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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me." Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him. I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP | |||
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me." But this is one of our regulars she knows him | |||
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"Absolutely fab. Is it her birthday!?! Feeling jealous " No it's not her birthday is just something I haven't done before | |||
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"A while ago a good friend of mine left me tied up and blind folded in a hotel room, I had no idea what he had planned but I knew everything he did was for my pleasure. He left me there for what seemed like ages but was in fact less than 15 minutes then returned with a good friend of ours. An amazing few hours followed that still makes me smile now. " That sounds really good | |||
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"A while ago a good friend of mine left me tied up and blind folded in a hotel room, I had no idea what he had planned but I knew everything he did was for my pleasure. He left me there for what seemed like ages but was in fact less than 15 minutes then returned with a good friend of ours. An amazing few hours followed that still makes me smile now. That sounds really good " It was x | |||
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself... Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this.... Thanks " I wouldn't personally. Agreeing to sex with someone on one or more occasions doesn't mean he can assume my consent in the future. If this is something your wife has asked you to do and you know she will enjoy however I hope you all enjoy. | |||
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"But this is one of our regulars she knows him " I still wouldn't accept it being 'assumed' that I would play again, without being asked. Sometimes I'm in the mood for MFM, sometimes I'm in the mood for MF. But you crack on, if you're confident that your lady will find it acceptable. | |||
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me. Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him. I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP" Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us | |||
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me. Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him. I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us " But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise". | |||
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".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us!" So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence. | |||
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".. I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence." I don't think you quite follow the track of how this works, the unknown is whats so damned horny about this scenario. OK, its all about trusting your partner ultimately but that's what a relationship is about surely. Personally , I love it !! | |||
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".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us! So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence." This was the lady's fantasy, and she implicitly trusted her husband to select and invite two men whom she had previously met. It all worked very well. | |||
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".. during round one, both of us had to keep quiet to avoid her recognising us! So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's opresence." I wonder why some people join this site! | |||
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"So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence." Well you sound like a fun person | |||
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"So the lady was being 'surprised' by extra cocks, and she wasn't allowed to know who the cocks belonged to? Could have been complete strangers, for all she knew? I guess this was the lady's fantasy, and glad to hear that there was champagne afterwards. But I would suggest that anyone 'surprising' their lady in this way should be prepared to whip the blindfold off, as soon as she felt the other guy's presence. Well you sound like a fun person " We we're thinking the same thing. | |||
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me. Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him. I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise". " My missus never ask to do this that's why I've called a surprise it wouldn't be surprised if she already knew I was going to do that | |||
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is. It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario. -Courtney " Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same | |||
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"No, I wouldn't take this as a 'nice' surprise, I would be very angry, and play would stop immediately. No-one decides who plays with me, except me. Hello ! "One of their regulars". She has already played with him and likes him. I think this would be great, provided you have already discussed the idea or already had a threesome. Have fun OP Yes we had few threensomes and this guy already played a few times with us But what a few of us are saying and you've either missed or deliberately avoided is,is this something your partner has asked you to arrange at some point or are you assuming that because she had sex with a man once she will be ok with it again even as a "surprise". My missus never ask to do this that's why I've called a surprise it wouldn't be surprised if she already knew I was going to do that " Then I will say for the final time, if a woman (or a man) consents to sex once it does not mean they consent to sex with that person in the future. Roll your eyes at me all you like but I'm not the one thinking its ok for my wife to be fucked when she doesn't know who it is. | |||
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is. It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario. -Courtney Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same " Yes. Hence my last paragraph. Marc and I have discussed this scenario in the past. If we hadn't, and he tried it, I wouldn't be ok with that. | |||
