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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny.

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny. "

No photos and no verifications.

I'd guess you'll only attract time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny. "

I'm a dickhead so not willing to help, sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics No veris and ( my opinion.) you sound very negative,maybe the no shows are getting to you,rethink your messages your sending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean they pull out before youve came?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all for your comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics for a start would help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You definitely need some pics on. Just to give people an idea of what u look like. Looks like you have something to hide otherwise.

Is there a reason u haven't put any pics on?

Mrs Nico

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just my opinion but I think you need to take a step back and re-evaluate everything:

Profile text (grammar, spelling, content)

Pictures

The tone of your writing and how that may come across.

Check out other people's profiles for inspiration if you think that may help.

When you have done it, take a look and ask yourself, if you were an outsider looking at that profile, would you meet yourself?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've put some pics up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've put some pics up "

Not much use if you have them hidden mate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sorry try now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry try now "

Just sort your profile text now and jobs a good un

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By *sym45Man
over a year ago

JE2

Plenty of pics.Full length too.Sharpen wording

of your Profile.Persevere get some Veris and you'll start flying !

Not all your fault though.There are a lot of Fakes.Wannabes.Comp Generated and Dreamers on here who ruin it for Real Players !

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

You say you're polite but I really don't find either your message on the forum, profile text or meet requests show that at all

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

Well done on listening to the pics advice.

You text really gives no sense of you and your character. It's really no different to endless other single male ones on here. Try to do something to stand out.

I wonder a little if having five meets up at one time looks a little desperate. They are pretty ambitious/unlikely too, tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny. "

If you post asking for help then be prepared for anyone to pitch in... Unfortunately once you go public it's out of your hands so just suck it up or ignore it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny. "

If people are repeatedly messaging you, arranging a meet and than cancelling late in I'm not sure why you'd think your profile was the issue. It's more likely something you are doing or saying while you are messaging them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny.

If you post asking for help then be prepared for anyone to pitch in... Unfortunately once you go public it's out of your hands so just suck it up or ignore it "

The "no dick heads" line was too rude for me. I thought, "Why would I waste my time helping someone who is rude?"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta echo other posts... Polite young man and then you open up with a broadside of rudeness?

Need more text describing yourself, interests and what you can offer potential meets, you need better pictures/body shots/mystery shots and finally to leave the shitty attitude at the door.

M&M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't need verifications to fly. Just adjust you profile to sound genuine. Describe who you are, maybe why you are here and what you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The poor selfies won't help.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Hey guys, What's wrong with my profile cause I get people message me then we arrange to meet then at last min they pull out, if it was just a one off I would be fussed but it's like every time, what am I doing wrong, please help no dick heads need apply or trying to be funny. "

Your doing well to get women and couples to message you on here, in all my time on here I don't think I've ever been messaged first

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