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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Couple of friends on my list and a few chats, will be patient.

Thinking it might be an idea to get a webcam and that way get verified as I imagine that's not helping?

Clubs and socials on my own is not really ideal so was just wondering if there's anything else that might help, apart from a penis enlargement op haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and socials are exactly what you want. Why do you think that they're not for people on their own?

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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I had this vision of it being like going to the pub on your own, sat there with your pint, everyone else mingling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs and socials are the best place for single guys to meet and get known to people.

Are you looking for advice on just getting verified on as a whole, like profile advice etc?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I had this vision of it being like going to the pub on your own, sat there with your pint, everyone else mingling "

That's exactly what it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this vision of it being like going to the pub on your own, sat there with your pint, everyone else mingling "

Only if you don't talk to anyone.

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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I think my profile is ok apart frrom lack of pictures, I do think a webcam is the way to go and maybe a club after I've at least had a meet or 2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my profile is ok apart frrom lack of pictures, I do think a webcam is the way to go and maybe a club after I've at least had a meet or 2."

I think you will be more likely to meet people if you go to a club. There are very few women who will watch on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my profile is ok apart frrom lack of pictures, I do think a webcam is the way to go and maybe a club after I've at least had a meet or 2."

Well if you think your profile is ok, then go with it, good luck

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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Gonna remain patient and self pleasure for now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also someone people may not see webcam veris as solid prof that you will meet x

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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

Good advice, better start mingling

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Good advice, better start mingling "
in the meantime, better start wanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my profile is ok apart frrom lack of pictures, I do think a webcam is the way to go and maybe a club after I've at least had a meet or 2."

Glad you think it is OK.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"I think my profile is ok apart frrom lack of pictures, "

Really???

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

If I can add my two penny's worth, you should get rid of that pic of you in the bathroom. I looked more at the toilet roll pack, on the window sill, than anything else.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Yeah get to a club have some balls and at least try it, also lose the txt on your profile about fucking somebody else girl looks disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gonna remain patient and self pleasure for now haha"

no offence but if you stick with that profile self pleasuring will be the name of your game for a long time to come

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to 'fuck someone else's girl' you need to not only convince someone else's girl that she should want to fuck you, but also convince her husband or boyfriend that he should want you to join them in bed.

You say in your profile what you want, but you don't say what you have to offer these couples. You need to sell yourself. There's a lot of competion out there, and most couples will feel more comfortable with a man who is experienced in this field, and therefore understands the complex dynamics.

Yes it probably would make sense to get to some clubs and chat to swinging couples.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Your profile is all "I want". It doesn't sell you in any way.

Think of your profile as your shop window, setting out what you have to offer...not simply what you want.

And "I want to fuck somebody else's girl" really does sound rather crass.

Blunt, perhaps, but true.

Yes, get a webcam and get yourself cam verified...it cannot hurt and it's simple. There are any number of people who will offer to verify that you resemble your photos on webcam. But why not at least try a club or social? As long as you have social skills and are respectful, you will at least get chatting and have a nice time meeting like minded people.

This site is not a guaranteed shag. The ladies on the site are, for the most part, real human beings with their own needs and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile is all "I want". It doesn't sell you in any way.

Think of your profile as your shop window, setting out what you have to offer...not simply what you want.

And "I want to fuck somebody else's girl" really does sound rather crass.

Blunt, perhaps, but true.

Yes, get a webcam and get yourself cam verified...it cannot hurt and it's simple. There are any number of people who will offer to verify that you resemble your photos on webcam. But why not at least try a club or social? As long as you have social skills and are respectful, you will at least get chatting and have a nice time meeting like minded people.

This site is not a guaranteed shag. The ladies on the site are, for the most part, real human beings with their own needs and desires."

Very well said

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By *IDDAA1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I wasn't trying to objectify anyone. sorry if that seemed like my intention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male you stand far more chance of getting a meet if you go to socials and clubs. You would need to mingle and chat to others though, you have to make an effort. You could tell the organiser you are nervous or shy and they might be able to introduce you to a few people but you would still need to make an effort and chat there are socials at clubs which usually make it slightly easier for single males to get in, so they are good to look out for and put your name down

Otherwise you will probably have to wait a very long time to get a meet.

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