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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

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We only have my parents to babysit, so it really does limit our night's out for naughty fun. 10 years time and we'll be free for lots of fun then

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

We only have my parents to babysit, so it really does limit our night's out for naughty fun. 10 years time and we'll be free for lots of fun then "

We're the same and as we both work the grandparents have them alot during the week so don't like to often ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're another couple that struggle with childcare, also money plays a big factor on the amount of times we can get out and play, some people seem to think we should have an endless pot

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By *albec26Man
over a year ago

Great Yarmouth

We always struggle to find a babysitter. But thankfully we have some understanding friends who are patient with us but it is hard for couples with children x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for single parents too!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I never left my son with a babysitter i just did stuff when he went to his dads.

He was 13 before i did my first overnight stay away

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By *hat The CuckCouple
over a year ago

South London

We have 3 young children but luckily my elderly father lives with us. Although as he's elderly 3 boys can be too much to handle during the day so we tend to ask him to watch them in the evenings that way they're in bed.

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

couples without children dont understand how difficult is to cope with them. in addition firt of all the family and after the play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not easy finding someone I'm lucky my two are older now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always found the sound proof cupboard under the stairs very useful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people always worry about what others think.

If they don't like it fuck em off

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"Why do people always worry about what others think.

If they don't like it fuck em off"

You need to worry about the mentality of people though who think you'll be ok inviting strangers to your house when your kids are in the next room and saying "it's fine, we can be quiet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you find a reliable babysitter,never let them go . I have an amazing one, she's my lifeline

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"Once you find a reliable babysitter,never let them go . I have an amazing one, she's my lifeline "

My 2 have to be separated as the old one can be so wild so babysitter out the question.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

Is it not a generalisation to say people without children don't understand. I don't have any of my own, however, I do have other obligations in life which means I wouldn't be able to meet at the drop off a hat.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Once you find a reliable babysitter,never let them go . I have an amazing one, she's my lifeline "
god you are lucky xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children are lucky. I'm always babysitting my grandchildren.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

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And people wonder why I generally don't meet or date people who have children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you find a reliable babysitter,never let them go . I have an amazing one, she's my lifeline god you are lucky xxx"

Oh I know & I thank my lucky stars, she's like a member of the family x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people always worry about what others think.

If they don't like it fuck em off"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never left my son with a babysitter i just did stuff when he went to his dads.

He was 13 before i did my first overnight stay away"

you were lucky then...

as my sons dad has gone AWOL, I usually get an overnight pass every 6 weeks or so, thanks to the kindness of my sister and her husband...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more a reflection of some people's sense of entitlement rather than a failing of all childless people to not understand how difficult it is to get sitters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

And people wonder why I generally don't meet or date people who have children."

My youngest child is currently finishing her dissertation for her law degree.

Childcare is no longer an issue.

Beat me and offer me to your other subs

#justtryingiton

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Feeling that pain ourselves. Especially after moving 160 miles away from friends and family with work. It's definitely not easy but we do what we can

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is it people who are childless think that babysitters can be found at a moments notice.... This Is a person you need to trust with the most precious things in your life, you are not going to let just any old tom dick or harry do it.

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yes true not easy to trust anyone with your babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the misfortune to meet a man off here years ago who was arrested for downloading child porn. I went straight to the police and gave a statement to say he admitted doing it.

The police were amazed that I was willing to testify against him as most wouldn't have.

He had groomed a single mom (also off fab) about swapping pics and possibly meeting her 13 year old child.

Both people still pop up with profiles on here. So I report and also report them to the police.

So that's why as a childless woman I think that it's weird that people give out information readily about their kids and home life to strangers on the internet.

People don't need to know why you can and can't meet. Tell them no and leave it at that.

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