FabSwingers.com forum: single bi-fem

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi,

i'm trying to find another single bi fem on fab to meet myself and a male friend for my first 3some,I'm not having much luck,does anyone have any advice?

thx xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,

i'm trying to find another single bi fem on fab to meet myself and a male friend for my first 3some,I'm not having much luck,does anyone have any advice?

thx xx"

prob as most of the single women arent really single women , they are a bit like yourself teaming up with a man so are reallistically a couple.

were approached all the time by that single woman asking the same question ....would you like to play with me ..and my fuck buddy

wots that all about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they like gold dust lol ... if you find one and near newcastle pass her on plz

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I am a single bi fem with no significant other. I do team up with some single men to have 3 somes. Nothing wrong with that.

Unfortunately alot of single fems have fuck buddies so not playing as a single at all. Alot are married and he doesnt get involved and just watches.....

The main prob is there arent many true single bi fems and the ones that there are may be out of your age range or distance away from you or maybe not each others cup of tea.

Keep searching but try clubs and socials too.

Good luck in your search x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank you,i am a genuine single female but it can be a bit daunting meeting a couple on your own for the first time hence why i have a male friend that i am comfortable with and would like to share my first time with him,hopefully when i am more confident i can be the elusive bi fem couples are searching for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"thank you,i am a genuine single female but it can be a bit daunting meeting a couple on your own for the first time hence why i have a male friend that i am comfortable with and would like to share my first time with him,hopefully when i am more confident i can be the elusive bi fem couples are searching for

so in realitty you are a couple

is that not what we said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

by the way were also a couple looking for a single bi fem,

and if i dont bring him along i myself am a single bi fem

i think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do people feel the need to box everyone into a category,if i am single without male then i am a single female,i have chosen to have my first mff 3 some and have already chosen a male just trying to find a female,that doesn't make me part of a couple or make me wrong because i have chosen not to meet a couple on my own yet.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Just go with what is good for you, when I first started swinging it was a lot easier going, a sense of freedom felt by everyone I was involved with or went to parties with.

Lately it has kind of been hijacked by people who attempt to write their own swinging rulebook into the proceedings, it's losing it's sense of freedom and fun loving because some people are tying far too many labels around it and pushing it into boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just go with what is good for you, when I first started swinging it was a lot easier going, a sense of freedom felt by everyone I was involved with or went to parties with.

i like things being pushed into my box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well if i was a single bi fem i would def be up for it as you look delicious....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe other single fems feel the same way as you. Something you are not comfortable doing yet but hoping others are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do people feel the need to box everyone into a category,if i am single without male then i am a single female,i have chosen to have my first mff 3 some and have already chosen a male just trying to find a female,that doesn't make me part of a couple or make me wrong because i have chosen not to meet a couple on my own yet."

In fairness, if I was looking for a single bi fem and was approached/found one and she turned around and said fine...but can my fb come alone too I wouldn't be happy either, and wouldn't see her as single.

It's not about putting people into boxes in my view, it's how you've represented yourself which appears inaccurate.

People comment about the "straight" men who contact gay/bi men...same difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just go with what is good for you, when I first started swinging it was a lot easier going, a sense of freedom felt by everyone I was involved with or went to parties with.

Things simply move on with the passing of time, you know fresh faces with fresh ideas and views ie progress.

When I hear the comment 'the good old days' and how swinging was so different back in the day, I personally imagine dusty cobwebbed swingers, once again, searching for their freedom.

I wonder whether their profiles can be found hanging upon some weathered tombstone located in some long forgotten cemetery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi,

i'm trying to find another single bi fem on fab to meet myself and a male friend for my first 3some,I'm not having much luck,does anyone have any advice?

thx xx"

Make a couples profile with your male friend so the single bi fem can see both of you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just go with what is good for you, when I first started swinging it was a lot easier going, a sense of freedom felt by everyone I was involved with or went to parties with.

selling yourelf as a single woman then asking if the boyfriend can come along says to us ..the label should say couple not bifem.

the op is stating that she wants to meet a single bi fem with her partner putting the other fem(which they cant find of course)in the same position as herself going to meet a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahem....SINGLE BI FEM CLEARS THROAT AND PREPARES TO RANT.....

What almost everyone on this site is after the elusive single bi female. A bloke wants her 1 on 1, a couple want her because its their fantasy.

