs here, know you single females have your pick from plenty couples and respect you don't just meet anyone on here but what advice would you give us to get a ffm going. This is as much for me and my partner, I really want the whole girl on girl to. Both of us pleasuring her

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple
over a year ago

Sheerness

Watching this with interest as it is what we wonder x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Initially a good profile which doesn't list 'can't do this', 'can't do that' with the male half. It has to be a 3 way thing. Pics of both of you on your profile. I would ask for a social with both before any playing. If we all got on after that then take it from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would say just chat - and sometimes it's just the case of being in the right place at the right time. As in sending a message. Be prepared to chat for a while in a non-pushy way and see if you think you'd all get on.

Let the ladies chat on the phone - I'll always offer this as I want a single lady to know that I'm real and very interested in her, not just into it for the sake of my other half. Plus always a social first (with just me if that's her preference) and go from there.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi everyone, Mrs here, know you single females have your pick from plenty couples and respect you don't just meet anyone on here but what advice would you give us to get a ffm going. This is as much for me and my partner, I really want the whole girl on girl to. Both of us pleasuring her

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please "

For me a couple that thinks like you! Seem to find a few couples where the female isn't fully bi or as others have said its not a full three way play everyone needs to play with each other as it just doesn't work for me. A nice relaxed social meet is good see if there is an attraction between all three.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'how to get a female'......

sounds like the start of instructions on setting a trap for one, elmer fudd styleeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please "

Why would a woman want a straight woman to pleasure her?

And if you're pleasuring a woman, why do you still call yourself straight?

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By *bwitchedwarlock69Couple
over a year ago

Batley, West Yorkshire

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please "

Find a woman you both find attractive and hopefully vice versa and...Seduce her...x

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Thanks for your replies everyone, will take note of all comments:

more pics of Mr on site,im sure he won't mine me getting him naked

Chat more to the lady's, we enjoy socials anyway so that we don't mind, and I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol any clubs other than xtasia better to go to, heard chams is a good idea? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol"

If you're bisexual, you should set your profile to say that. Currently it says straight. I doubt many women will meet you guys for a threesome with bisexual action if they don't think you're bisexual.

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please

Why would a woman want a straight woman to pleasure her?

And if you're pleasuring a woman, why do you still call yourself straight?"

Thanks for pointing that out,i didn't realise I had put straight, now changed to bi sexual.. thank u

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol

Thanks hun, I just replied to your last quote, I didn't realise was still straight on there, obvs since swinging iv found I'm just as attracted to the women and enjoy them as I do the men, so hence why was straight on there. Thank you for pointing it out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy... there really isn't a secret, although most of ours have come as a direct result of having something different to offer that other couples can't.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please "

I'd say it's more likely to happen at a club, myself and all of my group are bi but struggle to find chilled out, attractive couples to play with so we tend to stick to single men. We are at xtasia on a Friday at the moment so if you are there you're more than welcome to come over and chat with us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'how to get a female'......

sounds like the start of instructions on setting a trap for one, elmer fudd styleeeee

Sorry but that's funny

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please

Thank you I will take that offer up

we have heard single females say it's hard to trust a couple as it's normally mainly all the man wanting it and the women not or the women turns jealous but we def a easy going couple, love the club side of things and both love women so suppose it's just us getting out there and introducing ourselves xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol

Do you play separately? FWIW, I'm much more likely to play with a woman, and then perhaps after meeting her a couple of times play with her partner.

I actively avoid couples who aren't open to playing separately, so I wonder if other people are like me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'how to get a female'......

sounds like the start of instructions on setting a trap for one, elmer fudd styleeeee

Sorry but that's funny"

a little brevity in the midst of yet another 'unicorn hunting' thread is my raison d'etre

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

There's some good advice already been given but just to add to it, stop looking fir a female to join you and start becoming friends with people. It's a big thing for a single girl to join a couple they do not know for sex. If she knew you both then there's a greater chance she would be intrested. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easier if the female of the couple does the admin duties but with input from the male. Make sure you don't rush anything by asking too soon and get to know each other to see if she's like to take it further. Have a laugh, they are human after all!!

Hang around the forum, get your face known then you're just not another message in their inbox.

Good luck

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol

Do you play separately? FWIW, I'm much more likely to play with a woman, and then perhaps after meeting her a couple of times play with her partner.

I actively avoid couples who aren't open to playing separately, so I wonder if other people are like me."

Can't see why not, iv had some play with girls in clubs while other half as sat back and watched and he as always said he wouldn't mind if met ladies alone as long as told him all the details when get home

Some of the full swaps we have had the females have not been interested in the girl on girl to much, seemed more interested in the males or there partners even my oh said that on the last meet we had x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought of an idea,

There seams to be loads of couples wanting to meet a girl for a ffm.

Why not all start a sort of club, taking it in turns with your female going to another couples house or party?.

If you get what I mean

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"There's some good advice already been given but just to add to it, stop looking fir a female to join you and start becoming friends with people. It's a big thing for a single girl to join a couple they do not know for sex. If she knew you both then there's a greater chance she would be intrested. Xxxxx"

Thank you, will definitely start chatting more, even if met the female for socials alone may be a good idea to begin with xxx

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"I thought of an idea,

There seams to be loads of couples wanting to meet a girl for a ffm.

