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"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms ! X" Yes but it is a pain in the arse so understand the root of the question | |||
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"This is why party hosts like ourselves have to clean up condom confetti due to changing them in group play " | |||
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"YES! - This is why swingers buy those big 20 packs." Absolutely change each time but rather than buying Id prefer to play in clubs who provide free condoms or visit the local GUM n bring out pack n packs | |||
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"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms ! X" Yes. Women can infect other women. Suck it up - buy condoms when they're on sale. | |||
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"Right before it sounds daft , but if you were in a ffm threesome , during penetration , you were to swap between both of the women there would it be expected to change into a fresh condom . I know this may sound daft but it is one that puzzles us , common sense says yes but if you were to change partner many times during the fun , you would have one hell of a heap of used condoms ! X" Yes duur! !!! | |||
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"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... " Made me giggle | |||
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"Troble is, unless you are extremely carefully with fingers and mouths ie in a ffm if a woman goes down on the other and then give a bj or vice versa then pretty much any infection has been transferred, so realistically a condom acts as a birth control. Any sexual act involving more then one becomes near impossible to stop and transfer,that said a comdom is definitely recommend" Also diseases are far less likely to be transmitted orally than they are by genital contact. Otherwise a very large percentage of swingers would be infected in some way with an STD... which I'd like to think isn't the case unless the majority of swingers continue whilst infected. | |||
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"Also little tip if you are concerned about cost, Amazon do boxes of 144 for under £20 so you won't run out in one night " Well...... | |||
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"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?" No. Safe sex is sexy... | |||
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"Troble is, unless you are extremely carefully with fingers and mouths ie in a ffm if a woman goes down on the other and then give a bj or vice versa then pretty much any infection has been transferred, so realistically a condom acts as a birth control. Any sexual act involving more then one becomes near impossible to stop and transfer,that said a comdom is definitely recommend" That's ok - you have my permission to be careful. | |||
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"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?" Not changing is just selfish on the mans part though. If one of the ladies has something, the guy is protected but would then pass it on to the other lady if he didn't change the condom. As for dampening things, I'm sure the ladies can think of something to do whilst he's putting on a new one! | |||
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"Any local GU clinic will give you as many as you want free. " that's not actually true and most have stopped giving out latex free ones .. They will give you more if your a swinger but only about 40 | |||
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"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?" it does but unfortunately its one of those things you just have to live with. | |||
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"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ? Not changing is just selfish on the mans part though. If one of the ladies has something, the guy is protected but would then pass it on to the other lady if he didn't change the condom. As for dampening things, I'm sure the ladies can think of something to do whilst he's putting on a new one!" Its a massive dampener if someone is being selfish, or you are having to call a stop to play to instigate protection safety, or you are worrying about speaking up or getting a std. Much more fun if the necessary precautions are all naturally put in place without embarrassment. Changing a condom can be as smoothly done and should be, just as much as gloving up at the start.... | |||
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"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... " Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new! Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke | |||
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"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new! Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke " Thanks for the chuckle now have visions of two men waiting to take the old one off and two to put the new one on plus you need an extra man for the stop/go board ..... | |||
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"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... Awesome idea! or have four guys in crash helmets and fire retardant kit at the ready to whip the old rubber off and replace with new! Christ if they can change 4 wheels in 2.2 seconds with that level of back up you'll barely miss a stroke Thanks for the chuckle now have visions of two men waiting to take the old one off and two to put the new one on plus you need an extra man for the stop/go board ..... " | |||
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"When enjoying FFM threesomes I always change condoms between ladies....I even use condoms if one of the ladies is my wife." I really like couples that do this. With both my partners I always play safe in threesomes, even if we'd sometimes play bare between ourselves. | |||
