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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can't stand not kissing, hardly met anyone who won't and i never meet them again.

would rather fuck my vibe.

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By *ipi2001Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

we prefer not kissing, on the lips we mean. kissing we leave for ourself

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Ohh gotta kiss but only someone I fancy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not big on the kissing thing tbh. its just not pleasurable for me. Although I do like the neck kissing, lip biting, quick slip n suck stuff haha

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

Kissing is a must for us Kissing is all part of the foreplay and gets the juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a couple I appreciate if the man does not want his partner to be kissed. One to one I love kissing....been told i'm very good at it too! which is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what's right for you...and don't feel pressured... Not everyone wants to kiss other people. In the forums though your seen as weird if you don't enjoy it.

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

It doesn't feel right without kissing. It feels like something is missing. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh kissing is a must for me and if the guy isn't into kissing I don't meet them period x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a couple I appreciate if the man does not want his partner to be kissed. One to one I love kissing....been told i'm very good at it too! which is a bonus"

Maybe it's not about the man not wanting his partner to be kissed? Perhaps it's her choice? Personally, I can take it or leave it...It depends entirely on the person and the situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't feel right without kissing. It feels like something is missing. x"
for you maybe but its better for me if the guy doesn't try to kiss me ( as normally happens )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a couple I appreciate if the man does not want his partner to be kissed. One to one I love kissing....been told i'm very good at it too! which is a bonus

Maybe it's not about the man not wanting his partner to be kissed? Perhaps it's her choice? Personally, I can take it or leave it...It depends entirely on the person and the situation"

That's true yes, but I have found it to be usually the man, after chatting to the woman Still, its ok with me, I understand some couples like to keep things for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With a couple I appreciate if the man does not want his partner to be kissed. One to one I love kissing....been told i'm very good at it too! which is a bonus

Maybe it's not about the man not wanting his partner to be kissed? Perhaps it's her choice? Personally, I can take it or leave it...It depends entirely on the person and the situation

That's true yes, but I have found it to be usually the man, after chatting to the woman Still, its ok with me, I understand some couples like to keep things for themselves. "
I don't enjoy kissing other men and trust me Mr wishes I did... He doesn't understand why I don't x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

Each to their own. We don't kiss opposite sex, but I do kiss other fems. However we know that for some people kissing is a must, so we always discuss it with people first.

Choose what you think you'll be comfortable with and find meets who feel the same.

Sasha x

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Depends on the kisser.... Don't like anyone who thrusts their tongue at me like a washing machine!!

Although my last few meets have all kissed mightily fine!!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I couldn't meet without kissing. Have turned down mff cos I wasn't allowed to kiss the man.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Don't think I could play without kissing, it's all part of the fun xxxxx

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Don't think I could play without kissing, it's all part of the fun xxxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one of the best parts of a meet for us, really gets me going!

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By *ohno86Man
over a year ago

salford

I don't understand how anyone couldn't kiss.. I love passionate kissing it's all part of foreplay, in my opinion

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I don't understand how anyone couldn't kiss.. I love passionate kissing it's all part of foreplay, in my opinion "

Abso fucking lutely! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing!!

I cant not kiss anyone on a meet...

in fact if kissing wasn't on the cards then there wouldn't be a meet

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I love kissing!!

I cant not kiss anyone on a meet...

in fact if kissing wasn't on the cards then there wouldn't be a meet "

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh yes ... I like a good snog

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By *ohno86Man
over a year ago

salford


"I love kissing!!

I cant not kiss anyone on a meet...

in fact if kissing wasn't on the cards then there wouldn't be a meet "

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By *ohno86Man
over a year ago

salford


"I don't understand how anyone couldn't kiss.. I love passionate kissing it's all part of foreplay, in my opinion

Abso fucking lutely! x"

And very kissable lips you have too. If you don't mind me saying so x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Depends on the kisser.... Don't like anyone who thrusts their tongue at me like a washing machine!!

Although my last few meets have all kissed mightily fine!! "

We prefer kissing.

Though as the deviants said above,do what suits you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op on the forum its very pro kissing..however we have found that more people don't kiss... I will kiss but only enough to get it out of the way..where as Mr loves to kiss and finds it uncomfortable to not do so.

