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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello,

Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you messaging people? Of the people who openly view our profile I would say fewer than one in a hundred message us and it must be fewer than that taking those that view unseen into account.

Don't lose heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers."

You joined 7 days ago so patience is a good thing

You have photo-verified yourself (good thing)

Written a little bio (good thing)

Age, you are youngish, but shouldn't be too much of an issue

Have some pics (good thing)

cant accommodate (not so good thing).

Patience chap, read the forums, there is a lot of tom-foolery and tongue in cheek banter, but there may be some nice hints for you on writing that first message and how to approach people you would like to meet.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take it up the arse.

That gets me loads of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also have "straight" on your profile but your profile text states otherwise, unless I am misreading it? Entirely plausible, I thought a man had three arms earlier..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey!

I have messaged quite a few people, Couples, single males/single females, but after 1 or 2 messages it sort of fizzle out haha !

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"You also have "straight" on your profile but your profile text states otherwise, unless I am misreading it? Entirely plausible, I thought a man had three arms earlier.."

Yes, I would say this could be the problem as your profile is confusing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers."

Profile text is fine but you do need a better selection of pictures. Your two wavy mirror shots reveal nothing of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it also says you're only looking for m/f and ff couples

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey!

I have messaged quite a few people, Couples, single males/single females, but after 1 or 2 messages it sort of fizzle out haha ! "

I think it's a case of keeping on keeping on Rome wasn't built in a day etc.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello,

Seem to be getting views but no messages ? Am I doing something wrong ? Any tips or advice ? Cheers.

Profile text is fine but you do need a better selection of pictures. Your two wavy mirror shots reveal nothing of you."

that's the de rigeur swingers mirror...shows he's committed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"another look at me post"

yes it is....disguised as a please help I'm having no luck post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"

It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.

Damned if you do, damned if you dont....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres too many of them , i am sure some join and expect 10 fucks a day

patience, and a profile that clicks with others is the key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"

It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.

Damned if you do, damned if you dont...."

I would apologise for the spelling in the above post, but I can't be arsed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Couldn't all posts be classed as a l"look at me post?"

It is a swinging website, we have pofiles that can be looked at. We post in the forums and in statues, of course sometimes because it tickles our fancy, but one of the things people say to newbies who are finding it hard to get meets is to post on the forums.

Damned if you do, damned if you dont....

I would apologise for the spelling in the above post, but I can't be arsed"
yes the cuntdown spelling brigade lerk everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres too many of them , i am sure some join and expect 10 fucks a day

patience, and a profile that clicks with others is the key"

and the member having joined but 7 days ago would know this how? And please dont say use the forum search NO ONE uses a forum search on ANY forum, ANYWHERE on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about "

Okay..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

going back to look at me post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"going back to look at me post "

Its in the swinging support and advice forum.. I guess he wanted support and advice.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about "

The guy is new to the site and this forum is for Support and Advice. He is asking for support or advice therefore his thread is perfectly reasonable.

Im really not sure why people feel that they need to have a dig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"going back to look at me post

Its in the swinging support and advice forum.. I guess he wanted support and advice. "
i have a very good female friend who use to offer kind honest advice to these posts that seem to be mainly from guys and on each one they would send a private message to here asking for a meet. so a doubt very many are and the genuine ones get looked over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not asked or suggested use the forums. and anyone with an ounce of brain would realise you dont get instant on these sites fuck theres loads about

The guy is new to the site and this forum is for Support and Advice. He is asking for support or advice therefore his thread is perfectly reasonable.

Im really not sure why people feel that they need to have a dig "

I don't even know why people read this section of the forum if they are bored with "look at me posts" and don't wish to give support or advice, its like licking a battery....

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