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"Just to add a side note , it was never about the cost of the condoms or any such , more about the practically as a few had pointed out of when in the throes of passion , and keeping everything "clean" . X" Have you considered practicing putting condoms on? I can get them on and off of a man in a few second flat - and I don't even have a penis! | |||
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"Wouldn't changing a condom each time put a bit of a dampener on the things ?" Not as much as an unexpected STI | |||
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"When enjoying FFM threesomes I always change condoms between ladies....I even use condoms if one of the ladies is my wife. I really like couples that do this. With both my partners I always play safe in threesomes, even if we'd sometimes play bare between ourselves." With you 100%. The only person I play bare with is my wife, but even at a club we use condoms in case one or both of us later wants to play with someone else. What if I had been inside my wife bare, and then put on a condom for the lady lying beside her....and the condom broke or fell off? Safer in any kind of threesome or group situation to use condoms all around. | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun " Yes, because worrying about what you might be catching during sex always makes it a million times more fun obviously!! wow..... | |||
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"At the start of play put on 30 condoms, then take one off every time you change partners... " | |||
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"I was in a greedy girl situation and one guy took off his condom and passed it to another bloke who happily put it in. Put me right off! Guys and gals, don't forget to get tested regularly as well, including throat swabs. If they don't offer (which they should), then ASK. Stay safer peeps" *put it on | |||
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"As much as the "right thing" is to change condoms... Do you wash your hands? Do you wash your tongue? In an FFM threesome I doubt that a condom'd cock is the only vector for an STI... So... Where practicable, sure. But in a back n forth, back n forth? That's going to be a mood killer. I would guess! Flames" Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with. Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this. | |||
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" Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with. Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this." Curious re the random one of "not compatible"? (Because I am a guy? Ginger? 6ft5? Bi? lol) But anyway... Of the STI's that I am aware of, I can't think of any that would be avoided through swapping condoms and yet not washing hands / mouth. Flames | |||
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" Some activities have more risk than others. Different people have different risk levels that they're comfortable with. Not everyone is compatible with each other - and that's ok too. You and I obviously wouldn't be compatible for group sex, but it's not a problem because there's plenty more options on sites like this. Curious re the random one of "not compatible"? (Because I am a guy? Ginger? 6ft5? Bi? lol) But anyway... Of the STI's that I am aware of, I can't think of any that would be avoided through swapping condoms and yet not washing hands / mouth. Flames" It's funny - because my 'type' are tall, ginger, bisexual guys. But we're not compatible because you have a different acceptable risk level to myself. I would insist on you swapping condoms between myself and another female bodied person, whereas you don't give the impression that's something you think is worthwhile. | |||
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" It's funny - because my 'type' are tall, ginger, bisexual guys. But we're not compatible because you have a different acceptable risk level to myself. I would insist on you swapping condoms between myself and another female bodied person, whereas you don't give the impression that's something you think is worthwhile." I was merely being the "devils advocate" in terms of a condomed penis isn't the only STI vector. And to assume that would be STI-dangerous. IMHO. But I'm as risk averse as the next person who values my sexual & normal health As much as one can be "safer" there are always risks... But I've never been in an ffm, however, I've been in scenarios where there's been "condom confetti" (and that's fine, I do do the new condom thing), but I am not foolish to think that I was safe. It merely stopped my penis receiving or transmitting anything... Other body parts carry virus's too But indeed, who uses condoms, dental dams and hand alcohol lotion and listerine between every single different partner at a sex party? | |||
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" But indeed, who uses condoms, dental dams and hand alcohol lotion and listerine between every single different partner at a sex party? " Different things have different risk levels. Personally I don't usually put my hands inside a womans vagina (because actually - most women don't really get anything out of that). I use barrier protection for oral, vaginal, and anal sex with men. I use barrier protection on toys with women. I would likely not go down on a woman if I didn't know her well, because I prefer to use barrier protection then too. I always keep latex gloves and condoms in my 'sex kit' - enough to cover a decent sized group sex session... Some of us do prefer to use protection in those ways. And honestly, it's still great sex. But it's not to everyones taste. | |||