Do what your happy with x you will find meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Generally a mixed bag then ? thanx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

Same here. Kissing is a big thing for me so no kissing would be a deal breaker.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of

Same here. Kissing is a big thing for me so no kissing would be a deal breaker."

Applauding this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't meet without kissing. Have turned down mff cos I wasn't allowed to kiss the man. "

Me too

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

We both LOVE kissing! We love our playmates kisses as much as we love each others!

However, we do understand that some couples hold that level of intimacy back for themselves. We fully understand that their boundaries are to be respected... We tend not to meet those couples though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

I haven't read the other responses so I'm sorry if someone else has said this.

It doesn't matter what other people do, its what you want that's important. We don't kiss others passionately and the people who meet us know that (if they've read our profile).

If you're not bothered either way discuss it with the people you're going to meet

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Said it before, will say it again: passionate kissing IS sex. Fucking is merely reproduction. I won't sleep with someone if kissing is excluded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = No passion = No Point.

In my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohh gotta kiss but only someone I fancy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No kissing = No passion = No Point.

In my view "

Exactly, we both love kissing, I think a meet would feel very strange without it, it definitely gets me going

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

All things being equal, kissing is essential and is preferable.

On the other hand, having your face snogged off by someone whose breath smells like fart does nothing for your sex drive.

So, I usually keep my options open

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Everyone has their own preference and I respect that but for me the only thing worse than not kissing is kissing me in a way that I don't enjoy...both would stop play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate kissing, but I still do it cos everyone likes it lol

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We've tried both ways and we find it sooooooo much more fun and sexy when there's lots of passionate kissing involved.

It feels much more.imlersonal to us when there isn't any kissing and that's not what we are about.

Though we have a met a few who don't kiss we much prefer it when they do.

Xxx

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By *c-ukMan
over a year ago

Sevenoaks


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

Kissing OMFG, how disgusting is that. Well we really have reached the bottom levels of depravity.. Kissing, really!! you should be ashamed of yourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"
most want to kiss ,I love it no kiss no me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Said it before, will say it again: passionate kissing IS sex. Fucking is merely reproduction. I won't sleep with someone if kissing is excluded."
you sleep !!!!!

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

kissing is a must for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (N) love kissing, I like my meets to on the whole be a very sexy sensual time, kissing for me is a very sexy, horny, intimate act. It's a must for me.

I'm not here to get pounded or fucked like a porn star, I'm here to enjoy good horny sex, with one or many, even in group meets I like to kiss. Sex without kissing seems very clinical to me.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Depends on the kisser.... Don't like anyone who thrusts their tongue at me like a washing machine!!

Although my last few meets have all kissed mightily fine!!

We prefer kissing.

Though as the deviants said above,do what suits you.

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Oh I like kissing!! Just depends on the kisser - some seem to want to locate what you had for breakfast!?

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Love kissing

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

When we first started, it seemed as though the folk we met were "saving kissing for themselves" but since then, almost everyone seems to love a good snog.

It rarely gets discussed now, you just get a feel for whether they want to kiss or not.... we certainly prefer it though and wouldn't choose people who didn't.

Cal

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We choose not to with others and we fully understand we lose meets over it but it is our choice and there it is.

After all lovelies it is still a free country.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me please..and plenty of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say kissing adds to the mood and gets you a connection with the other person so the sex is more pleasurable aslong as they don't suck your lips off your face haha

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

LOL can't believe you meet people you don't fancy!

Kissing turns me on. Women will kiss on here but you find blokes that are "straight" won't....strange but true, they're ok swallowing spunk and getting their asses fucked but not kiss blokes PMSL.

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By *orny mids guyMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough

Love kissing, makes the experience so much more erotic x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

Mwahs.....all over x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too impersonal without it....all adds to the eroticism so ladies....kiss me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could not think about not kissing, kissing is what turns me on the most, it is very sensual and sparks the connection I need with another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a yes for me. Massive turn on for me so a must.