What about me? Am I to book myself out for every night of the week just to spice things up in someone elses relationship? Am I to satisfy the cravings of everyone on here just because they've dreamed of a 3some all their adult lives? No? Oh ok, so thats why I get so much mail asking me to do exactly that.

I'm on here to satisfy MY fantasies not anyone elses

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"hi,

i'm trying to find another single bi fem on fab to meet myself and a male friend for my first 3some,I'm not having much luck,does anyone have any advice?

thx xx"

Meet women on your own. Make friends. Add men you both like as required.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have two profiles. One where I meet people with my partner and one where I meet as a single bi fem. I meet couples and single fems to play on my own, but the seperate profiles mean people contact me with regards what they are looking for.

If contacted on the single profile I would not then say, 'Hey can I bring my fella along' lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahem....SINGLE BI FEM CLEARS THROAT AND PREPARES TO RANT.....

What almost everyone on this site is after the elusive single bi female. A bloke wants her 1 on 1, a couple want her because its their fantasy.

I'm on here to satisfy MY fantasies not anyone elses

I know you said "almost" everyone, so just to reiterate...I'm straight...no don't laugh, really, I am, so you're safe from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahem....SINGLE BI FEM CLEARS THROAT AND PREPARES TO RANT.....

What almost everyone on this site is after the elusive single bi female. A bloke wants her 1 on 1, a couple want her because its their fantasy.

I'm on here to satisfy MY fantasies not anyone elses

I know you said "almost" everyone, so just to reiterate...I'm straight...no don't laugh, really, I am, so you're safe from me!

Ah yes Sassy but you're in a league of your own. I'm glad I'm safe from you though because you'd scare the shit out of me in a very horny way! Funny though, the one person that doesn't want me is the one person I crave

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just go with what is good for you, when I first started swinging it was a lot easier going, a sense of freedom felt by everyone I was involved with or went to parties with.

Thank you,i believed swingers were free minded people and did not judge,like you say too many labels and too much restriction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well if i was a single bi fem i would def be up for it as you look delicious....xxx"

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks everyone for the advice,I am a single fem and thats why I feel so passionate on the subject,someone feels insistent to point out about my boyfriend,there isn't one,i merely wanted my first 3 some to be with two people i get on with,i have found a male and would love to find a female to join us,once i am comfortable then i will play alone as i always do otherwise as a single bi fem doing things the way i want to and not how i feel i should

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

In all seriousness... if you don't want to go off and meet single fems on your own first, it may be better to get your male friend to go off and meet a few more bi-fems and once they get to know him like you have... see if they want to invite you to join them.

I am sure you must appreciate there will be other women feeling the same as you do... wanting to know someone first and not meeting an unknown couple on your own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single bi fem I found clubs to be fun and easy to find others to play with.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

You realise you have really done it now?

You won't ever be accepted into the 'Pure Swingers Society of Great Britain' now, you have dared to play or want to play outside of their self determined rule book of 'Pure Swinging'.

Naughty naughty

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By *ayna-rWoman
over a year ago

South Shields

"As a single bi fem I found clubs to be fun and easy to find others to play with. "
hi laine when you coming to see us lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You realise you have really done it now?

You won't ever be accepted into the 'Pure Swingers Society of Great Britain' now, you have dared to play or want to play outside of their self determined rule book of 'Pure Swinging'.

Naughty naughty"

Naughty,naughty? Is that not why we are all here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well simply sexy i understand where you cming from on this am single bi and willing to play .......i understand for u own safety you like a man there i dnt blame u at all its safety .....some times on here i find so many up there own ass think they own the forums been on swinging sites for 10 yrs now realise u can't plz all but cost nothing to be polite and respectfull .dnt say cos u have a bfriend you have to be a couple on here we r entitled to single profiles as long as honest what you looking for so gd luck simplysexy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahem....SINGLE BI FEM CLEARS THROAT AND PREPARES TO RANT.....

What almost everyone on this site is after the elusive single bi female. A bloke wants her 1 on 1, a couple want her because its their fantasy.

I'm on here to satisfy MY fantasies not anyone elses

I know you said "almost" everyone, so just to reiterate...I'm straight...no don't laugh, really, I am, so you're safe from me!

