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By *onnimasseuse OP   Man
over a year ago

wall

Just a personal thing but quite a few couples and some single ladies look at my profile which is nice but when I look back so I can say thank you they have settings which ban single males from contacting them.

I always but always check to see if I can contact people and if it says NO on their profile then I don't bother trying. It's just frustrating that I may go ahead and fab their pics but not even a wink to say thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remember if you post regularly on the forum some people like to put a face to a name, it doesn't necessarily mean they are looking to meet or anything.

No point gettig worked up about it, this site is about fun at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they have men blocked because they don't want men messaging them. if they were interested they'd message you.

at least they looked at your profile so you know from search they found you interesting.

i don't even look at looked at me unless a topic goes on about it and wants to know something about it (like how many shadow avatars in a row or something like that). i don't care who looked.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't often bother looking at the whose looked at me. If they want to talk they can message. The photos are there for people to look at, not necessarily as an invitation of any kind.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Why would you mail them to say thanks for looking?

If they were interested in making contact/meeting you then they would have winked or mailed you. If they didn't I would take it to mean that you are not what they are looking for and leave them to it.

This is the main reason I use stealth mode, stops the 'hope you liked what you saw' messages. If I had liked what I saw I would have said so

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Why would you mail them to say thanks for looking?

If they were interested in making contact/meeting you then they would have winked or mailed you. If they didn't I would take it to mean that you are not what they are looking for and leave them to it.

This is the main reason I use stealth mode, stops the 'hope you liked what you saw' messages. If I had liked what I saw I would have said so "

Yeah this.

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By *oonshadowsCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes


"Why would you mail them to say thanks for looking?

If they were interested in making contact/meeting you then they would have winked or mailed you. If they didn't I would take it to mean that you are not what they are looking for and leave them to it.

This is the main reason I use stealth mode, stops the 'hope you liked what you saw' messages. If I had liked what I saw I would have said so

Yeah this. "

Definitely this x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why is looking at your profile something you should thank someone for? They weren't interested.

One of the reasons women/couples block men from messaging them is that they don't want pointless messages from people they aren't interested in.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Why would you mail them to say thanks for looking?

If they were interested in making contact/meeting you then they would have winked or mailed you. If they didn't I would take it to mean that you are not what they are looking for and leave them to it.

This is the main reason I use stealth mode, stops the 'hope you liked what you saw' messages. If I had liked what I saw I would have said so "

Yup! "I saw you looked at my profile..."

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By *luffy_bunniesCouple
over a year ago

Ilkeston

Messaging to say "thanks for looking" is highly irritating. We look at 100's of profiles, and lots look at us, but to clog up peoples inbox with stuff like that is a little daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even check who has looked at my profile, but even if I could I wouldn't message someone to say thanks for looking at my profile, if they wanted to speak to me they would.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Please don't contact people to say "thanks for looking". If they looked and didn't get in touch with you, then they're not interested.

This is why I view in 'stealth' mode, and I never even look at my Looked At Me list.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

'hope you liked what you saw / here's some extra pics to look at...' is why we go stealth and block messages from males.

When that doesn't deter them then fabbing every public pic (aside from those of rob) is their next course of action. Like banging on the glass at the zoo. I see you - you see me. Move along please

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

.... That said we do enjoy having a snoop at who's checked us out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you expect every website you view to privatly email you and gushingly thank you for looking at thier website? Us women get countless messages a day n mostly they just get deleted because the person has sent a ridiculously silly message. Just stick with messaging women you like the look of op and people who message you in the first place. X

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"Just remember if you post regularly on the forum some people like to put a face to a name, it doesn't necessarily mean they are looking to meet or anything.

No point gettig worked up about it, this site is about fun at the end of the day "

This. I am always curious about people on the forums so regularly click to learn more about them, whether or not they would be of sexual interest or not. Mrs.

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"Messaging to say "thanks for looking" is highly irritating. We look at 100's of profiles, and lots look at us, but to clog up peoples inbox with stuff like that is a little daft."

YES


"I can't even check who has looked at my profile, but even if I could I wouldn't message someone to say thanks for looking at my profile, if they wanted to speak to me they would."

