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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London

Hi all. After some advice.

We were contacted by a single male whom after conversing with a couple of message exchanges told us we had someone in common whom we have met with.

After questioning him further he mentioned a person whom was one of our visible verifications.

Smelling a rat we of course decided to message our verification person whom confirmed they did not know this person at all.

Is this something we should report as its quite worrying that he's trying this tactic and we wouldn't want someone else having the same thing happen to them as its extremely dishonest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you could report him for? But in all honesty it's a tactic that will backfire, people will think he's indescreet or will suss the lie very quickly anyway

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know "

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's a blagger like a lot of single males on here. Just block him if you're uncomfortable and chalk it up to experience. I've had blokes on here even contact men on my verifications list and ask them for a threesome with me! Some will try anything. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's a blagger like a lot of single males on here. Just block him if you're uncomfortable and chalk it up to experience. I've had blokes on here even contact men on my verifications list and ask them for a threesome with me! Some will try anything. X"

My best friend left the site because if the same thing. Guys contacting me and asking me to arrange a meet with her (normally because she had already knocked them back) we both got sick of it. She doesn't need the site as she has enough contacts already lol....

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can "

I concur, that is a fab arse, even betteras glistening x

Block him x

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know "

You also have a nice arse, just had to add a compliment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can "

Crikey that's amazing!!

Now, what was the question?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He's a blagger like a lot of single males on here. Just block him if you're uncomfortable and chalk it up to experience. I've had blokes on here even contact men on my verifications list and ask them for a threesome with me! Some will try anything. X

My best friend left the site because if the same thing. Guys contacting me and asking me to arrange a meet with her (normally because she had already knocked them back) we both got sick of it. She doesn't need the site as she has enough contacts already lol...."

I got the same guys would mail me saying I see you've met so and so can you mail them so we could have a 3some

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

If my cock was an inch longer I would write the word 'Compliment' on it just to have a better chance

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can

Crikey that's amazing!!

Now, what was the question?!? "

I think the question we would all like to ask is who gets to rub the oil in & I bet they take a reeeeaaally long time doing it (to ensure full coverage ofcourse)

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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can

I concur, that is a fab arse, even betteras glistening x

Block him x

"

Thank you

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Nothing to report him for.

You get a few who try this, but as I only take recommendations from my friends this little routine doesn't work

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can

I concur, that is a fab arse, even betteras glistening x

Block him x

Thank you "

You & your sexy glistening bottom are very welcome x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I had a guy complain I'd met someone shorter than my preferred height

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By *layfulserfMan
over a year ago

Northolt

Sorry to hear this

Ive had people contact me asking about couples Ive met. I always reply that I'm to discreet to tell.

I wont even discuss the fun shared between mutual friends and Im sure that others have used my name as you have described

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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London

Thank you all for your replies (and kind compliments slightly off topic )

We of course play safe anyway but we did think we may have needed to spread the word so to speak but we shall put it down to just another experience on here and move on.

It's insane hearing some of the madness some guys think is acceptable behaviour to try and get a meet. Makes the whole lifestyle just that little bit more risky and scary.

Thank you all again

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By *igboy10essexMan
over a year ago

Upminster


"Thank you all for your replies (and kind compliments slightly off topic )

We of course play safe anyway but we did think we may have needed to spread the word so to speak but we shall put it down to just another experience on here and move on.

It's insane hearing some of the madness some guys think is acceptable behaviour to try and get a meet. Makes the whole lifestyle just that little bit more risky and scary.

Thank you all again "

& thank you for sharing your bottom x

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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London


"Thank you all for your replies (and kind compliments slightly off topic )

We of course play safe anyway but we did think we may have needed to spread the word so to speak but we shall put it down to just another experience on here and move on.

It's insane hearing some of the madness some guys think is acceptable behaviour to try and get a meet. Makes the whole lifestyle just that little bit more risky and scary.

Thank you all again

& thank you for sharing your bottom x"

Had a feeling you'd pop up again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your arse looks great oiled up. Sorry off topic, I know

thank you - I'll take a compliment anywhere I can "

Lady Lick is quite accurate, just wondering about the chance of seeing Lady Lick oil it up...

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

Yes we had a great social meet and were verified such by the woman in question. Then a guy saying he is her friend said he'll sort out a four way with himself in the picture. The words off and fuck come to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy complain I'd met someone shorter than my preferred height "

I had a guy tell me he was better looking than everyone on my verifications list and therefore I should meet him. I said "wow, I had no idea that looks were a marker now for how good people are in bed". X

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Ahh yes the ..I'm a friend of your friend routine .

Also popular

The .."oh we spoke before !!"

The .. "I saw you at a social ."

The... "I've been talking to your husband and he said to message you"

Not forgetting the creative

"I thought you better know that someone's been saying stuff in the chat room about you. "

All plausible but soon revealed as total lies with simple questions .

These ploys are used as an "in" to conversation but inevitably back fires on them .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I had a guy complain I'd met someone shorter than my preferred height

I had a guy tell me he was better looking than everyone on my verifications list and therefore I should meet him. I said "wow, I had no idea that looks were a marker now for how good people are in bed". X"

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By *hat The Cuck OP   Couple
over a year ago

South London


"I had a guy complain I'd met someone shorter than my preferred height

I had a guy tell me he was better looking than everyone on my verifications list and therefore I should meet him. I said "wow, I had no idea that looks were a marker now for how good people are in bed". X"

The cheek - brilliant response though to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably BS, Assuming your friend is telling truth of course, They might not of wanted admit to knowing or meeting him

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I don't think you can report him. People tell all kinds of lies to try to get a meet, but it's up to us to suss them out. I still remember the time a STRANGER asked me to join him and a lovely lady for a FMF, and at the same time he asked the lovely lady if she would like to join him and me for a FMF. Basically, he was trying to pretend to each of us that he was already FWB with the other one, when he'd never met either of us! But a quick chat between me and the lady exposed his lies. If we'd been daft enough to fall for it, I don't know how he thought that would play out, in person! When challenged he just said "if you don't ask, you don't get".

Moral of the story, always check, double check and check again.

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