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same room sex/soft swing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any couples just stick to this with results on fab? Thinking of getting more serious with a Ms Vanilla and want to coax her in gently....thoughts please x TIA x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It really isn't about what other couples get success with though, it's what your partner is comfortable with surely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It really isn't about what other couples get success with though, it's what your partner is comfortable with surely. "

Course it is, however if she does want to give it a go will i find willing couples on fab?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It really isn't about what other couples get success with though, it's what your partner is comfortable with surely.

Course it is, however if she does want to give it a go will i find willing couples on fab?"

Yes you will, loads of people prefer soft swing or same room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit harder to find soft swing couples than it is to find full swing couples. We started off doing soft swing only.

Having said that, it is still very possible and can be loads of fun. If you're into same room stuff then clubs can also be a good way to go.

Have fun.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a bit harder to find soft swing couples than it is to find full swing couples. We started off doing soft swing only.

Having said that, it is still very possible and can be loads of fun. If you're into same room stuff then clubs can also be a good way to go.

Have fun.

-Courtney "

Lets hope the fun starts soon, think a club first time might frighten her though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a bit harder to find soft swing couples than it is to find full swing couples. We started off doing soft swing only.

Having said that, it is still very possible and can be loads of fun. If you're into same room stuff then clubs can also be a good way to go.

Have fun.

-Courtney

Lets hope the fun starts soon, think a club first time might frighten her though"

It all depends on the person. We started at clubs before we were even on fab (I felt there would be less pressure to do anything if I wasn't in someone's home). Others don't enjoy clubs at all. Talk to her and see what she thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are a great introduction to someone new in my opinion just choose the day/night you go we first went to chams on a Sunday and tray found it quite unnerving the amount of single guys that were hovering around although none of them got too close or were disrespectful but we found the couples night was a lot more relaxed and a great way to meet new people with no pressure to play if you choose not to the same applies to xtasia as well both relaxed atmosphere and no pressure at either venue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you r ever in the San Francisco area I would love to have you accidentally start chatting with us at a bar, flirting with my wife and then we can all go back to your room for a theeaome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Clubs are a great introduction to someone new in my opinion just choose the day/night you go we first went to chams on a Sunday and tray found it quite unnerving the amount of single guys that were hovering around although none of them got too close or were disrespectful but we found the couples night was a lot more relaxed and a great way to meet new people with no pressure to play if you choose not to the same applies to xtasia as well both relaxed atmosphere and no pressure at either venue "

Many thanks and good points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are soft swing and like same room fun,

we also play at clubs,

maybe have a social meet with her knowing what the main conversation is going to be about , see where it leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of couples start at soft swing so if you arranged a meet and made it perfectly clear that's where you were at most would be pretty respectful of that.

We personally have no problem with just soft swap if that's where the night leads, it's all good fun either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely I think most couples start off soft swing then it progresses at your own pace. Best go to the club with no expectations and just see how yous both feel when you are there. Me and Mr A went and said we will just go for a drink and have a feel for the place and see if it's for us but ended up playing.....both myself and Mr A are happy with playing and getting watched with couples playing next to us but would'nt play with anyone at a club but have had a mmf in private x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for advice...off to a club in a couple of weeks when no kids around

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley


"If you r ever in the San Francisco area I would love to have you accidentally start chatting with us at a bar, flirting with my wife and then we can all go back to your room for a theeaome"

With your wife? - that would be a foursome then wouldn't it ?? -

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By *empsey and hotpieceMan
over a year ago

North west


"If you r ever in the San Francisco area I would love to have you accidentally start chatting with us at a bar, flirting with my wife and then we can all go back to your room for a theeaome

With your wife? - that would be a foursome then wouldn't it ?? - "

You're jumping to conclusions ted, maybe he has multiple personality disorder

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By *anda and CatCouple
over a year ago

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We will only do same room and as for full swap we go with whatever the other couple are comfortable with, swinging is about respecting everyone's wishes to us, we certainly wouldn't not play with a couple that only did soft.

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By *ig Ted 66Man
over a year ago

Hinckley


"If you r ever in the San Francisco area I would love to have you accidentally start chatting with us at a bar, flirting with my wife and then we can all go back to your room for a theeaome

With your wife? - that would be a foursome then wouldn't it ?? -

You're jumping to conclusions ted, maybe he has multiple personality disorder "

..or maybe he simply just got busted?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swing only but that term has its own meanings.

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