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By *ionadavisonTV/TS
over a year ago

Welwyn Garden City

Can't get enough of it, it's an essential part of play, no kissing no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a good kiss to get to no each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frankly I adore a good snog so wouldn't meet anyone who won't kiss! To me sex without kissing is just cold - like two animals rutting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

Kissing is a big part of it for me. SUCH a turn on.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Hell yes it's a must no kiss no meet

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By *lueWKDMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

Has to be kissing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as the last weeks thread no kiss, no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing... I am really good at it xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Same as last weeks thread, no kissing for us thank you.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

…

Kissing is a big turn on and a must for us x

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We'd kiss all.of ya - come over and pucker up!!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Yep....kissing for me

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Kissing I do like but I still get aroused by other area kissing think it depend on the person even if I don't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know to some kissing is a personal thing but its just not the same without lush kissing and exploring someone's body with kisses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big turn on for me and an essential part of foreplay...wouldn't meet a guy who didn't kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me!! Big turn on!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We won't meet those that don't.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

I hear that couples don't want to kiss performing seals; that is only for between themselves; one of the many reasons why I don't meet couples as kissing is very important for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

you lot do make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex "
see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you."

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners.

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By *ongleggedfemaleWoman
over a year ago

Bucks


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

Just cold sex? Awful. I would never meet anyone who didn't kiss. It's the key to everything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners."
. Yup.... Its the same to me as anything else.. For instance I struggle to do anal so as I need a patient and considerate partner... Id not meet people where anal was important as I wouldn't be able to do it.

We are not a no kissing couple this half chooses to mainly not kiss or to be fair be sensual with other people as its my choice and what makes me happy. Its not that I do not enjoy it... Just I only enjoy It when I trust the person implicitly x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners.. Yup.... Its the same to me as anything else.. For instance I struggle to do anal so as I need a patient and considerate partner... Id not meet people where anal was important as I wouldn't be able to do it.

We are not a no kissing couple this half chooses to mainly not kiss or to be fair be sensual with other people as its my choice and what makes me happy. Its not that I do not enjoy it... Just I only enjoy It when I trust the person implicitly x"

It's clear we're in a minority but I'm happy with that, it doesn't concern me I just get a tad fed up that some people think being in that minority makes me something less than them.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Everyone has the right to their preference

However, to compare kissing to anal sex is a bit silly, to say the least

I have yet to come across a single man or single woman who does not want to kiss

However, most couples, atleast more than half I have encountered, have preferred to keep kissing for each other. That leaves the single woman, like myself, unwanted, and at best, just there to fulfil some fetishistic fantasy of theirs

This does not happen when I meet single people as they are not in any relationship where certain things are "just for between them"

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over a year ago


"Everyone has the right to their preference

However, to compare kissing to anal sex is a bit silly, to say the least

I have yet to come across a single man or single woman who does not want to kiss

However, most couples, atleast more than half I have encountered, have preferred to keep kissing for each other. That leaves the single woman, like myself, unwanted, and at best, just there to fulfil some fetishistic fantasy of theirs

This does not happen when I meet single people as they are not in any relationship where certain things are "just for between them""
why is it.. Its a sexual act that some people enjoy and some do not. As a single I never kissed anyone.... Because I do not enjoy it without the added aspects of it being with someone close and trusted... To be fair I have on more than one occasion felt my blood run cold when someone else has tried to kiss me... It does nothing for me... I enjoy sex immensely... But that does not include kissing random people I may fuck or suck.

I liken it to anal or oral or any other sex act. Because that is what kissing is.

When we are kissing its different, his hands on me, looking at each other and its amazing... Teasing at each other but with other people its just an act I rarely enjoy.

Just because you can't understand it.. Doesn't make it more or less important.

Its like for me.. I am bemused at people that do not like cum and yet love sex.. As to me sex without a messy ending be it facial or mouthful with meets, or with my partner in other ways.. I find it unsatisfying and can feel quite unwanted.

Guess this is the Same feeling some would have at no or limited kissing...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Everyone has the right to their preference

However, to compare kissing to anal sex is a bit silly, to say the least

I have yet to come across a single man or single woman who does not want to kiss

However, most couples, atleast more than half I have encountered, have preferred to keep kissing for each other. That leaves the single woman, like myself, unwanted, and at best, just there to fulfil some fetishistic fantasy of theirs

This does not happen when I meet single people as they are not in any relationship where certain things are "just for between them""

That's the fault of the couples you've met.

