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How did you approach swinging with your partner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Title says it all really.

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

We found it together, loved the idea of sharing each other, had two meets and we are now off to Angels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

told the wife straight from day one that if she didn't want to swing the door was open for her to leave and lucky for me she did and we have and we do so happy days

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I knew Paul was a swinger early on when I met him. I wanted to try it and after a lot of discussion and quite some time, as it's not something to get into lightly, we went to a club together.

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By *ondoneastMan
over a year ago

London

we went to a club that i found on the internet, we enjoyed watching, but she still doesnt want to try, a bit conservator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it was slightly selfish

She wanted to be pushed first but I sat down before her

Had to be done... sorry

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By *elovetofuck2Couple
over a year ago

cannock

My bf came back from work one day said his mate and Mrs were swingers, would I ever consider a threesome..think he thought I would say hell no but iv always had a bi side and said yes, he nearly died with shock, we then we xtasia with them the very next week, loved it and gone from threesome to couples and never looked back lol we love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had little free time she suggested it one evening while I was working away came home talked it over jobs a good one found club on net off we went lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my ex we went to a fet club on our 3rd date, that kinda set the tone for the rest of the relationship!

My current girlfriend knows all about what I've done in the past, I'm not going to hide my kinks from someone I'm in a relationship with, she is interested in exploring it, we've been to a couple of clubs and she loves fucking in front of other people and playing in the dungeon publicly. At some point we may play with others or way just continue enjoying exhibitionism and voyeurism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey sweetheart, meet charlotte, charlotte, take my cock out of your mouth and say hello"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Took us 20 years to get to this point!

I wanted to first, hubby took ALOT of persuading.

And now...he keeps saying how much time we wasted all those years ago.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a d*unken chat one night about ultimate fantasies, and it turns out we both shared the same one: MFF threesome!

We found fab and we've been on here for about 4 years on and off since.

Sasha x

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By *untimetonks69Couple
over a year ago

IRVING

He had kept it secret for five years but kept hinting. We split as I knew he had a secret. We talked after we split and he was then honest. The thing was I would have always been open to it. We got back together in an honest and more exciting relationship With lots of sex with others and go out together dogging too. I love it and we are happier now than we have ever been as no secrets.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

We were going to try dogging but decided to try a swingers party instead, just felt a little safer doing it this way and so glad we did..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked her if she would would mind me having sex with a girl at the same time as her and luckily she didn't. A whole later we had our first threesome

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By *our midnight manMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi, we were on holiday in Gran Canaria. I went for a 'walk' in the dunes and when I came back I told her about things I saw....this sparked the conversation without me admitting I wanted to try it. I gauged her reaction before going on with more details of what I saw...she was extremely curious and then said she would like to see too.

That night we went to a swingers bar to 'have a look' and ended up naked in the playrooms & we fucked nearly everyone in the place - excellent night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met through swinging 9 years ago and got married 2 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife came home one evening after being out with a friend,they had been discussing,about this site and asked if she would consider a foursome with her & her f.b which I didn't even no about well after a lot of deliberation,we decided to give it a go ,unfortunately it wasn't for them ,but for us it was good set up our profile and hit the search button that was a year a go and not looked back j & c x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married twice in to swinging with both in sex talk just asked what they thought and both were up to experiment, had 4/5,girl friends over the years all but 1 were up for it and all but one were up for bi fem exploration????

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

N had been on here as a single male, and one day when we had fucked he said get the computer and we made a couples profile. We had discussed my fantasies before this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we met as singles over 5 yrs ago on here and decided to pair up and make this profile over 3 yrs ago - we are just greedy and have had lots more fun

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We talked lots about fantasies and what it would be like to act on them, we agreed from the start that if either one was not happy then we would stop as it was always only an extension of our own sex life and not the be all and end all. We then chatted loads online to people, met some swingers socially and even went to a club to chat before dipping out toes. We always make certain we are both OK in every situation we find ourselves and as a result we have both always enjoyed every aspect together. The moment one of us says no then this journey ends and we would move forward in a new direction together. But for now we plan to get back into the swing of things as soon as we can. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sat her down told her I was bi sex an told her of my past our rship is none sex probably due to other ppl in house so try to meet on here

