FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swinging Support and Advice

Condoms during play ?

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms !

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only used them with the other woman but would take one off and put a fresh one each time.

And yes you should swap every time x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you know that chlamydia can be passed on by fingers when there is no penetration? Ie pussy to finger to another pussy. So the same applies to a covered penis.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

Done this a few times over the years and a new condom each time is a must; it's the same in a party or orgy situation, always play safe X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

YES! - This is why swingers buy those big 20 packs.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 10/04/16 17:27:49]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms !

X"

Yes but it is a pain in the arse so understand the root of the question

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is way party hosts like ourselves have to clean up condom confetti due to changing them in group play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why party hosts like ourselves have to clean up condom confetti due to changing them in group play "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were involved in the ffm scenario last night and only used the condom with the other woman and this would always be the case

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *edonistic needsWoman
over a year ago

sexton


"YES! - This is why swingers buy those big 20 packs."

Absolutely change each time but rather than buying Id prefer to play in clubs who provide free condoms or visit the local GUM n bring out pack n packs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Just play bareback, much easier and more fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for your help and friendly advice guys and girls . We are not concerned regarding ourselves as have been together 15 years and know we are clean , but was more about the protection of all parties . May have to invest heavily lol . We have yet to experience a threesome but don't want to start it off on a bad note !

Once again , thankyou for your help

M & S , no , not the shop lol xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms !

X"

Yes.

Women can infect other women.

Suck it up - buy condoms when they're on sale.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms !

X"

Yes duur! !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

You can buy condoms in bulk

Have a Google for bulk condoms and look for deals on your chosen brand

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... "

Made me giggle

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any local GU clinic will give you as many as you want free.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

[Removed by poster at 11/04/16 10:47:58]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge

Troble is, unless you are extremely carefully with fingers and mouths ie in a ffm if a woman goes down on the other and then give a bj or vice versa then pretty much any infection has been transferred, so realistically a condom acts as a birth control.

Any sexual act involving more then one becomes near impossible to stop and transfer,that said a comdom is definitely recommend

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"Troble is, unless you are extremely carefully with fingers and mouths ie in a ffm if a woman goes down on the other and then give a bj or vice versa then pretty much any infection has been transferred, so realistically a condom acts as a birth control.

Any sexual act involving more then one becomes near impossible to stop and transfer,that said a comdom is definitely recommend"

Also diseases are far less likely to be transmitted orally than they are by genital contact.

Otherwise a very large percentage of swingers would be infected in some way with an STD... which I'd like to think isn't the case unless the majority of swingers continue whilst infected.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *van ArdenMan
over a year ago

Coleford, Forest of Dean, Gloucestershire.

Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onnieBMan
over a year ago

in the middle of

If your having mff fun, buying and using extra condoms should be the least of your problems. Start thinking with the big head n not the little on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep changed mine like a good boy after swapping between DP and back to the other female. Do I get a badge for that ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, Change between each lady if you are using condoms with both, i do the same with my toys, i put condoms on them before using them on someone else, and i always keep wipes on hand to wipe them down and my hands too to avoid spreading things, it has never caused a problem before with anyone we have been with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also little tip if you are concerned about cost, Amazon do boxes of 144 for under £20 so you won't run out in one night

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iceguy25Man
over a year ago

tongbridge


"Also little tip if you are concerned about cost, Amazon do boxes of 144 for under £20 so you won't run out in one night "

Well......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?"

No. Safe sex is sexy...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Troble is, unless you are extremely carefully with fingers and mouths ie in a ffm if a woman goes down on the other and then give a bj or vice versa then pretty much any infection has been transferred, so realistically a condom acts as a birth control.

Any sexual act involving more then one becomes near impossible to stop and transfer,that said a comdom is definitely recommend"

That's ok - you have my permission to be careful.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?"

Not changing is just selfish on the mans part though. If one of the ladies has something, the guy is protected but would then pass it on to the other lady if he didn't change the condom.

As for dampening things, I'm sure the ladies can think of something to do whilst he's putting on a new one!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any local GU clinic will give you as many as you want free. "
that's not actually true and most have stopped giving out latex free ones ..

They will give you more if your a swinger but only about 40

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?"
it does but unfortunately its one of those things you just have to live with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?

Not changing is just selfish on the mans part though. If one of the ladies has something, the guy is protected but would then pass it on to the other lady if he didn't change the condom.

As for dampening things, I'm sure the ladies can think of something to do whilst he's putting on a new one!"

Its a massive dampener if someone is being selfish, or you are having to call a stop to play to instigate protection safety, or you are worrying about speaking up or getting a std.

Much more fun if the necessary precautions are all naturally put in place without embarrassment.

Changing a condom can be as smoothly done and should be, just as much as gloving up at the start....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... "

Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new!

Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners...

Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new!

Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke "

Thanks for the chuckle now have visions of two men waiting to take the old one off and two to put the new one on plus you need an extra man for the stop/go board .....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is why I have quite so many condoms in my bag at the beginning of the night..... not so many later on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try to look on gloving up as part of the fun. Personally I see condoms as a badge of honour and love to see them littered around after a session.