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"But it's not to everyones taste." Yeah... Condoms, not a great taste LOL. And dental dams can be... faffy... But different strokes for different folks And indeed, always the judgement call of risk vs reward! | |||
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"But it's not to everyones taste. Yeah... Condoms, not a great taste LOL. And dental dams can be... faffy... But different strokes for different folks And indeed, always the judgement call of risk vs reward! " *Shrugs* Caring about your partners health and wishes *is* sexy. That's a turn on to me. | |||
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"Just put 15 on at the beginning of your session. Then all you need to do is keep taking them off! Benefits include size and staying power ! " Or put a fresh one on top each time you change partners - by the end of the evening you'll have a massively thick cock - most ladies are appreciative of some girth. | |||
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"As much as the "right thing" is to change condoms... Do you wash your hands? Do you wash your tongue? In an FFM threesome I doubt that a condom'd cock is the only vector for an STI... So... Where practicable, sure. But in a back n forth, back n forth? That's going to be a mood killer. I would guess! Flames" The cock is not the only vector for STI transmission but it is the most likely, and easiest to make safer. A head injury is not the only risk involved in riding a motirbike but it's the most serious and one if the most common...and easily made less dangerous with a helmet. Would you refuse a helmet because there are other risks (eg leg injury) ? | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun " Omg | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun " ohhh were with you guys on this one .... | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun Yes, because worrying about what you might be catching during sex always makes it a million times more fun obviously!! wow....." Its like a scary lottery... Will I get the Thunderball or just stank dick | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one ...." So confused to why you want to risk a STi | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one .... So confused to why you want to risk a STi" I'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one .... So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat" When your covered in warts and your penis is dripping then happy days for you! Idiotic response | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one .... So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat" Plus I don't worry thanks I am SENSIBLE and use protection to minimise the risk! | |||
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"Just play bareback, much easier and more fun ohhh were with you guys on this one .... So confused to why you want to risk a STiI'm confused to if your that worried about std's why swing just insert a length of rubber inside or for guys have a wank into a plastic bag would be way more fun than swinging in a raincoat Plus I don't worry thanks I am SENSIBLE and use protection to minimise the risk! " that's in your opinion ..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ... | |||
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"..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ..." Yes exactly - each to their own. I find it sexy to take care of my partner's health as well as my own. Actually a turn on. It feels good to take precautions against disease transmission. I prefer the feel of sex with condoms too. Everyone is different and enjoys different things. You aren't compatible with someone who prefers condoms - but to say that using protection takes the pleasure out of swinging and imply that's true for everyone is simply incorrect. | |||
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"..the use of condoms dams alcoholic hand wash ect during play with multiple partners at a party venue takes all the pleasure out of swinging..the passion has gone if you're washing hands between partners during foreplay ..still each to there own ... Yes exactly - each to their own. I find it sexy to take care of my partner's health as well as my own. Actually a turn on. It feels good to take precautions against disease transmission. I prefer the feel of sex with condoms too. Everyone is different and enjoys different things. You aren't compatible with someone who prefers condoms - but to say that using protection takes the pleasure out of swinging and imply that's true for everyone is simply incorrect." I never implied it took the pleasure away for everyone ..you read it that way ..if stoping play every few minutes to wash hands or swap condoms or wash your face after oral does it for you fair play ..we just find it a passion killer ..there are probably more swingers on here with your preferences than ours these days ..which is why we play the 20 question game before we ever get to asking someone for a meet .. | |||
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"Also little tip if you are concerned about cost, Amazon do boxes of 144 for under £20 so you won't run out in one night Well...... " My son got 24 in the pound shop!! Lol | |||
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"Its simple ..... Wear two when fucking the first one then whip one off and uncover the second to fuck the other then whip that off to give them both a facial " sorry facials can also spread disease..not safe at all spreading cum around . | |||
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"Its simple ..... Wear two when fucking the first one then whip one off and uncover the second to fuck the other then whip that off to give them both a facial sorry facials can also spread disease..not safe at all spreading cum around ." Ok let it flow the wipe on the curtains | |||
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