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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's a little bit out of the norm and was wondering how it would be perceived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a little bit out of the norm and was wondering how it would be perceived"

I would prefer a single male's profile to be wtitten by the single male. It smacks of dishonesty otherwise.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'd be unlikely to respond, I want to know how you perceive yourself, not your partner. I'm not meeting her, it may sound harsh, but I don't really care what she thinks.

Yeah, I understand it's her fantasy, but I'm having no interaction with her.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

When I get a message from a 'woman' 'offering' me their mate, I tend to look askance.

As above, I prefer the guy to do his own searching, especially when he's supposed to be a single guy.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

[Removed by poster at 11/04/16 18:28:50]

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By *hiterabbit6Couple
over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray


"It's a little bit out of the norm and was wondering how it would be perceived"

Wouldn't read passed the first lines.... sorry! !

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Not the sort of profile that would attract my interest but it may work for someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I woukd delete any message sent from this profile. I want a person to writr about themselves not someone else doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interested in constructive comments regarding my profile please people

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's a little bit out of the norm and was wondering how it would be perceived"

I perceive it to be a load of bull. Why can't the lady create her own single profile or the guy a single male profile or a couples profile? Seems like too much drama to bother with. That's my perception.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Interested in constructive comments regarding my profile please people"

It's fab etiquette to start your own thread rather than hijack someone else's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a little bit out of the norm and was wondering how it would be perceived"

As another Single guy pressuring his partner into swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interested in constructive comments regarding my profile please people"

Way too Long and still showing as a couple in title try reading your own profile and see if you understand it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah it is weird.

i get that guys in couples like to show they have permission to meet but because you can't actually tell who wrote it it could be fake permission written by you anyway, especially as you can't accomodate.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Sounds controlling to me ..... can't you write your own profile ?????

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Tbh i think its shit'long and boring well you did ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for feedback looks like an overhaul is due

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"Thanks for feedback looks like an overhaul is due "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, that First line...

Also, I notice a shortage of nuns on your profile. Tut tut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would pass by after reading the first two words.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Revamped any better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah a lot better.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Revamped any better?"

Yes, it's much better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Revamped any better?"

Erm, I gave up when you said the profile was not because you are looking for additional sex but for your partner's fantasy.

Really? You're just going to take it for the team then? Not a nice approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Revamped any better?"

One thing - you're looking for a woman, not a female. A woman is the name for a human female. A female could be a plant, an elephant, or the inny bit on your iPhone headphones socket.

Female is considered by many to be quite an objectifying term when used to refer to women - so you might want to just make that little change. Or you might not, I don't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile is better. However the last paragraph still gives the impression the female write it. And I'm all honestly on a single man profile I do not expect to be speaking to a female in any way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reminds me almost of a job advertisement! Well written on many aspects out but not a profile I would reply to sorry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the critique,I have tried to take on board most of what you have all said and I realise it will still not be everyone's cup of tea but please understand I don't use this profile constantly this was only set upto enhance mine and my partners fantasies and not for me to constantly play away if only one person replied and we hit it off and it became a regular thing that would great

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Its much better .... good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't get to read the original, just this one.

Is it a couples profile or not? I'm confused? What's the fantasy supposed to be? I'd rather know from the profile description without having to message?

I feel like I'm missing crucial information. And I can never be bothered to ask, just move onto the next profile usually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reminds me almost of a job advertisement! Well written on many aspects out but not a profile I would reply to sorry."

Thank you everyone for the CONSTRUCTIVE feedback. Your correct I did ask I value opinions that are negative as well as positive. Is my new shortened profile better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback all changed hope it's better

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