FabSwingers.com forum: First time alone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I have a rare few days off and am planning a daytime visit to a club.

I'm not a club virgin as I've been with the hubby a few times on weekend couples nights.

My question is ....

What is the etiquette for females?

I'm not interested in playing with single males, I like bi fem couples play.

How do I know if I'd be welcome to watch or join in?

Would I stick out like a sore thumb?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could depend if you have a bandage on it or not..... On a more serious note tho. Clubs tend to be far more relaxed of a daytime. Just chat to people in the social areas...you will soon get to know who foes or doesn't want to play.

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By *oonshadowsCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

I (Nina) used to regularly go clubs as a single female and found it way easier than going to a regular bar - much friendlier in a nice way and a lot less hassle from guys.

You won't stick out like a sore thumb, more like a unicorn which could mean you get more attention than you want - best suggestion to handle this would be to tell the staff it's your first time on your own, explain exactly what you are wanting and not wanting and then socialise around the bar area for a while. In most clubs the staff will make you feel at home, let the regular single guys know you're not interested and hopefully introduce you to some couples to help break the ice.

Several local clubs are open in the daytime and I would personally recommend Friday afternoon in Cupids as being a good place for finding couples to play with. Townhouse is great for having well behaved single guys as are the others but I don't know how many couples you will find looking for women - do, however, look out for the girls only days (I think Townhouse and Amour host busy ones) - they are supposed to be brilliant!

Have fun

Nina xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Nina great advice.

Yes I've been messages about townhouse girls only defiantly need to visit next time it's on x

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By *oonshadowsCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

"Thanks Nina great advice.

Yes I've been messages about townhouse girls only defiantly need to visit next time it's on x"

Friends go regularly and love them, I just haven't been free on those nights so haven't made it yet

I did mean to add that the other daytime events at TH are great fun and there will be some bi women there but they do get busy with single guys (non of whom will get away with hassling anyone) so lots of watchers unless you are quick enough to grab a private room xx

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