Love the idea that they have been filled with lusty fluids. They are a sign that respectful sex has taken place and every one as best as possible has been kept safe and sound.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners...

Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new!

Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke

Thanks for the chuckle now have visions of two men waiting to take the old one off and two to put the new one on plus you need an extra man for the stop/go board ..... "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

When enjoying FFM threesomes I always change condoms between ladies....I even use condoms if one of the ladies is my wife.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When enjoying FFM threesomes I always change condoms between ladies....I even use condoms if one of the ladies is my wife."

I really like couples that do this. With both my partners I always play safe in threesomes, even if we'd sometimes play bare between ourselves.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to add a side note , it was never about the cost of the condoms or any such , more about the practically as a few had pointed out of when in the throes of passion , and keeping everything "clean" .

X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to add a side note , it was never about the cost of the condoms or any such , more about the practically as a few had pointed out of when in the throes of passion , and keeping everything "clean" .

X"

Have you considered practicing putting condoms on? I can get them on and off of a man in a few second flat - and I don't even have a penis!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just put 15 on at the beginning of your session. Then all you need to do is keep taking them off! Benefits include size and staying power !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?"

Not as much as an unexpected STI

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"When enjoying FFM threesomes I always change condoms between ladies....I even use condoms if one of the ladies is my wife.

I really like couples that do this. With both my partners I always play safe in threesomes, even if we'd sometimes play bare between ourselves."

With you 100%. The only person I play bare with is my wife, but even at a club we use condoms in case one or both of us later wants to play with someone else.

What if I had been inside my wife bare, and then put on a condom for the lady lying beside her....and the condom broke or fell off?

Safer in any kind of threesome or group situation to use condoms all around.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun "
Yes, because worrying about what you might be catching during sex always makes it a million times more fun obviously!! wow.....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

omg always change -

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/04/16 09:00:54]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

As much as the "right thing" is to change condoms...

Do you wash your hands?

Do you wash your tongue?

In an FFM threesome I doubt that a condom'd cock is the only vector for an STI...

So... Where practicable, sure.

But in a back n forth, back n forth?

That's going to be a mood killer.

I would guess!

Flames

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a greedy girl situation and one guy took off his condom and passed it to another bloke who happily put it in. Put me right off!

Guys and gals, don't forget to get tested regularly as well, including throat swabs. If they don't offer (which they should), then ASK.

Stay safer peeps

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a greedy girl situation and one guy took off his condom and passed it to another bloke who happily put it in. Put me right off!

Guys and gals, don't forget to get tested regularly as well, including throat swabs. If they don't offer (which they should), then ASK.

Stay safer peeps"

*put it on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as the "right thing" is to change condoms...

Do you wash your hands?

Do you wash your tongue?

In an FFM threesome I doubt that a condom'd cock is the only vector for an STI...

So... Where practicable, sure.

But in a back n forth, back n forth?

That's going to be a mood killer.

I would guess!

Flames"

Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with.

Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with.

Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this."

Curious re the random one of "not compatible"? (Because I am a guy? Ginger? 6ft5? Bi? lol)

But anyway...

Of the STI's that I am aware of, I can't think of any that would be avoided through swapping condoms and yet not washing hands / mouth.

Flames

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with.

Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this.

Curious re the random one of "not compatible"? (Because I am a guy? Ginger? 6ft5? Bi? lol)

But anyway...

Of the STI's that I am aware of, I can't think of any that would be avoided through swapping condoms and yet not washing hands / mouth.

Flames"

It's funny - because my 'type' are tall, ginger, bisexual guys.

But we're not compatible because you have a different acceptable risk level to myself. I would insist on you swapping condoms between myself and another female bodied person, whereas you don't give the impression that's something you think is worthwhile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"

It's funny - because my 'type' are tall, ginger, bisexual guys.

But we're not compatible because you have a different acceptable risk level to myself. I would insist on you swapping condoms between myself and another female bodied person, whereas you don't give the impression that's something you think is worthwhile."

I was merely being the "devils advocate" in terms of a condomed penis isn't the only STI vector.

And to assume that would be STI-dangerous.

IMHO.

But I'm as risk averse as the next person who values my sexual & normal health

As much as one can be "safer" there are always risks...

But I've never been in an ffm, however,

I've been in scenarios where there's been "condom confetti" (and that's fine, I do do the new condom thing), but I am not foolish to think that I was safe. It merely stopped my penis receiving or transmitting anything...

Other body parts carry virus's too

But indeed, who uses condoms, dental dams and hand alcohol lotion and listerine between every single different partner at a sex party?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But indeed, who uses condoms, dental dams and hand alcohol lotion and listerine between every single different partner at a sex party?

"

Different things have different risk levels.

Personally I don't usually put my hands inside a womans vagina (because actually - most women don't really get anything out of that). I use barrier protection for oral, vaginal, and anal sex with men. I use barrier protection on toys with women. I would likely not go down on a woman if I didn't know her well, because I prefer to use barrier protection then too. I always keep latex gloves and condoms in my 'sex kit' - enough to cover a decent sized group sex session...