Scary?!! Moi?!! I don't know how many times I need to say I'm fwuffy, wuffy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well simply sexy i understand where you cming from on this am single bi and willing to play .......i understand for u own safety you like a man there i dnt blame u at all its safety .....some times on here i find so many up there own ass think they own the forums been on swinging sites for 10 yrs now realise u can't plz all but cost nothing to be polite and respectfull .dnt say cos u have a bfriend you have to be a couple on here we r entitled to single profiles as long as honest what you looking for so gd luck simplysexy .

we hope your not implying we think we own the forums!were just stating our views on what other people write!

some single women have that many bloody profiles with different men and one of their own too you just cant keep up.

ring any bells??????

on this occassion the op is misrepresenting herself stating she is a single fem when infact she is gonna be turning up at the door with a bloke.

all the half arsed comments on this thread seem to be argumentative to the fact that we have only picked up on the one true fact the op has stated ,we just see it as a contradiction as in ...

you advertise as a single ..you then arrange to meet as a couple,regardless of the fact the op is just fucking the male and not in a true relationship with him she does not qualify in our eyes to court other females in the guise of a single fem as that is not what the other fem is going to get

happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

give up ,i have been trying for a few years.still cant find one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heres my problem : I am a single woman and I have a desire to be in a ffm situation but have no experience and no idea how to start...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"heres my problem : I am a single woman and I have a desire to be in a ffm situation but have no experience and no idea how to start..."

Send us an email, you jump in the car and we'll put the kettle on haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of single bisexual women out there in the real world but how many of them would even consider a threesome (of any combination) is open to question.

Then you deduct the ones who wouldn't/ don't need to resort to the internet to find fun and the number reduces even further.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

*her* We will both meet singles for bi fun occasionally (he played out last week, lovely video!

so it's my turn next!

) but we wouldn't meet a couple on our own. I'll only meet a girl (even if she, like me, is half of a regular couple) on my own, not if her fella or FB is there too. You set your own comfort zones with this.

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i have one profile only cnt be assed to have more to be honest dnt see point .....at end day we all on for fun dnt matter how or where you get it we r adults at end day .

i first done my bi female when i had a 4somme and enjoyed it but found it bit tame as she was only 24 ....but then went on to do ffm and was best experiance i had loved ever min off it see her plz and satified .....i say all to there own if you not shy what harm is there being a man there watching its a big turn on for the man 2 he has best at end as he goes home with his lady ....all mans fantasie to see woman with other woman 2 ....as for saying you own forums i was saying some people r disrespectfull on coments was not pointing finger at you .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahem....SINGLE BI FEM CLEARS THROAT AND PREPARES TO RANT.....

What almost everyone on this site is after the elusive single bi female. A bloke wants her 1 on 1, a couple want her because its their fantasy.

I'm on here to satisfy MY fantasies not anyone elses

haha i luv it, the girl took the very words outta my mouth. exactly how i feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's plenty of single bisexual women out there in the real world but how many of them would even consider a threesome (of any combination) is open to question.

Then you deduct the ones who wouldn't/ don't need to resort to the internet to find fun and the number reduces even further."

as someone pointed out already on here. us single bi fems are here for our own enjoyment, not into paying lip service for others entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i believe in equality....i like getting my muff licked as well you know haha!!!!!!

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

simply sexy when you search for women do you get upset that all women say "oh but i have a partner and he will be part of the picture" in their profiles?

if you are meeting as a couple, make a couple profile.

We are quite fed up of the HUGE ammount of couples making a second profile as a single woman just to say all over again that they are actually a couple.

Do you think a single female is more likely to meet a couple of a couple's profile where she can see both or of a second/faked profile pretending to be single which in fact ends up by not being single etc etc etc...?

99% of couples are looking for the so searched bi-fem. Being crafty and make fake single profiles wont give you any extra luck with that. trust me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i have one profile only cnt be assed to have more to be honest dnt see point .....at end day we all on for fun dnt matter how or where you get it we r adults at end day .

thought not...1 profile ..ok

lost count of the amount of men that have contacted us asking if we wanted a 4some with them and ....erm

so please no finger pointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"simply sexy when you search for women do you get upset that all women say "oh but i have a partner and he will be part of the picture" in their profiles?

if you are meeting as a couple, make a couple profile.

We are quite fed up of the HUGE ammount of couples making a second profile as a single woman just to say all over again that they are actually a couple.

99% of couples are looking for the so searched bi-fem. Being crafty and make fake single profiles wont give you any extra luck with that. trust me."

spot on , well said

lets see if the founder member of the 24/7 club jumps down your throat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a single bi sexual female. Met my first couple last week for a brew and met a couple of days later for some fun..seeing them again soon. It was my first experience of playing with two people and playing with a woman so quite a big deal for me but I loved it as the couple are so lovely and genuine.

