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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How big is your cock?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How big is your cock?"

About 8"... Though not sure that's going to make a difference lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How big is your cock?

About 8"... Though not sure that's going to make a difference lol"

Your profile is better than mine anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!"

maybe lose a few of the cock pics and only show the verification from your meet....also put some effort into your messages, and get out of the mindset that every woman on here receives loads of messages...in reality if they don't like what you have written they just wont read it so you need to write something that stands out

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

You've got four verifications, despite having absolutely no profile text.

What on earth are you moaning about - that's unbelievable going If you had a good write-up to go with it, you'd be knee-deep in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!

maybe lose a few of the cock pics and only show the verification from your meet....also put some effort into your messages, and get out of the mindset that every woman on here receives loads of messages...in reality if they don't like what you have written they just wont read it so you need to write something that stands out"

Thanks! I try to write something different each time and relate it to what they're saying in their profile. Drop all the cock pics or keep one?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You've got four verifications, despite having absolutely no profile text.

What on earth are you moaning about - that's unbelievable going If you had a good write-up to go with it, you'd be knee-deep in it."

Haha, exactly. Would be nice to have a bit more luck. The veri's are webcam too, not all meets.

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By *reenEyedWifeCouple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!

maybe lose a few of the cock pics and only show the verification from your meet....also put some effort into your messages, and get out of the mindset that every woman on here receives loads of messages...in reality if they don't like what you have written they just wont read it so you need to write something that stands out

Thanks! I try to write something different each time and relate it to what they're saying in their profile. Drop all the cock pics or keep one?"

The one with the door in the background is good. Kill the others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!

maybe lose a few of the cock pics and only show the verification from your meet....also put some effort into your messages, and get out of the mindset that every woman on here receives loads of messages...in reality if they don't like what you have written they just wont read it so you need to write something that stands out

Thanks! I try to write something different each time and relate it to what they're saying in their profile. Drop all the cock pics or keep one?

The one with the door in the background is good. Kill the others "

done!

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love some feedback on my profile. Like most guys, I'm finding it hard to get anywhere. Either messages aren't read (more because I'm probably the 200th person to send a message to someone), or people are looking at my profile but not getting in touch... Help!

maybe lose a few of the cock pics and only show the verification from your meet....also put some effort into your messages, and get out of the mindset that every woman on here receives loads of messages...in reality if they don't like what you have written they just wont read it so you need to write something that stands out

Thanks! I try to write something different each time and relate it to what they're saying in their profile. Drop all the cock pics or keep one?"

put them in your private folder and bring them out when/if you get a conversation going...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've left one in there... Just in case lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've left one in there... Just in case lol"

its your decision...but you did ask for advice

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks

I just had a message from a woman that's had 400 messages in one day.. At that point you realise there is really not a lot of point trying to meet women on this site..

I only use this for the forums.. I found that if you join a decent upmarket pay site to meet someone and you can cut out all the council

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just had a message from a woman that's had 400 messages in one day.. At that point you realise there is really not a lot of point trying to meet women on this site..

I only use this for the forums.. I found that if you join a decent upmarket pay site to meet someone and you can cut out all the council"

Any recommendations?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get about 2 messages a day not 400. Yes literally 2! Occasionally a few more. We used to get a lot more, but I block newbies, non-site supporters, people outside our age range, MM couples, TV/TS, non-verified people, and people with no public pictures. I also say in the profile to only message us if the you meet the criteria. However if someone does fit the description of what we are looking for, because we get so few messages, he will get read and considered, so it is not all doom

Your profile looks good, especially photo 1 and 3. Those pics would get my attention - very hot! Personally I really struggle with cock pics, and if one third of the profile is a cock, I would probably move on. I think the cock pic is something that men appreciate more than women, although there are a few women who will request to see one.

Your profile could be a bit fuller, but maybe you make up for that in the messages you send. I always like to know about the man ie his fantasies, experiences, and what he can offer us. If you are interested in joining an MF couple in bed, make sure you understand the dynamics of playing with an MF couple. Different couples will be looking for different things from a man, so work out how you can benefit them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had a message from a woman that's had 400 messages in one day.. At that point you realise there is really not a lot of point trying to meet women on this site..

I only use this for the forums.. I found that if you join a decent upmarket pay site to meet someone and you can cut out all the council"

I'm sure that's a slight exaggeration!! No one gets that many messages unless they are new and have not had a chance to set filters!! That is just an excuse women use in order to avoid saying you aren't their type!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!"

How do you know they haven't looked? They may have done so in stealth mode ? And tbh it's not the most exciting description of you is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!"

We look at the profile of every message. However we don't show on 'whose looked at me' therefore the sender won't know we have looked. If the sender had sent us a thoughtful personalised message we will usually reply, and it hey have taken the time to read our profile, we will usually reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!

How do you know they haven't looked? They may have done so in stealth mode ? And tbh it's not the most exciting description of you is it?"

Haha, hence the advice! I'm good (I think) at describing what I like doing with someone, but rubbish at thinking about how to "sell" myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!

We look at the profile of every message. However we don't show on 'whose looked at me' therefore the sender won't know we have looked. If the sender had sent us a thoughtful personalised message we will usually reply, and it hey have taken the time to read our profile, we will usually reply."

Ahh, didn't know you can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!

How do you know they haven't looked? They may have done so in stealth mode ? And tbh it's not the most exciting description of you is it?

Haha, hence the advice! I'm good (I think) at describing what I like doing with someone, but rubbish at thinking about how to "sell" myself"

People are naturally selfish. On Fab they say what they want, which is good. But single men really need to go a step further if they want to be invited to join a couple. That couple will always want to know what a man can do for them, why they should pick that particular man over all the others. To put it on its most base level, men are applying for a job lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great feedback thanks!!

I'll have a go at updating the profile...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I must just be messaging the wrong people lol. But deflating to take the time to write a message tailoring it to a profile only to have your message deleted without a reply or someone looking at your profile.

But, people have the right to be picky!"

Send this: "gizzashagyabitch"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Profile now updated... Hopefully it's more descriptive!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Profile now updated... Hopefully it's more descriptive!!"

Yes that looks like a good profile now. I would pay attention if that crossed my path

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Profile now updated... Hopefully it's more descriptive!!

Yes that looks like a good profile now. I would pay attention if that crossed my path "

Whoop whoop. Thanks!!

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