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By *rs Robinson999Woman
over a year ago

bristol


"For me it was slightly selfish

She wanted to be pushed first but I sat down before her

Had to be done... sorry "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find excuse to bring up conversation film documentary friend has told you about this site etc or try the what is your top three fantasys tell her one then get her to tell you one preferably when she's very relaxed get out a glass or two of wine and lay her on her stomach naked and ask while giving her a sensual massage and make your yhird fantasy would love to see you get this done by another woman then watch you do it back before you both have sensual sex before letting me or both partners join in obviously tailor it to your partners vices see where the conversation goes

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By *est-coupleMan
over a year ago

Southwick (near Trowbridge)

B told me in bed one night five years ago that he had been swinging as early as 1990 with his ex wife. I asked who the other man had been and it turned out he had visited while I was there - and he was staying for a couple of nights next week.

By ten on Monday night I was stripped to my stockings and being spit roast! We've never looked back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish my partner would try did ask once she went crazy would love to see her with a vwe guy

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Mu journey was a bit if a long one. A girl both me and my bf knew was shit stirring between us. One of the things she said was that he was pissed off I wouldn't try a mff which was a fantasy of mine but something we had never spike about. So one day I told him I was up for it and he shit himself. Turns out he never discussed it with the girl.

Anyway year or so later found a girl so we were going to have our mff and she text him just before we started saying she wished I wasn't there so they could fuck. He showed me the text and needless to say that was that over.

Near 10 years later since I first told him my fantasy we got chatting about it, I dropped a few hints thst I would like to have a mmf and to my suprise he asked me straight out if I wanted to start swinging. At first I said no but then after my first mff I decided to try a club were I had my first mff. I've been addicted since then and found its brought us closer together.

Xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me: "I'm a swinger"

Him: "ok"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I told him from that start that i was on here.

He asked me to delete it so i did.

After 18 months of pursuasion were on as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is key, if you havnt got that part sussed then swinging shouldn't even be brought up. Open sexual relationships require total honesty and transparency about what each person wants and desires and allows the bond to strengthen as you're opening up your deepest darkest desires.

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By *alnsanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Talking to mrs one day when we were out having lunch (between christmas & new year), doing our usual flirting & annoying each other, mentioned to her that i would love to see her with another guy, working through new year & new years day when i woke up on 2nd of january to a late christmas present from her, our profile on here which she had made & paid for, so far all going well & she's got a few meets/ideas sorted that she wants to do.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

as we met in the northern chatroom the problem did not happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on fab so didn't need to explain lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby kept nagging for a mmf finally agreed not look back since

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth


"My bf came back from work one day said his mate and Mrs were swingers, would I ever consider a threesome..think he thought I would say hell no but iv always had a bi side and said yes, he nearly died with shock, we then we xtasia with them the very next week, loved it and gone from threesome to couples and never looked back lol we love it

"
lol that's funny,good for you

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By *haznsteCouple
over a year ago

plymouth


"Communication is key, if you havnt got that part sussed then swinging shouldn't even be brought up. Open sexual relationships require total honesty and transparency about what each person wants and desires and allows the bond to strengthen as you're opening up your deepest darkest desires."
yeah that's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had talked about threesomes and meeting others. One day Boss just sent me a username and password and told me to have a look. Never looked back!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were drinking with couple and then things went to truth and dare and then we ended up all having fun. Then after we talked about how much we both enjoyed it.... And since then we have been swingers xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We chatted and fantasised a bit then just went for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He had kept it secret for five years but kept hinting. We split as I knew he had a secret. We talked after we split and he was then honest. The thing was I would have always been open to it. We got back together in an honest and more exciting relationship With lots of sex with others and go out together dogging too. I love it and we are happier now than we have ever been as no secrets. "

I've always been open and honest ,although I've had a few women dump because of it .At the end day if your honest and open eventually you find the woman who can share your life completely

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By *usky Couple01Couple
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Being from Ireland, these things are very taboo over here, I'm kinda rebellious anyway, so I suggested it the hubby how I'd love to go to a swingers club just to see what it would be like, I hadn't the words out of my mouth, when he'd set up a profile on another site lmao , which I found FAB ON there an we joined up here !! That was 5 years ago, been here ever since and we love it

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