Some of us do prefer to use protection in those ways. And honestly, it's still great sex. But it's not to everyones taste.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"But it's not to everyones taste."

Yeah... Condoms, not a great taste LOL.

And dental dams can be... faffy...

But different strokes for different folks

And indeed, always the judgement call of risk vs reward!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But it's not to everyones taste.

Yeah... Condoms, not a great taste LOL.

And dental dams can be... faffy...

But different strokes for different folks

And indeed, always the judgement call of risk vs reward!

"

*Shrugs*

Caring about your partners health and wishes *is* sexy. That's a turn on to me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Just put 15 on at the beginning of your session. Then all you need to do is keep taking them off! Benefits include size and staying power ! "

Or put a fresh one on top each time you change partners - by the end of the evening you'll have a massively thick cock - most ladies are appreciative of some girth.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

Better to be safe than sorry

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

When I take any toys to a club/party I also take lots of condoms just in case more than one person wants to use a toy. I would also wash it if practacal between partners.

I don't use dental dams when giving oral to ladies but I do wash my face and use mouthwash between partners. The only time I did not was when the two ladies were my wife and a close friend.

I cars about my own safety, the safety of the people I love and of the people I play with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"As much as the "right thing" is to change condoms...

Do you wash your hands?

Do you wash your tongue?

In an FFM threesome I doubt that a condom'd cock is the only vector for an STI...

So... Where practicable, sure.

But in a back n forth, back n forth?

That's going to be a mood killer.

I would guess!

Flames"

The cock is not the only vector for STI transmission but it is the most likely, and easiest to make safer.

A head injury is not the only risk involved in riding a motirbike but it's the most serious and one if the most common...and easily made less dangerous with a helmet. Would you refuse a helmet because there are other risks (eg leg injury) ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It is time people calmed down a little about catch STIs it is not as easy as some make out.

I am not saying we can forget about taking precautions but some seem to be paranoid about catching a STI.

Think about it in the same way as pregnancy.

It is very possible for a woman to become pregnant the first time she has unprotected intercourse but in the real world that does not mean that she will.

It is perfectly possible that she could have intercourse for a number of years before falling pregnant (as many married couples have discovered).

That is where the problem is pregnancy could occur at the first attempt or the 500th attempt, there is no certainty.

In a similar way people can engage in various forms of sex for years without catching a STI or they could catch a STI with the very first sex act, from simple kissing to anal intercourse and everything in between.

The only safe practice is to avoid sex everything else involves risks.

It is up to you make yourself aware of what risks are involved and then decide what level of risk you are comfortable with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun "

Omg

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun "
ohhh were with you guys on this one ....

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun Yes, because worrying about what you might be catching during sex always makes it a million times more fun obviously!! wow....."

Its like a scary lottery... Will I get the Thunderball or just stank dick

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ...."

So confused to why you want to risk a STi

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ....

So confused to why you want to risk a STi"

I'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ....

So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat"

When your covered in warts and your penis is dripping then happy days for you! Idiotic response

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hic EventsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ....

So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat"

Plus I don't worry thanks I am SENSIBLE and use protection to minimise the risk!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ....

So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat

Plus I don't worry thanks I am SENSIBLE and use protection to minimise the risk! "

that's in your opinion ..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ..."

Yes exactly - each to their own.

I find it sexy to take care of my partner's health as well as my own. Actually a turn on. It feels good to take precautions against disease transmission. I prefer the feel of sex with condoms too.

Everyone is different and enjoys different things. You aren't compatible with someone who prefers condoms - but to say that using protection takes the pleasure out of swinging and imply that's true for everyone is simply incorrect.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ...

Yes exactly - each to their own.

I find it sexy to take care of my partner's health as well as my own. Actually a turn on. It feels good to take precautions against disease transmission. I prefer the feel of sex with condoms too.

Everyone is different and enjoys different things. You aren't compatible with someone who prefers condoms - but to say that using protection takes the pleasure out of swinging and imply that's true for everyone is simply incorrect."

I never implied it took the pleasure away for everyone ..you read it that way ..if stoping play every few minutes to wash hands or swap condoms or wash your face after oral does it for you fair play ..we just find it a passion killer ..there are probably more swingers on here with your preferences than ours these days ..which is why we play the 20 question game before we ever get to asking someone for a meet ..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

Its simple ..... Wear two when fucking the first one then whip one off and uncover the second to fuck the other then whip that off to give them both a facial

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Also little tip if you are concerned about cost, Amazon do boxes of 144 for under £20 so you won't run out in one night

Well...... "

My son got 24 in the pound shop!! Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied


"Its simple ..... Wear two when fucking the first one then whip one off and uncover the second to fuck the other then whip that off to give them both a facial "
sorry facials can also spread disease..not safe at all spreading cum around .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury


"Its simple ..... Wear two when fucking the first one then whip one off and uncover the second to fuck the other then whip that off to give them both a facial sorry facials can also spread disease..not safe at all spreading cum around ."

Ok let it flow the wipe on the curtains

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As party hosts, we used to buy a lot of condoms....google freedom shop condoms....it lets you buy directly from an NHS supplier, free delivery, various pack sizes (up to 144) and sometimes has very good special offers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top