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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, still really new to the scene and just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to put in first massage you send to someone on here? Many thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello, is it meeee you're looking for?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile then introduce yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo don't attach a cock picture on your first message!

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

If it's your first massage, I'd assume that you'd already done the introduction.

Check spelling perhaps?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Difficult isn't it. Obviously everyone's different but you can't go too far wrong by introducing yourself saying you're interested in the person for x reasons (read profile to find out what) and saying you'd love to hear back if interested..

My opinion is that if a profile demands certain things such as "an interesting message" or "no cut and paste" you'll be wasting your time.

Good luck

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Seriously, read the profile, check whether you fit their requirements and simply introduce yourself.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"Read their profile then introduce yourself "

Can't go far wrong with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously, read the profile, check whether you fit their requirements and simply introduce yourself."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and when all of that fails you can console your self with a wank over their pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice start with 'hi' then let the cock pic do the talking for you hahahaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice start with 'hi' then let the cock pic do the talking for you hahahaa "

Nooooo don't send a cock pic lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My advice start with 'hi' then let the cock pic do the talking for you hahahaa "
ow yeah also friend request straight off the bat. Haha good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only one that thinks winks are acceptable? Send a wink, if they wink back then write a proper introduction and attach a face pic. Read their profile and make some specific reference to it. Assuming it isn't one of the many profiles that says "looking for lots of hot fun".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our joint profile we've always responded to a wink when we're interested. Kind of seems like the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am I the only one that thinks winks are acceptable? Send a wink, if they wink back then write a proper introduction and attach a face pic. Read their profile and make some specific reference to it. Assuming it isn't one of the many profiles that says "looking for lots of hot fun". "
totaly agree I think that's the best way saves people wasting their time expecialy when It says wink ignored don't just message Hi - then they just delete your message with no reply.. Heart breaking lol

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don't say "hi how are you".... thst may possibly be appropriate in a bar. .. but not online. It's boring and puts the recipient in the position of having to do the work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sincerity works best for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi, still really new to the scene and just wondering if anyone had any advice on what to put in first massage you send to someone on here? Many thanks"

Introduce yourself, highlight any shared interests from their likes list, include a face pic and be polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start by praising them.....(I read your profile and liked your sense of humour/ intellect etc.) Ask them to help (How can I improve my profile?) Ask them for clarification.

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