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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hiya everyone

You've probably read these types of posts a thousand times but if you could help once more I'd appreciate it.

I send a lot of messages to women and couples without replies, what's been the best messages you've had and how did it go? Maybe I'll pick up pointers as to what people want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone?

Guys who are getting some success what would your advice be?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

I have got a meet by saying hi. I have also got a meet by writing war and peace.

There is no one stop answer or holy grail

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone?

Guys who are getting some success what would your advice be?"

you don't appear to have picked up any pointers from previous threads so why should this one be any different?

read the profile, tailor it to the profile, address it to whoever...be prepared for it not to be read or deleted and take it on the chin

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Hiya everyone

You've probably read these types of posts a thousand times but if you could help once more I'd appreciate it.

I send a lot of messages to women and couples without replies, what's been the best messages you've had and how did it go? Maybe I'll pick up pointers as to what people want?"

Say "gizzashagyabitch"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Anyone?

Guys who are getting some success what would your advice be?"

I would wait more than 23 minutes before asking for a reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone?

Guys who are getting some success what would your advice be?

I would wait more than 23 minutes before asking for a reply...."

It was actually 13 minutes

But OP, take your time, read profiles and if you fit tailor your message to that, common interests etc. Polite curteous and humourous is what I personally like but everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut and paste messages don't work. Other peoples messages won't work. People need to see that you are interesting, genuine, and a good fit for them. You can't do that with someone elses words, and you can't do that by writing the same message to everyone.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Read the last two answers and do that. I was going to say the same thing. Make the lady believe you are interested in getting to know HER. Not wanting to shag anyone in a 30 mile radius of where you live.

Personal and a bit of humour will give you a better chance.

Also read what they are looking for. If you are not a match then don't waste your time or theirs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate just try a different site don't rely on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hiya everyone

You've probably read these types of posts a thousand times but if you could help once more I'd appreciate it.

I send a lot of messages to women and couples without replies, what's been the best messages you've had and how did it go? Maybe I'll pick up pointers as to what people want?"

It may not be your messages that are putting women and couples off replying to you. It could be your profile. I had a thorough read of it, and to be quite honest I find it terribly confusing. Maybe it's just me, but you seem to be all over the place, but unclear as to what you are looking for, even though you want something 'unique'. And would you really block a sexy woman asking to be your friend just because she didn't message you first? Yes in an ideal world it's polite to message first, but if you are not getting replies to your messages, maybe it would make more sense to follow up the friends requests that you would normally block. Who knows they maybe really nice and great fun. Give it some thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Say "gizzashagyabitch" "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mate just try a different site don't rely on this "

This from a man who admits ' he is terrible at these things'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hiya everyone

You've probably read these types of posts a thousand times but if you could help once more I'd appreciate it.

I send a lot of messages to women and couples without replies, what's been the best messages you've had and how did it go? Maybe I'll pick up pointers as to what people want?

It may not be your messages that are putting women and couples off replying to you. It could be your profile. I had a thorough read of it, and to be quite honest I find it terribly confusing. Maybe it's just me, but you seem to be all over the place, but unclear as to what you are looking for, even though you want something 'unique'. And would you really block a sexy woman asking to be your friend just because she didn't message you first? Yes in an ideal world it's polite to message first, but if you are not getting replies to your messages, maybe it would make more sense to follow up the friends requests that you would normally block. Who knows they maybe really nice and great fun. Give it some thought."

Thanks. reading through it was a bit much now you say that. I've edited it now

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