When we meet single men we don't kiss each other either, we like to ensure any meet we have involves everyone present and if that's three people any two out of the three kissing will leave the third out surely

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Anyway it doesn't really matter what any of us think as the kissing or not kissing will filter us out from each other

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Everyone has the right to their preference

However, to compare kissing to anal sex is a bit silly, to say the least

I have yet to come across a single man or single woman who does not want to kiss

However, most couples, atleast more than half I have encountered, have preferred to keep kissing for each other. That leaves the single woman, like myself, unwanted, and at best, just there to fulfil some fetishistic fantasy of theirs

This does not happen when I meet single people as they are not in any relationship where certain things are "just for between them" why is it.. Its a sexual act that some people enjoy and some do not. As a single I never kissed anyone.... Because I do not enjoy it without the added aspects of it being with someone close and trusted... To be fair I have on more than one occasion felt my blood run cold when someone else has tried to kiss me... It does nothing for me... I enjoy sex immensely... But that does not include kissing random people I may fuck or suck.

I liken it to anal or oral or any other sex act. Because that is what kissing is.

When we are kissing its different, his hands on me, looking at each other and its amazing... Teasing at each other but with other people its just an act I rarely enjoy.

Just because you can't understand it.. Doesn't make it more or less important.

Its like for me.. I am bemused at people that do not like cum and yet love sex.. As to me sex without a messy ending be it facial or mouthful with meets, or with my partner in other ways.. I find it unsatisfying and can feel quite unwanted.

Guess this is the Same feeling some would have at no or limited kissing... "

It does make it very important for me therefore I don't meet couples anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand how anyone couldn't kiss.. I love passionate kissing it's all part of foreplay, in my opinion

Abso fucking lutely! x"

That's the thing some people aren't after the passion just the sex. They have there partner for the passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We think kissing is important there's a lot more intimate things you do on a play than kissing so y shouldn't u kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think kissing is important there's a lot more intimate things you do on a play than kissing so y shouldn't u kiss"

We don't kiss as I (paul) don't like being really close to other people's face or them touching my face. Don't know why just never felt comfortable with it. I would never let anyone touch my face that i hadnt know for a while and felt comfortabke with. I find kissing an intimate act which is possibly because of this. Sasha doesn't see it the way I do but we are a couple so have come up with compromise on it.

Fuck I sound like a right strange one reading that back lol

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere"

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't. "

And I didn't say they do

I said why I wouldn't meet them as I am perhaps one of those unusual women who does not feel great about herself being treated like a slab of meat

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't.

And I didn't say they do

I said why I wouldn't meet them as I am perhaps one of those unusual women who does not feel great about herself being treated like a slab of meat"

Yes I can fully understand that and I don't think you're unusual. However the general tone in these threads seems to be that its fine to imply all sorts of things about people who don't kiss even suggesting that sex with them would be like sex with a prostitute (although I imagine that can be very good) that we're weird and that people who do kiss have superior motives behind their sexual activity. Phrases like "lack of passion" "animalistic sex" and words like "cold" are used to refer to sex without kissing and words like "sensual" "warm" to refer to sex with kissing.

I'm more than happy to get along with my life without kissing another guy but I won't have it implied that I'm less than other women because I don't in that respect I think we're very similar in the way this makes us feel just for different reasons.

This is not aimed at you personally but in response to this and many other threads along the same lines

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over a year ago


"I'm more than happy to get along with my life without kissing another guy but I won't have it implied that I'm less than other women because I don't in that respect I think we're very similar in the way this makes us feel just for different reasons"

This

Sasha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is compulsory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we love to kiss and is pretty much a deal breaker if we cant - only because we think we would offend by naturally going to kiss someone and pissing them off

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion "

Do you imagine that I act like a robot? How odd...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Do you imagine that I act like a robot? How odd..."
im saying for me as in my opinion obviously you have your own ideas on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion "

Can't see how it's acting like robots as you can still turn someone on and be affectionate if that's what you want with out kissing.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Can't see how it's acting like robots as you can still turn someone on and be affectionate if that's what you want with out kissing. "
obviously you can o was just saying for ME the kissing part can also make you feel connected to that person just an opinion nothing more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