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"Perhaps ask her if it's okay a good while before you do it.. " I've been with my missus for the last 11 year's of my life,the point is i know what she likes | |||
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"This is something I so want to try with Marc. I trust that he knows who, of the guys we've played with before, I would enjoy doing this with. And I would also like to know the situation before hand (that it would be happening), but I would love to have Marc blindfold me and have an mfm with me not knowing who the other guy is. It all comes down to how good you and your partner are with this and whether or not she would be happy with such a scenario. -Courtney Agreed if you trust you're partner u know that he wouldn't do anything that you wouldn't enjoy of course not every relationship works the same Yes. Hence my last paragraph. Marc and I have discussed this scenario in the past. If we hadn't, and he tried it, I wouldn't be ok with that." Fair enough | |||
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"I've done this the other way round The women of a couple I knew asked me if I'd help with a surprise for her hubby's birthday Basically she wanted to tie him up and blind fold him, have somebody come into the room and use him sexually then leave, never say a world so he never knows who it was I happily obliged Was really funny the next time I saw them at a club he was telling me all about his birthday and how she had tied him up and somebody had come in and what they had done to him, he looked happy enough about it sounded like he had a great time, had no idea it was me " Lime this idea too. | |||
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"That sounds very hot! I would like a surprise like that. " | |||
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"Do u know what all u couples ur lucky to have a good sexy partner who look after each other. Give u nice surprises n have great fun together . " I know | |||
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"This is a big fantasy of mine, I would bloody love it. " On a totally unrelated note, love soapy boobs you have on your pictures | |||
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"We have done this before and it was great! Dollx" Now I'm even more convinced to do it I will let you all know how it was | |||
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"I have done this with a couple I know really well. She was bound up and on the bed, she had no idea who her hubby had arranged (he arranged women/couple or me). It was such a turn on to unzip and open her mouth! Yum" | |||
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"I have done this with a couple I know really well. She was bound up and on the bed, she had no idea who her hubby had arranged (he arranged women/couple or me). It was such a turn on to unzip and open her mouth! Yum" That sounds really good | |||
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"Let us all know how it goes - have fun!" We will meet on Thursday or Friday but I will let you all know how was it | |||
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"One of my fantasies too And I fully trust my cheeky to choose wisely ! " Me too... Whether it would ever happen is another matter. A girl can dream Nita | |||
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"I'd suggest working out what you'll do if it goes wrong... a foolproof plan would include telling the other guy "I am totally sure she'll love this, but if she doesn't, I expect you to take it in good grace" and making sure you don't react crossly if it doesn't go to plan. It's a risk taken lovingly ... so like an 'embarrassing' public proposal etc, you can put a lot of thought in, but you can't know the reaction... and she has the right to say no obv." I'm sure that even if she's not blindfold she would enjoy anyway because we've meet this guy before many times,but thanks 4 the advice | |||
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"This is something we want to do and will try, it fills me with excitment just thinking about it " | |||
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"Looking to surprise L with this scenario soon. I can safely say it here as she never ventures into the forums " We've got something in common | |||
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"Scarlett would enjoy this scenario as long as she knew the guy. She wouldn't know it was him during the scene of course but would be relieved to see a familiar face once the blindfold was removed. " That's the plan,to make sure everyone is satisfied | |||
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"This is on my fantasy list - I would need the guys to be people I have met before... But the idea of being blindfolded and not knowing who is taking you is a real turn on for me" I'm doing it on Saturday,can't wait to tell you guy's how it was | |||
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"One of my fantasies too And I fully trust my cheeky to choose wisely ! Me too... Whether it would ever happen is another matter. A girl can dream Today is the day and tomorrow I will let you all know how it was Nita" | |||
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"I did something similar, I knew a guy was coming but had no idea who he was, I was tied and blindfolded for the whole meet and once he left I watched the video to see who it was!! One of my best experiences x" I did this too although I took blindfold off after the first round so could see who it was for round 2 and 3..was so hot | |||
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself... Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this.... Thanks " Put some earphones in her ears and play music so she can't hear anything else. Then everyone can tease her body with different smooth, rough, tickly, cold etc etc. Ropes to restrain her if that's your thing. Different tongues licking/ probing... The results can be amazing. | |||
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"I'm planning to do surprise my missus The plan is inviting one of our regulars I will make sure that she's horny by the time he joins in she's already blindfold and enjoying herself... Lady's let me know if you would enjoy this.... Thanks " yes this is one of my fantasies. | |||
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