FabSwingers.com forum: Seeking Couples Yet Only Verified By Single Men?

By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Hey Guys and (mainly the) Gals,

Why do so many single women who claim to be bisexual and are looking for couples, only have verifications from single guys?

I'm keen to know what is so scary or worrying about meeting a couple? Scarred of meeting a psycho-bitch (or indeed male) who has second thoughts about sharing? Feel vulnerable about meeting two people? Scarred that you won't enjoy being the proverbial meat in someone else's sandwich?

Keen to know your thoughts!

Warmest regards,

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be because they can't find a couple where they are attracted to both of them.

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By *nterracial2Couple
over a year ago

Ribble Valley

We come across this often in our search for a bi lady. We've been told a couple of things including them feeling nervous/anxious about the prospect of meeting us together, even just socially. But we can't make you feel comfortable through messages alone. Suppose our verifications will show we are genuine fabbers with open minds!

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

Couldn't possibly be that.... We're both gorgeous

I clearly jest, but in reality there's plenty of (both) hot couples to pick and choose from - perhaps they are just over-estimating their own bisexuality?

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an awful lot easier to find a single man than a couple, let alone a single woman.

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

"We come across this often in our search for a bi lady. We've been told a couple of things including them feeling nervous/anxious about the prospect of meeting us together, even just socially. But we can't make you feel comfortable through messages alone. Suppose our verifications will show we are genuine fabbers with open minds!"

Exactly our experience. Not helped by the fact we only play occasionally so most of our casual verifications have now left the site so it looks like we're hiding something [Admin please work out how to fix this].

When we do meet we very quickly make them feel at ease. Or just get on so well that we all get utterly-wasted to the extent no one could walk let alone play with one another! Not one of our most-successful meets but it made the "second date" far more relaxed and pleasurable!

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single bi ladies have there pick of people to play with, 1 criteria that turns most of them off is couples who are generally looking for single females only (or the very special couple) alarm bells ring! Is the male of the couple not happy to see there lady with another man? Are there jeolousy issues? Will the play be all about the couple fulfilling a fantasy? Etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm p'd off by being used by them as a "Unicorn" I swing for my pleasure not for others "use". So many times have I arrived to a Bi fem couples, only to find out, she's testing her bi side for her man and not really wanting to do it.

I have verys on mine by couples. As well as single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey Guys and (mainly the) Gals,

Why do so many single women who claim to be bisexual and are looking for couples, only have verifications from single guys?

Keen to know your thoughts!

Warmest regards,

Flick xx"

Because it's really really really really really REALLY hard to meet couples to have sex with. Far easier to meet guys.

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By *achiavellian_adventures OP Couple
over a year ago

Basingstoke/Andover

"Because I'm p'd off by being used by them as a "Unicorn" I swing for my pleasure not for others "use". So many times have I arrived to a Bi fem couples, only to find out, she's testing her bi side for her man and not really wanting to do it.

I have verys on mine by couples. As well as single men. "

I guess because of Cam and I's relationship we hadn't really looked at it from that perspective. Although he does enjoy watching me with a women, he appreciates that I'm more bi-than-straight and understands that sometimes only a women will do - even only for hugs and kisses. Obviously I'm fine with this because he's a man and, at times, is more interested in some rubbish geeky technical thing/manual than being sensual! Bizarrely we find it actually makes us closer - There's something bizarrely rememberable (in a good way) about tasting someone else's pussy when licking your partner's face!

Flick xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they probably get a zillion to one messages from men compared to couples - we meet single fems but she has to like us both -

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Possibly because they have to want to fuck both of a couple but have yet to find the couple where she fancies both of them or feels comfortable with both.

It is easier to find a man.

Or 100 other reasons why.

Who knows. Who cares.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats easy. All those male veris are there to give false hope to all the real men on here that they may well get a meet some time as everyone else seems to manage hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet couples with my partner. If I'm playing separate to him I only meet single men.

I've met couples before as a single woman and the dynamic just felt all wrong for me - and it can be really intimidating meeting 2 people together who are in a relationship with each other and know each other inside out and you're there on your own. I think it's easy to underestimate how intimidating that can feel for either the man or the woman on their own. You are the couple, you have each other there to bounce off.

So it just didn't suit me and I stick to one to one or foursomes.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Because it is harder to balance the needs of 3 than 2.

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple
over a year ago

Sheerness

We have this issue with couples..either I don't fancy the man or the woman or Rob doesn't fancy the woman..and not really prepared to take one for the team lol xx

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have more guy verifications than girl ones mainly because girls I've met have been through mutual fab friends or off site and we haven't verified each other. As to couples; I've only met them as part of another couple and then felt comfortable enough to meet them on my own once we've had an initial meet. I love threesomes (both MMF and MFF) but it's far easier to get the dynamics right when it's three singles together, in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I find lots of the women lovely but the men just don't do it for me. Also I sometimes get the impression that 1 partner us doing it to please the other

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

"I have more guy verifications than girl ones mainly because girls I've met have been through mutual fab friends or off site and we haven't verified each other. As to couples; I've only met them as part of another couple and then felt comfortable enough to meet them on my own once we've had an initial meet. I love threesomes (both MMF and MFF) but it's far easier to get the dynamics right when it's three singles together, in my experience."

I have to agree with this. The majority of FFM'S I have been involved in has been where all three of us have been single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples I've met have been at a club. Guys I chat to on here. It's easier to meet guys, definitely.

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