No kissing. X kissing is for us 2 x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Do you imagine that I act like a robot? How odd...im saying for me as in my opinion obviously you have your own ideas on the subject "

Fair enough but I make a pretty convncing robot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Can't see how it's acting like robots as you can still turn someone on and be affectionate if that's what you want with out kissing. obviously you can o was just saying for ME the kissing part can also make you feel connected to that person just an opinion nothing more "

Yes we're discussing our different opinions it's not personal or at least I hope not but people get very near the knuckle with implications sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Do you imagine that I act like a robot? How odd...im saying for me as in my opinion obviously you have your own ideas on the subject

Fair enough but I make a pretty convncing robot. "
haha lol I take your point on board lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion "

We don't make love to other people we fuck and play... making love should be for people who are in love x

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By *otty69Couple
over a year ago

bedford

Go with the flow, try it if you like it do more, if not dont simple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

Can't see how it's acting like robots as you can still turn someone on and be affectionate if that's what you want with out kissing. obviously you can o was just saying for ME the kissing part can also make you feel connected to that person just an opinion nothing more

Yes we're discussing our different opinions it's not personal or at least I hope not but people get very near the knuckle with implications sometimes."
yeah I agree maybe I worded it wrong and nothing personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

We don't make love to other people we fuck and play... making love should be for people who are in love x"
ok I understand but you get the idea how I was trying to come across

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

We don't make love to other people we fuck and play... making love should be for people who are in love xok I understand but you get the idea how I was trying to come across "

Shall we kiss and make up? Oh wait...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

phew xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously kissing is for the individuals that are taking part.but for me personally the soft kissing of the lips ignites the spark that can make the love making incredible or what would be the point of turning up and acting like robots just my opinion

We don't make love to other people we fuck and play... making love should be for people who are in love xok I understand but you get the idea how I was trying to come across

Shall we kiss and make up? Oh wait... "

Haha that made smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't.

And I didn't say they do

I said why I wouldn't meet them as I am perhaps one of those unusual women who does not feel great about herself being treated like a slab of meat

Yes I can fully understand that and I don't think you're unusual. However the general tone in these threads seems to be that its fine to imply all sorts of things about people who don't kiss even suggesting that sex with them would be like sex with a prostitute (although I imagine that can be very good) that we're weird and that people who do kiss have superior motives behind their sexual activity. Phrases like "lack of passion" "animalistic sex" and words like "cold" are used to refer to sex without kissing and words like "sensual" "warm" to refer to sex with kissing.

I'm more than happy to get along with my life without kissing another guy but I won't have it implied that I'm less than other women because I don't in that respect I think we're very similar in the way this makes us feel just for different reasons.

This is not aimed at you personally but in response to this and many other threads along the same lines "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing generally no. I need to have an awful lot of chemistry for that to happen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing ignites the spark that sets fire to the passion for me.... that in turn leads to hot sex

for me no kissing = no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And forgot to add...that's why most of my meets have been social ones so far....haven't felt enough chemistry to take it further....not as easy to fancy someone as you think!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't.

And I didn't say they do

I said why I wouldn't meet them as I am perhaps one of those unusual women who does not feel great about herself being treated like a slab of meat

Yes I can fully understand that and I don't think you're unusual. However the general tone in these threads seems to be that its fine to imply all sorts of things about people who don't kiss even suggesting that sex with them would be like sex with a prostitute (although I imagine that can be very good) that we're weird and that people who do kiss have superior motives behind their sexual activity. Phrases like "lack of passion" "animalistic sex" and words like "cold" are used to refer to sex without kissing and words like "sensual" "warm" to refer to sex with kissing.

I'm more than happy to get along with my life without kissing another guy but I won't have it implied that I'm less than other women because I don't in that respect I think we're very similar in the way this makes us feel just for different reasons.

This is not aimed at you personally but in response to this and many other threads along the same lines "

I don't think you should be made to feel a lessor woman because you will not kiss any man other than your husband

I was simply stating that kissing to me is a start; I could not possibly meet someone, rip my clothes off and open my legs for some 'action'

It is no different to a gangbang. Some women enjoy it and why not. I couldn't; it is simply beyond the scope of my programming

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees


"I won't meet anyone who is not going to kiss me. End of "

I would love to kiss the end of you

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Yes!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Kissing ignites the spark that sets fire to the passion for me.... that in turn leads to hot sex

for me no kissing = no meet "

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Kissing is an essential part of the build up for us, it helps build the moment, the desire and passion.