Why not all start a sort of club, taking it in turns with your female going to another couples house or party?.

We actually asked a couple we been seeing regularly if they would be interested in this, me go there house one night and vice versa but the male half said he couldn't sit at home while she played with us, even tho my oh would be home on the other night xx

If you get what I mean"

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Socials, clubs and parties...... and stop trying so hard.

Nothing more off-putting than a couple coming on too strong.

Make friends, mingle, network, let the ladies get to know you, and it will happen.

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By *he Master JMan
over a year ago

Southall

"'how to get a female'......

sounds like the start of instructions on setting a trap for one, elmer fudd styleeeee

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sorry my attempt at humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought of an idea,

There seams to be loads of couples wanting to meet a girl for a ffm.

Why not all start a sort of club, taking it in turns with your female going to another couples house or party?.

If you get what I mean"

But I bet he would have been ok if it would have just you going round to his.

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

"I thought of an idea,

There seams to be loads of couples wanting to meet a girl for a ffm.

Why not all start a sort of club, taking it in turns with your female going to another couples house or party?.

If you get what I mean

But I bet he would have been ok if it would have just you going round to his. "

Exactly, my oh was fine with it as long as he got his fun aswel, he didn't care if I went there, but her partner said no he wouldn't like it having to stay home alone while she came to us. Always a idea for couples though in future isn't it, think we should start some kind of club or group haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said you wouldn't ask as you didn't want to come across pushy. However a polite message to girl with a few face pictures wouldnt be seen as pushy.

If you don't ask you don't get x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we make our ladies feel special - talk to them without rushing or pushing and find out what their fantasies are and if we can fulfill one or more of them - we like to make her the centre of our attentions - we have given warm oil massages - shared showers - collared one on request - we play as a 3sum so all involved are happy - one wanted to watch us play together part way through the meet so we did but soon was the 3 of us together again - make the connection personal to them but make sure you are in your own comfort zone too - result is 3 relaxed sexy happy fulfilled but wanting more people -

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

so pics of both of you..

make sure you are clear on what you actually want..as in, what are your limits..

simple is better for a play meet. we like that, wed be pleased to experience..something. is better communication than we dont do this, you cant do that..

i look for three way equal dynamic, thats relaxed and friendly..if you do have limits let them be known upfront..

the more i know what the couple wants the more i know if i will click with them or not..

be prepared to meet on neutral turf...you cant have it all your own way..

ask what she wants and be willing to add that into play...

some couples treat you like you are the accessory and so some of us prefer to meet with say two singles, than feel that way..

likewise any cracks in the relationship, its for the man, she feels pressure or inexperienced, we are awesome at picking up on that stuff...

so be honest, be clear and be yourselves xx

hope this helps x

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"we make our ladies feel special - talk to them without rushing or pushing and find out what their fantasies are and if we can fulfill one or more of them - we like to make her the centre of our attentions - we have given warm oil massages - shared showers - collared one on request - we play as a 3sum so all involved are happy - one wanted to watch us play together part way through the meet so we did but soon was the 3 of us together again - make the connection personal to them but make sure you are in your own comfort zone too - result is 3 relaxed sexy happy fulfilled but wanting more people - "

me, me please..;)

see it works xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me, me please..;)

see it works xxx

we know we get along already and we are ready when you are - xxxxxx

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol

Do you play separately? FWIW, I'm much more likely to play with a woman, and then perhaps after meeting her a couple of times play with her partner.

I actively avoid couples who aren't open to playing separately, so I wonder if other people are like me."

I was just about to ask if you play separately. We do and so do our close friends so the majority of our threesome play has been a combination of us and a third from another couple, or one of us going to another couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm def def bi, I'm as much into the ladies as Mr is lol

Thanks hun, I just replied to your last quoted, I didn't realise was still straight on there, obvs since swinging iv found I'm just as attracted to the women and enjoy them as I do the men, so hence why was straight on there. Thank you for pointing it out x

Do you play separately? FWIW, I'm much more likely to play with a woman, and then perhaps after meeting her a couple of times play with her partner.

I actively avoid couples who aren't open to playing separately, so I wonder if other people are like me."

I would prefer to do this also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I'll be initially interested if there is equal focus on the male in the profile and in the pictures. If I see a profile where all the photos are if the lady I just don't bother going any further.

A profile that is friendly and respectful as opposed to listing what people don't like and bitching about fab will also get my attention.

Being up for a social is also another bonus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done full swaps etc and xtasia club visits. We don't really approach single women as don't want to come across pushy but any nice words of advice for us please "

You seem friendly enough and your pics are good - but I wouldn't consider even replying to a couple unless there were a few good, clear pics of the male on the profile too! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'how to get a female'......

sounds like the start of instructions on setting a trap for one, elmer fudd styleeeee

Sorry but that's funny"

"I'm gonna get you, you wascely wabbit"

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By *elovetofuck2 OP Couple
over a year ago

cannock

Thanks for all the advice, it as been great to have a insight to your sides of our profile, will be taking some pics of the Mr the wkend and upload them on here, get him naked

thanks again everyone, it's been really helpful x

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