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Inbox flurry and then nothing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else in her experience times when their inbox is quite healthy and then other times you receive nothing. I just wondered whether people went through stages of activity and inactivity in contacting members?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else in her experience times when their inbox is quite healthy and then other times you receive nothing. I just wondered whether people went through stages of activity and inactivity in contacting members?"

Yep I've had virtually no mail this wk not complaining though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah its mad the difference in the quantity of messages day to day.... but this last week has been particularly slow.... I think maybe because I have said no to 90% of all male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get approx ten messages a day but if I put up a new pic that easily doubles. Mind you outta then there's usually only one or two I reply too n usually they are friends not lovers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, even though it clearly stated in not meeting most men don't seem tonread even the first line. So I put up a status instead, hardly any mail its great

But even when I am meeting yes it's swings and roundabouts with the amount of mail on any given day

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Even as a chap I sometimes see a little flurry. It's maddeningly tantalising though when you're waiting to see if someone you like is going to get back to you again. Impossible to tell if it's real life getting in the way or you're not of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes, definite peaks and troughs of activity. As other people have said, a new pic or status update can prompt more messages and other times it goes quiet. Such is fab I suppose!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often holiday time and term time seems to be a factor. This week seemed quieter generally

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Depends if we post on the forum or not...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I find it depends on the photos I have up and if they are new. Had a flurry of messages yesterday been dead as a doornail today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel lucky if we get a reply on the bloody forum!!

Nobody loves us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone take my mail ill happily let u have it *looks at the number and cries*

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By *andeCouple
over a year ago

Bognor area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it depends on the photos I have up and if they are new. Had a flurry of messages yesterday been dead as a doornail today. "

weird. yesterday i had hundreds, and today it's been fairly dead also. i was online most of yesterday though and today not had much time to come on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a constant flow of messages every single day xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty quiet, then again I've used all my filters, hid my photos and have that I'm not meeting on my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else in her experience times when their inbox is quite healthy and then other times you receive nothing. I just wondered whether people went through stages of activity and inactivity in contacting members?

Yep I've had virtually no mail this wk not complaining though "

Wait for your mailbox to fill up now you've said that pmsl

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"We feel lucky if we get a reply on the bloody forum!!

Nobody loves us "

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