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By *andS4funCouple
over a year ago

Lancashire

We kiss it's part of our play and we like it. Understand if people don't want to each to their own but we find it strange if people don't considering you're playing hide the sausage lol. But we've yet to play with anyone who didn't want to kiss

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The 'no kissing rules' make me feel like a piece of meat. I don't like that feeling so anyone who comes up with that rule, has to find their piece of meat elsewhere

I haven't seen anyone say that people who do like kissing should meet people who don't.

And I didn't say they do

I said why I wouldn't meet them as I am perhaps one of those unusual women who does not feel great about herself being treated like a slab of meat

Yes I can fully understand that and I don't think you're unusual. However the general tone in these threads seems to be that its fine to imply all sorts of things about people who don't kiss even suggesting that sex with them would be like sex with a prostitute (although I imagine that can be very good) that we're weird and that people who do kiss have superior motives behind their sexual activity. Phrases like "lack of passion" "animalistic sex" and words like "cold" are used to refer to sex without kissing and words like "sensual" "warm" to refer to sex with kissing.

I'm more than happy to get along with my life without kissing another guy but I won't have it implied that I'm less than other women because I don't in that respect I think we're very similar in the way this makes us feel just for different reasons.

This is not aimed at you personally but in response to this and many other threads along the same lines

I don't think you should be made to feel a lessor woman because you will not kiss any man other than your husband

I was simply stating that kissing to me is a start; I could not possibly meet someone, rip my clothes off and open my legs for some 'action'

It is no different to a gangbang. Some women enjoy it and why not. I couldn't; it is simply beyond the scope of my programming"

I don't feel a lesser woman I think we probably agree with each other but are just approaching this from opposite ends of the argument.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, every fun session has to start with lovely soft sensual kisses with cuddling and stroking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck? "

This might be where I misunderstand, we mean kissing on the mouth is ano go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't imagine not kissing someone while having sex as the kissing part is a big turn on for me

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over a year ago


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners."
but I choose to like the people I meet and them me ,so for me it is cold ,kissing is erotic and personal you're looking in eachothers eyes its passion its sexy and sex without it you are right is casual ,if that's what you want as a couple or with a partner I understand it but that's not me ,I want more and will have more and I laugh to at the seriousness of the threads ,some demand it but not this one ,kiss kiss and be kissed ,its sexy

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over a year ago


"Oh, every fun session has to start with lovely soft sensual kisses with cuddling and stroking "
with my partner mostly but not with a random guy... Id freak... I'm here for sex not intimacy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good old snog lol.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck?

This might be where I misunderstand, we mean kissing on the mouth is ano go."

I meant kissing on the lips, properly. I kiss my friends on the cheek Never done it on their necks though; they might think I am a vampire

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck?

This might be where I misunderstand, we mean kissing on the mouth is ano go.

I meant kissing on the lips, properly. I kiss my friends on the cheek Never done it on their necks though; they might think I am a vampire "

You say that as if it's a bad thing

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners. but I choose to like the people I meet and them me ,so for me it is cold ,kissing is erotic and personal you're looking in eachothers eyes its passion its sexy and sex without it you are right is casual ,if that's what you want as a couple or with a partner I understand it but that's not me ,I want more and will have more and I laugh to at the seriousness of the threads ,some demand it but not this one ,kiss kiss and be kissed ,its sexy "

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck?

This might be where I misunderstand, we mean kissing on the mouth is ano go.

I meant kissing on the lips, properly. I kiss my friends on the cheek Never done it on their necks though; they might think I am a vampire

You say that as if it's a bad thing "

Why do you say that?

It is not bad to kiss friends on the cheek; I would not feel comfortable kissing my friends on the lips. But then again, I neither have sex with my friends

There is a time and place for everything. For me, kissing someone on the lips with whom I am about to have sex with seems appropriate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A person who doesn't want to kiss is cold it must be sex as a bodily function surely and who wants that I would rather not have sex see this attitude annoys me and to me shows lack of understanding. Sex isn't any one thing. Everyone enjoys sex in their own way. I'm passionate and firey but mostly do not kiss other men on the lips (my choice) because it leaves me feeling cold.... Irony is rarely does a guy be it single or from a couple ever try to kiss me...

