FabSwingers.com forum: Threesome mmf

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered if anyone has any advice regarding threesomes. We always arrange to meet in a pub somewhere, then go back to ourplace....and just immediately start fucking. This all seems a bit of a rush - does anyone have any suggestions for icebreakers, or games to slow it down a bit.....?

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Yes, a team bonding exercise, like untangling the fairy lights from Christmas. That should take a bit of time.

I'm only joking, of course.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We have always chatted online for a few days before meeting for a social only drink, then if everyone happy we usually arrange a hotel play meet. We then spend a little time in the spa areas before Mrs O goes up to the room to get ready while we wait in the bar for the come up text. So by then it's been a very sexy build up and everyone us ready for a long night of play. Hope that helps.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"We have always chatted online for a few days before meeting for a social only drink, then if everyone happy we usually arrange a hotel play meet. We then spend a little time in the spa areas before Mrs O goes up to the room to get ready while we wait in the bar for the come up text. So by then it's been a very sexy build up and everyone us ready for a long night of play. Hope that helps. "

Sounds like you've nailed that

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Just wondered if anyone has any advice regarding threesomes. We always arrange to meet in a pub somewhere, then go back to ourplace....and just immediately start fucking. This all seems a bit of a rush - does anyone have any suggestions for icebreakers, or games to slow it down a bit.....?"

You could always have another drink at yours before you start playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first ever meet had a few little 'party games' to get things started.

One was sets of store cards or similar glued together in groups of 1, 2, 3, 5, 7. These had small holes drilled through and starting with the least one the idea was to suck it onto your lips and pass it from one person to the next, and every time it was dropped, the two had to kiss/remove an item of clothing or something.

Another was two dice, everyone rolled them, and the one with the lowest score was blindfolded and a forfeit performed -all very simple but made everyone feel very relaxed and a good build up.

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over a year ago

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By *oupletntCouple
over a year ago

St.johns

We had our first threesum about month ago.we researched for 2 months of single men on site.found one that was verfied by other couples.we chatted with those couples about him,they all gave him a thumbs up.we chatted with this fellow as long as we were searching.once we were comfortable with him we commited to it.and before hand we roleplayed about it.she pretending I was another man,she went through what she was comfortable doing and saying and same for me.we talked about anything I thought I was OK watching her do and saying to another man.after that it was one of the hottest and sexiest things we did.no hard feeling or regrets,the way it should be.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Personally, I'd find games etc a bit strange and contrived. That's just me though.

Last time, we just sat around chatting (mainly laughing at the things blokes said in messages to them!). It was fine though - just waited for her to suggest moving upstairs.

Maybe just deliberately build in a bit of that in the house, or wherever you meet.

I do have other thoughts on MMF, but they are more related to how the extra guy perceives things once things have started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you're there to fuck... Why would you want to play silly games instead of fucking?

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

Or , you could hide in a privet maze and he has to come in and find you . If done right , you can kill 40 minutes . If not , make sure you have helecopter rescue on speed dial . I always do .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses some fuck, some have a fantasy they want to play and others like the slow build.

What ever you are comfy with happy swinging

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Horses for courses some fuck, some have a fantasy they want to play and others like the slow build.

What ever you are comfy with happy swinging

Agreed. Make it clear from the outset you want to be a bit more sociable and take things slowly not just wham, back thankyou ma'am and sir. Lots of people say they want a more sociable side on their profiles and lots say they just want sex without much pre-amble. I doubt you'll put many people off by stating what you'd like on your own profile.

But if you're thinking sexy activities you could do striptease, watch a little porn, put on some music and dance a bit, put on a show for your guest, use bondage to have control of the pace, have a massage, have a shower before playing properly.

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By *itchfieldMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I see on your profile you like spanking so you could ask to be spanked and you like photos so you could pose for some. It depends whether you're hoping to slow it down before anything sexual happens or prolong the foreplay before full sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure if the fucking starts immediately, then that's how the meet has naturally flowed??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to entertain couples at my house.

Have a brew and a chat.....the two guys start to take a few of her clothes off.....usually by the time that starts we all leg it upstairs. Simple really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But you're there to fuck... Why would you want to play silly games instead of fucking?"

We have to agree with this, playing games would kill the mood completely for us

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By *unguyMan
over a year ago

lozells

I believe u shouldn't rush in to i have always believed to play a few games then get to sex

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By *orth_hantscplCouple
over a year ago

camberley

I think as others have said, we'd be saying would you like to come back for a drink. Then let the lady can dictate the pace the evening goes. When we're playing that's pretty much how it goes. Maybe add that you enjoy the social side and build up etc. to messages.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe u shouldn't rush in to i have always believed to play a few games then get to sex"

I would leave if a man wanted to play games rather than have sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe u shouldn't rush in to i have always believed to play a few games then get to sex

I would leave if a man wanted to play games rather than have sex..."
that's your perogative of course, but lots of people like to take a more seductive approach to proceeding's. I know we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is. If it's a guy we know we'll have a drink and a chat, discuss fantasies and talk about boundaries and stuff. Other way is to play a little game of strip jack naked with forfeits.

Mrs N is usually dressed to thrill anyway so we let her off LOL.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a game of twister first? XO

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

We just get stuck in, M likes it this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to play games.

We generally chat in the jacuzzi at Chams and if all goes well with the chat and initial physical contact we then go to a lockable room

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By *rblackpoolMan
over a year ago

blackpool

Play heads or tales

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm having a MMF tonight. I've played with both guys before individually there's no issue wit that but none the less we are doing a pub meet scenario.....so I can flirt and kiss them both and pass around my wet panties.....will be so much fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous much!!! Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jealous much!!! Enjoy!

I'm very excited and feel like such a naughty slut lol

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