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A meet is seeming impossible , either blow outs or fakes :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is going onnnnnnn!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly seems to be common place . I don't understand the point in making all that effort to chat and then arrange to meet then not bother ??

Hope you have better luck soon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many let downs have you had ? Are you looking just for couples or a single woman if its the single woman they tend to be the most difficult meet to arrange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who organise meets should be named and shamed if they disappear and let the other person down ,we aren't allowed to do it because obviously some may abuse it ,I have never missed a meet but those that do and the OP has had some experience of this should be highlighted ,just have to chalk it down to bad luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trademark and smallteaser

Get a room have some angry sex, work it out

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By *igBanMan
over a year ago

kidlington


"Trademark and smallteaser

Get a room have some angry sex, work it out "

That's a great idea.Let's join them just to witness the moment. I may or may not show up just to keep it on topic

I don't have many meets but I never failed one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who organise meets should be named and shamed if they disappear and let the other person down ,we aren't allowed to do it because obviously some may abuse it ,I have never missed a meet but those that do and the OP has had some experience of this should be highlighted ,just have to chalk it down to bad luck "

You arranged to meet me last week and never turned up.. not even a message...... ok you didnt but see how easy it is to abuse name and shame.. its your word against mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who organise meets should be named and shamed if they disappear and let the other person down ,we aren't allowed to do it because obviously some may abuse it ,I have never missed a meet but those that do and the OP has had some experience of this should be highlighted ,just have to chalk it down to bad luck

You arranged to meet me last week and never turned up.. not even a message...... ok you didnt but see how easy it is to abuse name and shame.. its your word against mine"

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves


"What is going onnnnnnn!?"

We was wondering the same thing! People act like they are really up for it aswell that's the mad thing and then when it comes to it they don't then up and ignore your messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is going onnnnnnn!?

We was wondering the same thing! People act like they are really up for it aswell that's the mad thing and then when it comes to it they don't then up and ignore your messages lol "

People are allowed to change their minds

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is going onnnnnnn!?

We was wondering the same thing! People act like they are really up for it aswell that's the mad thing and then when it comes to it they don't then up and ignore your messages lol

People are allowed to change their minds"

They are,but some have no intention of meeting in the first place.

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By *angtidy10Couple
over a year ago

wolves


"What is going onnnnnnn!?

We was wondering the same thing! People act like they are really up for it aswell that's the mad thing and then when it comes to it they don't come and ignore your messages lol

People are allowed to change their minds"

Yes of course they are, but surely it's polite to let you know when they have said they are definately coming? (Also noted my original message had autocorrected to 2 other words instead of come so have corrected in this post)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who organise meets should be named and shamed if they disappear and let the other person down ,we aren't allowed to do it because obviously some may abuse it ,I have never missed a meet but those that do and the OP has had some experience of this should be highlighted ,just have to chalk it down to bad luck

You arranged to meet me last week and never turned up.. not even a message...... ok you didnt but see how easy it is to abuse name and shame.. its your word against mine"

yes that's exactly what I was saying its easily abused

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Waiting for this thread to be closed by a mod .....lol

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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only had to cancel a meet short notice in the case of a family emergency. If I change my mind you will know about it well before the day and before meeting in a club. I never do first meets in a club but rather in a coffee bar down the road. If we get on then we may go to the club, if not then a horrid entry fee which I split anyway hasn't been "wasted". Surely once you are in the club regardless of whether a prearranged meet falls through you can have a good time? Plenty of people to chat too, have a few drinks, soak in the tub if they have one etc. If you find someone else to play with instead then that is an added bonus

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk

Can't believe I never made popcorn for this.

Trademark seems to have wandered into the lions den lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe I never made popcorn for this.

Trademark seems to have wandered into the lions den lol "

hey I will survive ,timewasters get away with a lot on here and sometimes guys are an easy target

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By *igBanMan
over a year ago

kidlington


"Can't believe I never made popcorn for this.

Trademark seems to have wandered into the lions den lol "

I've got plenty of porncocks to share

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By *igBanMan
over a year ago

kidlington

Popcorn... That's what I meant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe I never made popcorn for this.

Trademark seems to have wandered into the lions den lol hey I will survive ,timewasters get away with a lot on here and sometimes guys are an easy target "

Do you really need all the emojis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't believe I never made popcorn for this.

Trademark seems to have wandered into the lions den lol hey I will survive ,timewasters get away with a lot on here and sometimes guys are an easy target

Do you really need all the emojis?"

its my trademark

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

It's just horrible when people don't show , I went to meet a lady 3 times should have know she was a complete messer n she never had any intentions of showing up .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just horrible when people don't show , I went to meet a lady 3 times should have know she was a complete messer n she never had any intentions of showing up . "

Always go with your gut, why give someone a 2nd and 3rd chance?? Thats just daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just horrible when people don't show , I went to meet a lady 3 times should have know she was a complete messer n she never had any intentions of showing up . "
hey but for every bad one theirs a good one

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

This thread needs removing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was trademark id be unlos now

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By *igBanMan
over a year ago

kidlington

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts and we can leave it there

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