However this is why I never like to do straight swaps as when its 1on1 Is when its more likely to occur.

However I also wont allow a meet to stroke me or cuddle me either. Because I would find it freaky.

Funny in 16 years I have never had an issue or been referred to as cold... However I have also always preferred one off pretty much stranger meets.. Infact still to date our hotist and best mfm was with a guy we haven't a clue who he is and I don't even know what he looked like

Not kissing or not kissing much isn't about being cold.. It's about knowing what you like...

Same as anal or oral or spanking.. Its part of what could happen. Yet some.people look at you gone out when you say kissing random people does nothing for you.

That's why I said it makes me laugh all this "oo I couldn't not kiss, it would be cold/animalistic/like having sex with a prostitute etc" as if somehow kissing the people you have casual sex with lifts you on to a higher plane than those of us who choose not too.

Kiss or don't kiss its a choice we can all make but choosing to kiss doesn't make it any different its still shagging outwith your main relationship or with multiple partners. but I choose to like the people I meet and them me ,so for me it is cold ,kissing is erotic and personal you're looking in eachothers eyes its passion its sexy and sex without it you are right is casual ,if that's what you want as a couple or with a partner I understand it but that's not me ,I want more and will have more and I laugh to at the seriousness of the threads ,some demand it but not this one ,kiss kiss and be kissed ,its sexy

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

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but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx "

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Kissing please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must with us xxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing ladies x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task "
you are saying if I'm correct that on your meets you don't entertain kissing ,I myself see kissing as the ultimate in intimacy so from my own perspective which is the only place I can come from, its cold not to kiss in fact it would put me off sex if I didn't kiss

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves

We love kissing! All part of the build up for us. But we have played with couples where they don't kiss the opposite sex and that's fine with us too. we respect other people's boundaries but we much prefer to kiss

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By *asy247888Man
over a year ago

Kent

I've done meets with kissing and some without, and for me meets with kissing are far better.

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

All down to personal preference I guess but I think kissing while having sex is more of a turn on but I can understand why some wont kiss if they just want the sex without getting too close etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only kiss each other and have it on our profile. We have lost a few meets because of it but we don't really care, each to their own x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task you are saying if I'm correct that on your meets you don't entertain kissing ,I myself see kissing as the ultimate in intimacy so from my own perspective which is the only place I can come from, its cold not to kiss in fact it would put me off sex if I didn't kiss "

Oh right. I thought you were saying that because we choose not to kiss it meant we didn't like the people we meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task you are saying if I'm correct that on your meets you don't entertain kissing ,I myself see kissing as the ultimate in intimacy so from my own perspective which is the only place I can come from, its cold not to kiss in fact it would put me off sex if I didn't kiss

Oh right. I thought you were saying that because we choose not to kiss it meant we didn't like the people we meet. "
no I understand NSA and what couples who form the basis of swinging want but from my own perspective its not enjoyable or sexy without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet for us

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By *laqgrapeMan
over a year ago

Sanderstead

Sex without kissing is like taking the X from Sex......it's incomplete,for me it's def

no sex where there's no kissing xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love pationate sex and for that you need pationate kissing!

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Kissing is a must don't get people that don't kiss ..... Too intimate blah blah ..

You can put your cock in someone else but don't kiss them really !!!

Kissing is a huge turn on for us and we don't play with anyone that doesn't kiss

?Xx

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By *ERGIE6Man
over a year ago

irvine

To be honest don't see the issue if someone doesn't want to fair enough

It's like people who like and dislike bareback it's individual preference

If you don't agree just dismiss the profile and find one more suited to your own likes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss and I couldn't have sex without it.

But different people have different preferences, and I get that some people, usually couples, don't want to. So long as everyone is upfront about what they do or don't do, people can make the decisions about who they want to meet and it's all good.

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By *reykiwi500Man
over a year ago

West Kent (near Tonbridge)


"I love to kiss and I couldn't have sex without it.

