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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen this type of post here a few times and was wondering if a few of you could have a look at my profile and give me some feedback? It would be highly apriciated. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics pics pics and pics. Haven't even bothered reading because i don't if i can't see what you look like

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

You can have pics on your profile without showing your face!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

You need a face pic even if you keep it private. You also need a pic for your av. Nobody takes silhouettes seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does niggle when I see "no pics due to work". We all have this but it doesn't stop discreet public pics being used. Then keep others in friends only and private. The wording is pretty good but you need to proof read a few bits to tidy it up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as above, no pics means most people will skip over your profile without a second glance. They will not message to ask for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile picture needed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the above about pics and.....reading between the lines, please correct me if I'm wrong, you seem very generous to those who may be playing away. Is this because it also applies to you?

If not, I'm sorry...but I suggest you explain why you cannot accommodate...because most will assume it is because you have a partner!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the above about pics and.....reading between the lines, please correct me if I'm wrong, you seem very generous to those who may be playing away. Is this because it also applies to you?

If not, I'm sorry...but I suggest you explain why you cannot accommodate...because most will assume it is because you have a partner!"

Ok I will get some pics up soon then,

I'm sure I mentioned on my profile that I live with family so that's the reason I can't accommodate (i shall double check incase my update didn't get saved)

Nah Im not playing away just letting folk know I'm not bothered by it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the above about pics and.....reading between the lines, please correct me if I'm wrong, you seem very generous to those who may be playing away. Is this because it also applies to you?

If not, I'm sorry...but I suggest you explain why you cannot accommodate...because most will assume it is because you have a partner!"

He's 23....i assumed he lived with parents. Like i said, i haven't read the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the above about pics and.....reading between the lines, please correct me if I'm wrong, you seem very generous to those who may be playing away. Is this because it also applies to you?

If not, I'm sorry...but I suggest you explain why you cannot accommodate...because most will assume it is because you have a partner!

Ok I will get some pics up soon then,

I'm sure I mentioned on my profile that I live with family so that's the reason I can't accommodate (i shall double check incase my update didn't get saved)

Nah Im not playing away just letting folk know I'm not bothered by it "

Yes it does say the reason you can't accommodate on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

... And never, never say you're bored!

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"... And never, never say you're bored! "

Biggest killer on fab is the 'I'm bored and horny' status.

Other than that - the text reads well enough. The lack of public pics still would put us off if we were ever to look for a single guy. We both work in a 'reputation sensitive' sector but we have a lot of public pics on show. It can be done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here. It needs pics. Don't bother with the normal cock pics, they're not interesting at all. Try smartly dressed or partially naked leaving your 'bits' to some imagination.

MrsJx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why waste time going on fab without any pics??? Wouldn't even glance at a profile without one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why waste time going on fab without any pics??? Wouldn't even glance at a profile without one!!!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here. It needs pics. Don't bother with the normal cock pics, they're not interesting at all. Try smartly dressed or partially naked leaving your 'bits' to some imagination.

MrsJx"

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

We get quite a lot of winks from people with no pics and very little profile text. We might wink or message back if they had something we could base our decision on but with no pics we never respond.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the help I've added 2 new face pics but keeping them friends only for now but I'm willing to send if any one asks, and I've got one I'm comfortable with setting public for now (very generic topless one how exciting haha) I shall add more when I get all suited up next haha, I don't plan on doing cock pics tho as tbh this site is kinda flooded with them haha I shall try and get some more unique ones up in due course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a look at your profile and thought it was excellently written. It's great that you talk a bit about your specific interests. You may want to clarify want you are looking for in a lady. Ie occasional bdsm play, a regular owned submissive, NSA vanilla sex, an experience with a cougar? It's also always useful to say what you can offer because there is a lot of competion for single guys as I'm sure you are aware.

I see you are only looking for single ladies. Wondered what made you choose a swinging website as opposed to a casual dating site. Swinging site are more geared up, although not strictly, for sex that involves more than one person, and is probably more difficult for those under the age of thirty to get a meet. Casual dating sites I would have thought are better for people looking for one on one experiences. However I could be wrong.

I thought it was very obvious from your profile that you are single and living with your parents, as opposed to married and living with a partner, so no worries there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all the help I've added 2 new face pics but keeping them friends only for now but I'm willing to send if any one asks, and I've got one I'm comfortable with setting public for now (very generic topless one how exciting haha) I shall add more when I get all suited up next haha, I don't plan on doing cock pics tho as tbh this site is kinda flooded with them haha I shall try and get some more unique ones up in due course "

A good way round the face picture problem and privacy is to pixelate or black out the eyes, or show half your face. Sunglasses is another option. This gives the impression of what the individual looks like without them being recognisable. We do that with our profile, but keep our face pics in friends only. You should though always send a face pic with every first message, because many people will automatically delete unless they know what you look like. If you like you can remove the pictures you have sent later. Good on you for going against the grain and not doing the cock pic thing. That shows that you understand what women like. Women will ask for cock pics if necessary anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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A good way round the face picture problem and privacy is to pixelate or black out the eyes, or show half your face. Sunglasses is another option. This gives the impression of what the individual looks like without them being recognisable. We do that with our profile, but keep our face pics in friends only. You should though always send a face pic with every first message, because many people will automatically delete unless they know what you look like. If you like you can remove the pictures you have sent later. Good on you for going against the grain and not doing the cock pic thing. That shows that you understand what women like. Women will ask for cock pics if necessary anyway."

Decided to grow a pair and post a face pic and leave it public :O

lmao

Thank you all again for your help and advice

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's interesting enough, but some tweaks (a light BSDM reference there) to your text is needed.

For example, at this moment in time you have a face photo in public but state categorically in your text that you won't show one.

Check your grammar and spelling and sentence construction. It matters to some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's interesting enough, but some tweaks (a light BSDM reference there) to your text is needed.

For example, at this moment in time you have a face photo in public but state categorically in your text that you won't show one.

Check your grammar and spelling and sentence construction. It matters to some people. "

Deleted face picture part I forgot to delete it when I put a public picture up, as for sentence structure and spelling it will have to wait till I'm on my laptop... My spelling and grammar is bad generally (yey for dyslexia haha)

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