And YES! Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a personal thing but quite a few couples and some single ladies look at my profile which is nice but when I look back so I can say thank you they have settings which ban single males from contacting them.

I always but always check to see if I can contact people and if it says NO on their profile then I don't bother trying. It's just frustrating that I may go ahead and fab their pics but not even a wink to say thanks."

The fact that they looked at you and did not contact you is the clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a personal thing but quite a few couples and some single ladies look at my profile which is nice but when I look back so I can say thank you they have settings which ban single males from contacting them.

I always but always check to see if I can contact people and if it says NO on their profile then I don't bother trying. It's just frustrating that I may go ahead and fab their pics but not even a wink to say thanks."
my policy is never fab anyone you can't message ,its only fair ,hey don't you just love a sexy red head with a big arse or two even

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just a personal thing but quite a few couples and some single ladies look at my profile which is nice but when I look back so I can say thank you they have settings which ban single males from contacting them.

I always but always check to see if I can contact people and if it says NO on their profile then I don't bother trying. It's just frustrating that I may go ahead and fab their pics but not even a wink to say thanks. my policy is never fab anyone you can't message ,its only fair ,hey don't you just love a sexy red head with a big arse or two even "

I'd hate to meet anyone with two arses.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

As a newbie to fab I was so glad I found out pretty quickly how to view in stealth mode.

Almost every time I viewed a profile is get messages along the lines of "thanks for looking so when do you wanna meet?" I'd usually respond with a "I don't that's why I didn't message you" response, to which I regularly got a "well you shouldn't have looked if you were interested!" Type reply. How the hell would I know I wasn't interested without looking first???

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Aren't masseuse's usually female? Perhaps they are just checking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealth mode everytime for us too, as invariably we also get the "thanks for looking" messages . Also annoying is the fact my phone is so sensitive I "browse" people's profiles by accident a lot so in most cases I wasn't even perving on them and still got the "thanks for looking" message , it was apples fault you got a view not me !!!!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"Stealth mode everytime for us too, as invariably we also get the "thanks for looking" messages . Also annoying is the fact my phone is so sensitive I "browse" people's profiles by accident a lot so in most cases I wasn't even perving on them and still got the "thanks for looking" message , it was apples fault you got a view not me !!!! "

That over sensitivity on the screen over Apple devices annoys me so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I looked at your profile now but that doesnt mean i want to fuck you the same goes for them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode everytime for us too, as invariably we also get the "thanks for looking" messages . Also annoying is the fact my phone is so sensitive I "browse" people's profiles by accident a lot so in most cases I wasn't even perving on them and still got the "thanks for looking" message , it was apples fault you got a view not me !!!!

That over sensitivity on the screen over Apple devices annoys me so much "

Probably not as much as it annoys the guys who think they're on for a tumblle because Apple makes them think we've perved them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a personal thing but quite a few couples and some single ladies look at my profile which is nice but when I look back so I can say thank you they have settings which ban single males from contacting them.

I always but always check to see if I can contact people and if it says NO on their profile then I don't bother trying. It's just frustrating that I may go ahead and fab their pics but not even a wink to say thanks. my policy is never fab anyone you can't message ,its only fair ,hey don't you just love a sexy red head with a big arse or two even

I'd hate to meet anyone with two arses."
from what I've read you like an arse or two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stealth mode everytime for us too, as invariably we also get the "thanks for looking" messages . Also annoying is the fact my phone is so sensitive I "browse" people's profiles by accident a lot so in most cases I wasn't even perving on them and still got the "thanks for looking" message , it was apples fault you got a view not me !!!!

That over sensitivity on the screen over Apple devices annoys me so much

Probably not as much as it annoys the guys who think they're on for a tumblle because Apple makes them think we've perved them lol "
but do guys think they are any further forward because you looked at their profile ?I certainly don't I treat everyone with respect but people do let you down in one way or another ,they move on so you have to, so its a no brainer if they don't measure up to what YOU want you move on

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op are you aware people have to open your profile to actually see anything about you. Why would you thank someone who obviously isnt interested.

Since midnight ive had 63 views on my profile but only 8 messages am i supposed to message the other 55 and thank them? And what would i be thanking them for not being interested in my profile?

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