But different people have different preferences, and I get that some people, usually couples, don't want to. So long as everyone is upfront about what they do or don't do, people can make the decisions about who they want to meet and it's all good. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is a must don't get people that don't kiss ..... Too intimate blah blah ..

You can put your cock in someone else but don't kiss them really !!!

Kissing is a huge turn on for us and we don't play with anyone that doesn't kiss

?Xx"

Well said guys! I love kissing it just builds up the sexual tension esp when I grab her bum & pull her tight against my chest tongues dualing like swords umm! If that aimt sexy, then i don't know what sexy is

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By *ongueNcheek33Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

How can you have sex and not kiss wow is that not part of the foreplay ??

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Before I get shot down I know that everybody has their own preferences etc..... but how could you shag without kissing!!! It's part of the build up, the during and the afterwards? Well it is for me x x I love a good kiss and couldn't meet knowing that I wasn't going to.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task you are saying if I'm correct that on your meets you don't entertain kissing ,I myself see kissing as the ultimate in intimacy so from my own perspective which is the only place I can come from, its cold not to kiss in fact it would put me off sex if I didn't kiss

Oh right. I thought you were saying that because we choose not to kiss it meant we didn't like the people we meet. no I understand NSA and what couples who form the basis of swinging want but from my own perspective its not enjoyable or sexy without kissing "

And that's your absolute prerogative

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By *unjamesMan
over a year ago

Banbury


"Kissing is part of the experience! How am I supposed to make a lady's toes curl if I can't kiss her neck? "

Leave her tights on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?"

I like kisses beforehand because they are sexy as fuck.

I like kisses during which turn into hair pulling and lip biting.

I like kisses (and cuddles) afterwards because I've just had sex, I'm drained, and kisses feel nice.

Thankfully I meet ladies who seem to feel the same way.

This was never discussed before meeting, but maybe I naturally gravitate towards that sort of lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't feel right without kissing. It feels like something is missing. x"

We both totally agree with this....its all part of the forplay for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Oh we like the people we meet, why would we meet people we didn't like?

but you don't experience intimacy with them kissing is intimate xx

I don't understand your point, I don't need to experience intimacy with somebody to like them You're confusing me now, mind you that isn't a difficult task you are saying if I'm correct that on your meets you don't entertain kissing ,I myself see kissing as the ultimate in intimacy so from my own perspective which is the only place I can come from, its cold not to kiss in fact it would put me off sex if I didn't kiss

Oh right. I thought you were saying that because we choose not to kiss it meant we didn't like the people we meet. no I understand NSA and what couples who form the basis of swinging want but from my own perspective its not enjoyable or sexy without kissing

And that's your absolute prerogative "
it is and I invoke it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing a massive turn on.. if im kissed on my weak spots it drives me crazy

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple
over a year ago

Sheerness

Rob very rarely kisses during sex, he is more in to it being rough so will hold me down or bend me over etc. We never really do missionary so not in the right position to kiss. Kissing for us is more of a romantic thing so that is why he doesn't like me kissing other men (women he is ok with) and I don't think I would like it seeing him kiss another woman. It is a funny debate really and some people get really offended when someone brings it up. Whenever we have been to sex clubs I have only really seen girls kissing each other or their partners and then fucking others x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find kissing a massive turn on.. if im kissed on my weak spots it drives me crazy "
where are weak spots on neck behind ears and your belly button xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to drive you crazeeeeeeeee

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Ok so this is a debate me and the other half are trying to work out. When you go to play or for a meet. Kissing or no?? Just curious don't no the proto ok for this one lol"

As a couple it takes 2 yes's for anything to go ahead and only 1 no to stop it. So if either of you don't want kissing on a meet then it dont happen .

As for the people you meet then ask them what they are happy with and you can then as a couple decide then if you want to meet them .

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"I (N) love kissing, I like my meets to on the whole be a very sexy sensual time, kissing for me is a very sexy, horny, intimate act. It's a must for me.

I'm not here to get pounded or fucked like a porn star, I'm here to enjoy good horny sex, with one or many, even in group meets I like to kiss. Sex without kissing seems very clinical to me."

Totally agree with this. We enjoy the sensual side, the seductive side and then the horny sex side. Some people mentioned only kissing people they fancied, for us that is a given as we will only have sex with people we fancy!

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