Love the freedom of playing alone and am looking to meet more couples in the future x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"simply sexy when you search for women do you get upset that all women say "oh but i have a partner and he will be part of the picture" in their profiles?

if you are meeting as a couple, make a couple profile.

We are quite fed up of the HUGE ammount of couples making a second profile as a single woman just to say all over again that they are actually a couple.

99% of couples are looking for the so searched bi-fem. Being crafty and make fake single profiles wont give you any extra luck with that. trust me."

To Be honest I can now understand why as a newish swinger I have never asked for advice before,I want to thanks those of you that did give me advice but the few of you that jumped to conclusions about my relationship status and even insinuated my single profile may be fake then maybe you should keep your opinions to yourselves,i am a single fem who feels comfortable with a single male i met on fab,but he is part of my swinging life and not outside of fab but i am still single i can assure you that you will find no other profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very single and bi. I play with couples when I am at a club. Getting more into social side and house parties and would love an invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"simply sexy when you search for women do you get upset that all women say "oh but i have a partner and he will be part of the picture" in their profiles?

if you are meeting as a couple, make a couple profile.

We are quite fed up of the HUGE ammount of couples making a second profile as a single woman just to say all over again that they are actually a couple.

99% of couples are looking for the so searched bi-fem. Being crafty and make fake single profiles wont give you any extra luck with that. trust me.

yes hes part of your swinging life and therefore you come as a couple!!!!

your not wanting to meet a fem on your own so despite banging on about yourself living alone you still operate as a couple,can you not see this , your saying it yourself!! your a single bi fem who is turning up with a male on here you like and trust...fair enough,were not questioning the fact you live alone and are single,we dont disbelieve you...but you play as a couple!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think anyone is disputing the fact you are a single fem.

However the scenario you have portrayed is that of a couple. You are looking to meet a fem with you and a fb...two of you...a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Only read some of this thread but can relate to my first club meet. I met a single man and he took me to a club. He explained that for the night we would.play as a couple as it was couples only night. I couldnt understand that as was very much a single fem. But for that night we played as a couple.

I go to meets and clubs alone as a single fem and also will team up with sexy men and play as a xouple for the night.

I dont ever set up a new profile as a couple when sorting the meet as we are only a xouple that night. I felt comfy enough to meet others either alone or as a xouple.

If i set up a couple profile every time i buddied up with a single malei would have 30 or so couple profiles or one that the name and description would change each time.

In all this time i am still.a.single bi fem but some meets i have played as a couple but have always said.on my profile that i am off to club blar.next week with a sexy male so meet us there and when people have mailed me i have directed them to the mans single profile too.

If it is a male that your planning on doing multiple meets with then yes do a couple profile and contact people from there. If like me it can and is normally a diffwrent male each time then i stick with my normal profile.

As i have been up most of the night being naughty in the club so tired.and.well shagged so if any of this.doesnt make sence then am too tired to care lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem? "

Ahem, after reading it properly and not flitting from OP to comments...I have to say, I concur lol

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem? "

I have to agree with you on this.

The woman is asking for another female to make up a threesome with another playmate she has found on here...she isn't saying she is a couple who will only play as a couple.

We have nearly sorted out a meet with a playmate we know coming with us, if the same logic applied, then we should change our profile to an MFM even though it is a one off arrangement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you have a threesome profile on here

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Well not as a status anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rugby can ya not change ya name to ... rugby does richay AND gayna lol xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

rugby does MFM.....that one line gives hopes to hundreds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP has changed her profile since her OP. As it reads now it's crystal clear she's a single woman who, for this experience has teamed up with a fb and a seeking a bi fem for a threesome.

The original profile text made no mention of a fb just a single bi fem hence the responses to the OP.

Just my take on it.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"No

Well not as a status anyway

but there are trio profiles around...

It's just not an easy thing to set up and sorting representative photos is a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish that there were some other genuine single bi women out there...

All the ones that I've met just end up moaning about their boyfriend / husband / ex - so he's in the picture even if he isn't there!

What I wouldn't give for just a nice, simple, girl-on-girl meet where it's just us.....

Just 'cos I like to go with a guy occasionally, it doesn't mean that I don't want fem time as well...

Sigh.....

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

"No

Well not as a status anyway

but there are trio profiles around...

