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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To the wonderful world of swinging clubs

It's taken a long time, but now she is intrigued about them.

Gotta tread carefully though, although she knows i go to a club, I have got to be careful not to scare her off before she even enters the building.

Happy times ahead

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any advice from people in the same situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo Marmite, that sounds good. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks hunni, slow steps, but hope to get her to come along one night for a social gathering.... meet new people and gain confidence back on herself, and above all, enjoy the surroundings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remind her that men are not playthings and have feelings and she can't go groping them willy nilly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Remind her that men are not playthings and have feelings and she can't go groping them willy nilly "

I would love her to grab the first bloke she looks at and drags him upstairs.... don't think that's gonna happen though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Remind her that men are not playthings and have feelings and she can't go groping them willy nilly

I would love her to grab the first bloke she looks at and drags him upstairs.... don't think that's gonna happen though.

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What if he doesn't want to be dragged upstairs? You might have a fight on your hands. Or you may be fighting them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What does she want?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She wants to think about it at the moment, not going to push her into any decisions, for now the balls in her court

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you showed her your profile? Maybe she can hook up with a few of your pals before she joins

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was thinking about it, but still unsure about a few things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking about it, but still unsure about a few things "

I'm sure Jason and Bex will make her very welcome at Mingles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was thinking about it, but still unsure about a few things "

Go for it, her reaction to the part where you say you've been missing out on things for the past 20 years should make her day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you are here?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was thinking about it, but still unsure about a few things

I'm sure Jason and Bex will make her very welcome at Mingles"

They are a super couple, and when the time is right im sure the mrs will love them as much as I do

Oh and no she doesn't know im on here for the person asking, but she does know I go to a swingers club, so not hiding everything from her like most would do on here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Any advice from people in the same situation? "

Do a Sid James: "This is the wife - don't laugh"

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Mr Marmite.....so pleased how things are developing with wifey. You are sensible enough to introduce her when the time is right. Good luck hun. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"Was thinking about it, but still unsure about a few things

I'm sure Jason and Bex will make her very welcome at Mingles

They are a super couple, and when the time is right im sure the mrs will love them as much as I do

Oh and no she doesn't know im on here for the person asking, but she does know I go to a swingers club, so not hiding everything from her like most would do on here "

I am not sure most do hide everything .... we don't hide anything, despite their being plenty people who want to meet one or the other of us without the others knowledge, we tell each other everything. I couldn't imaging having a 'secret life' where I had been meeting others for play for without my partner's knowledge and, more importantly, be wanting to lure them into it. Personally I think trying to persuade someone to join in over years of hinting, etc is manipulative .... if a partner's not into it ... is it make or break for the relationship?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife knows I go to a swingers club, she is ok with it too.

We both used to go out and play, but a bad experience has put her off, now a club is in the mix she may just come back out of her shell and start to enjoy again

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