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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I'm looking for a cheeky girl for friendship and to attend some clubs with? I don't like going alone. I'm new to this and have just recently been verified by attending my first party x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blow up dolls are popular to go with, but try not to smoke near them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dolly the sheep enjoys clubs I've taken dolly a few times pmsl xx

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Sorry, but loads of guys are looking for a girl to go to clubs with. I can't count the number of times I have been asked, and usually the reasons don't appeal. It's either:-

1) they're looking to get in the club for a lower price

2) they're expecting sex from me

3) they're expecting that having a woman with them will improve their chances of getting sex from someone else.

I go to clubs on my own, and I only play with single men who do the same.

Maybe focus on what you have to offer a woman, first. If it leads to a 'club buddy' relationship, so much the better. But don't make it all about the 'club buddy' aspect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm looking for a cheeky girl for friendship and to attend some clubs with? I don't like going alone. I'm new to this and have just recently been verified by attending my first party x

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you will get the usual responses to this request you would be best to find someone you gel with and not a forumite ,people see this as a way of getting into clubs cheap and then go off and do your own thing within the club which of course is not allowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it honestly would be better to go solo at first; you never know you might meet a club buddy after a few visits. I for one would suspect it was a) a means by which to save a couple of pounds on the entrance fee and b) that I would become some sort of default squeeze if there was no better option.

Quite a few clubs run newbie nights which start with a purely social mingle. That would be a really good starter for ten.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry, but loads of guys are looking for a girl to go to clubs with. I can't count the number of times I have been asked, and usually the reasons don't appeal. It's either:-

1) they're looking to get in the club for a lower price

2) they're expecting sex from me

3) they're expecting that having a woman with them will improve their chances of getting sex from someone else.

I go to clubs on my own, and I only play with single men who do the same.

Maybe focus on what you have to offer a woman, first. If it leads to a 'club buddy' relationship, so much the better. But don't make it all about the 'club buddy' aspect."

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Oh dear ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You did go to a party so what's the problem with going to a club on your own ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would as well be cheaper to get in.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Sorry, but loads of guys are looking for a girl to go to clubs with. I can't count the number of times I have been asked, and usually the reasons don't appeal. It's either:-

1) they're looking to get in the club for a lower price

2) they're expecting sex from me

3) they're expecting that having a woman with them will improve their chances of getting sex from someone else.

I go to clubs on my own, and I only play with single men who do the same.

Maybe focus on what you have to offer a woman, first. If it leads to a 'club buddy' relationship, so much the better. But don't make it all about the 'club buddy' aspect."

4 They don't have the balls to go alone.

In which case are they going to be able to do anything once there?

If you can't go to a club alone, how on earth are you going to be able to turn up to meet a stranger for sex and cope with the getting naked part? There are far more pressures and expectations involved in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a man and go it alone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry, but loads of guys are looking for a girl to go to clubs with. I can't count the number of times I have been asked, and usually the reasons don't appeal. It's either:-

1) they're looking to get in the club for a lower price

2) they're expecting sex from me

3) they're expecting that having a woman with them will improve their chances of getting sex from someone else.

I go to clubs on my own, and I only play with single men who do the same.

Maybe focus on what you have to offer a woman, first. If it leads to a 'club buddy' relationship, so much the better. But don't make it all about the 'club buddy' aspect.

4 They don't have the balls to go alone.

In which case are they going to be able to do anything once there?

If you can't go to a club alone, how on earth are you going to be able to turn up to meet a stranger for sex and cope with the getting naked part? There are far more pressures and expectations involved in that."
Hi, hope your well. In response to your comments.... I attended my first sex party at the weekend on my own and met some great people and had an amazing time. I'm also new to the sex scene and have not quite got it figured out just yet. Really I am just looking for a girl who maybe feels the same as I do about going alone? Its not like I am scared to go alone I just think it would be a better experience to go with a partner? Someone who you trust and can look out for each other and have a good time. And maybe just to feel like a couple? those are my reasons ^ Hope you can understand my point x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

some really interesting points I did not consider in this post, I'm not trying to save a few pounds to get into a club, I have no need to do that. I have posted some of my reasons for wanting to go with a partner in the above post^ Hope people understand where I am coming from? I'm sure I will find a good partner in time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry, but loads of guys are looking for a girl to go to clubs with. I can't count the number of times I have been asked, and usually the reasons don't appeal. It's either:-

1) they're looking to get in the club for a lower price

2) they're expecting sex from me

3) they're expecting that having a woman with them will improve their chances of getting sex from someone else.

Hi Flirty, thanks for your response, some good points I didn't think of in your reply, none of those are my intensions, I have posted a few of my reasons in a post on here x

I go to clubs on my own, and I only play with single men who do the same.

Maybe focus on what you have to offer a woman, first. If it leads to a 'club buddy' relationship, so much the better. But don't make it all about the 'club buddy' aspect."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, I'm looking for a cheeky girl for friendship and to attend some clubs with? I don't like going alone. I'm new to this and have just recently been verified by attending my first party x

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Rarer than rocking horse shit. Good luck on that.

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Dolly the sheep enjoys clubs I've taken dolly a few times pmsl xx"

Are you on here as a couple then, you and Dolly? Poking fun at single guys?

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

One point might be that the waiting list is so long for single guys (apparently some clubs have a 12 month waiting list!) He wants to experience it to see if it's for him? Just our 2p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some really interesting points I did not consider in this post, I'm not trying to save a few pounds to get into a club, I have no need to do that. I have posted some of my reasons for wanting to go with a partner in the above post^ Hope people understand where I am coming from? I'm sure I will find a good partner in time."

Lots of women ask the same thing (looking for a guy to go to clubs with) and they get sympathetic responses. Ignore the idiots that take the piss just because you're a guy asking.

It's much more fun going to clubs with a partner than alone. Hope you find someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some really interesting points I did not consider in this post, I'm not trying to save a few pounds to get into a club, I have no need to do that. I have posted some of my reasons for wanting to go with a partner in the above post^ Hope people understand where I am coming from? I'm sure I will find a good partner in time.

Lots of women ask the same thing (looking for a guy to go to clubs with) and they get sympathetic responses. Ignore the idiots that take the piss just because you're a guy asking.

It's much more fun going to clubs with a partner than alone. Hope you find someone. "

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