It's just not an easy thing to set up and sorting representative photos is a nightmare

Tell me about it. I'm part of a mff on here, and even trying to get a photo of the 3 of us is a nightmare, then trying to get it on the profile is an even bigger headache.

Luckily a very friendly mod has helped us out numerous times!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"rugby can ya not change ya name to ... rugby does richay AND gayna lol xxxxx

I can't mate, I don't do women ( no offence Gayna

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Now if you were a MM couple I would

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"No

Well not as a status anyway

but there are trio profiles around...

It's just not an easy thing to set up and sorting representative photos is a nightmare

There is a few yeah But obviously they have to mention it in their profile as there isn't a trio option on a profile status.

Best thing to do is get a PV as a trio, that way your pics should go through everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"rugby can ya not change ya name to ... rugby does richay AND gayna lol xxxxx

I can't mate, I don't do women ( no offence Gayna

)

Now if you were a MM couple I would

im texting bro now to come back to fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem? "

thank you,someone who now sees what i am trying to say,all i wanted was advice not opinions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem?

Ahem, after reading it properly and not flitting from OP to comments...I have to say, I concur lol

thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm sorry....all I see is a single bi fem exercising her right to choose who she will play with, if I were having a threesome for the first time I'd like to say who the other two were to be.

A guy of my own choice a female of my own choice a couple of my own choice or two bi's of my own choice.

I don't understand the problem?

I have to agree with you on this.

The woman is asking for another female to make up a threesome with another playmate she has found on here...she isn't saying she is a couple who will only play as a couple.

We have nearly sorted out a meet with a playmate we know coming with us, if the same logic applied, then we should change our profile to an MFM even though it is a one off arrangement

thank you.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

anyone that meets as a couple should have their profile marked as a couple.

bit fed up here of seeing single females profiles just saying "i have a bf, i have a fb, i have a husband, and he will always be part of my meets", imo if you are 2, make a couple profile and present both of you.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"anyone that meets as a couple should have their profile marked as a couple.

Then ignore them.....it's not compulsory to read every profile in depth if what you first see isn't to your taste.

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

is not about tastes. but if i search for a couple i expect to get couples as a result, and if i search for a single person i expect to get as result people i can meet as single.

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By *1sexypairCouple
over a year ago

Retford

"they like gold dust lol ... if you find one and near newcastle pass her on plz

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can we come along to pmsl

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"is not about tastes. but if i search for a couple i expect to get couples as a result, and if i search for a single person i expect to get as result people i can meet as single."

It's a free swingers site.....you EXPECT too much maybe?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

To be honest I don't think it has anything to do with it being a free site.

If people don't put the right details on their profile then of course it is going to be a problem as they will come up into the wrong searches.

Now I don't think a one off meet that the OP is asking for is enough for her to have a couples profile, but there are single people about who do have a single profile when it should be a couples, and it is best to report them so Admin can look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"anyone that meets as a couple should have their profile marked as a couple.

in truth thats around 4 in every 5 of single bi fems on here...lol

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"No

Well not as a status anyway

but there are trio profiles around...

It's just not an easy thing to set up and sorting representative photos is a nightmare

There is a few yeah But obviously they have to mention it in their profile as there isn't a trio option on a profile status.

Best thing to do is get a PV as a trio, that way your pics should go through everytime."

what a good idea...thankyou lovely lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a single woman and i never team up with men to meet others with, never have never will

however i do not meet couples as i just feel more comfy meeting one on one than being out numbered by strangers, i am bi but id sooner play with women in clubs and at parties as i find it quite intimidating turning up alone to meet couples be them married or fuck buddies, maybe thats why a lot of women team up with men to meet, maybe they just need a little norral support when meeting new people, as a single woman myself i can understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

moral support* even

cant spell lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any bi woman want to play and my male friend come as well ,sorry i dnt need a couples profile as this will be one off meet lmfao ...............offers on a post card

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over ferking analysing peeps profiles again I see...blimey!!

To the OP....we`ve met single bi fems ..never really found it a problem ..just chat to those whose profiles match yer wants ....We never seem to find it a problem ..mabye its because we`re a committed couple and they feel safe !..I`ll leave that hanging in the air ....a few have said that to us ...not saying it holds true fer all ....

So be patient ...remember they prolly get alot of mail....and going to clubs or socials might be good ...if thats yer thing ...best of luck ....and finally ....swing on yer own terms with people who suit yer..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for all the good advice and for those who understood my exact position,I am still looking but also venturing into the clubs etc,most of all i'm having fun my way

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