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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because choice is everything.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Because they can. Are things not going how you had hoped?

Just because they are on here doesn't mean they have to meet everything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because we know what we want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Everything is going good, I have been on sites like this before but never really noticed the amount of rules people have.

I'm not mistaken rules for standards here, we all have them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is going good, I have been on sites like this before but never really noticed the amount of rules people have.

I'm not mistaken rules for standards here, we all have them. "

Then you surely must understand that everyone has there own set of rules.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!"

If I wanted a sexiest I would just go to my local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some people come on here to meet a specific type of person for specific things maybe ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

If I wanted a sexiest I would just go to my local "

So why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather meet someone with rules than someone who would meet anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everything is going good, I have been on sites like this before but never really noticed the amount of rules people have.

I'm not mistaken rules for standards here, we all have them.

Then you surely must understand that everyone has there own set of rules."

Yes everyone has got to have rules to some extent but some are ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everything is going good, I have been on sites like this before but never really noticed the amount of rules people have.

I'm not mistaken rules for standards here, we all have them.

Then you surely must understand that everyone has there own set of rules.

Yes everyone has got to have rules to some extent but some are ridiculous "

Maybe not to them ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

If I wanted a sexiest I would just go to my local

So why are you here?"

To have a laugh and a joke, get to know new people and have some fun with them. Why are you here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

If I wanted a sexiest I would just go to my local

So why are you here?

To have a laugh and a joke, get to know new people and have some fun with them. Why are you here? "

Then concentrate on the ones who want the same and ignore the ones with all the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

If I wanted a sexiest I would just go to my local

So why are you here?

To have a laugh and a joke, get to know new people and have some fun with them. Why are you here?

Then concentrate on the ones who want the same and ignore the ones with all the rules."

As he says

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being approached by what you find unatractive is not fun, end of.

but yet again i keep forgetting we're just supposed to fuck anyone who asks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!"

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live "

Oh right.. oh I see.. We should meet anyone who shows an interest even though they aren't what we are looking for.. is that right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live "

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive."

I don't have the time to waste it on these people. Just noticed recently that there is a lot of rules flying about. Maybe it's always been like that and I have never really noticed I don't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive.

I don't have the time to waste it on these people. Just noticed recently that there is a lot of rules flying about. Maybe it's always been like that and I have never really noticed I don't know "

Are you not wasting your time on them with this thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profiles with lists of rules are so easy to avoid. No drama.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is this. Everyone has the right to do what they want and have what ever rules they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because every person has certain attributes that they find physically appealing. Would you fuck someone you didn't find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bottom line is this. Everyone has the right to do what they want and have what ever rules they want. "

And I fully respect that! just saying, is there any need to have too many/ ridiculous rules? Especially on a site you have come on to have a bit of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive.

I don't have the time to waste it on these people. Just noticed recently that there is a lot of rules flying about. Maybe it's always been like that and I have never really noticed I don't know

Are you not wasting your time on them with this thread ?"

no just seeing if anyone else has noticed all the rules. Clearly not haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive.

I don't have the time to waste it on these people. Just noticed recently that there is a lot of rules flying about. Maybe it's always been like that and I have never really noticed I don't know

Are you not wasting your time on them with this thread ? no just seeing if anyone else has noticed all the rules. Clearly not haha "

Yes but only a few to be fair, I move on from profiles like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

Oh right.. oh I see.. We should meet anyone who shows an interest even though they aren't what we are looking for.. is that right?"

i think it's more we should play on here by his rules, using his idea of fun, and not have minds of our own or know what we want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is this. Everyone has the right to do what they want and have what ever rules they want.

And I fully respect that! just saying, is there any need to have too many/ ridiculous rules? Especially on a site you have come on to have a bit of fun "

Does it really matter what someone else is looking for ? I doubt they see their "rules" as ridiculous.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

We probably miss out on a lot but as our lass is highly allergic to cats, she will choke up in the supermarket queue due to someone there having cat hair on their clothes so we have the rule no cat owners unless we meet them at a club after the jacuzzi has got the hairs and saliva off them. It is a safety rule. It costs us dear we know this but that is how it must be, so not all rules are quirks or being awkward.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

"

what a silly post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

Oh right.. oh I see.. We should meet anyone who shows an interest even though they aren't what we are looking for.. is that right?

i think it's more we should play on here by his rules, using his idea of fun, and not have minds of our own or know what we want.

"

thats not what I'm saying at all! If everyone was the same this site and life would be boring. We all have different minds and likes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women are holding all the cards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

Oh right.. oh I see.. We should meet anyone who shows an interest even though they aren't what we are looking for.. is that right?

i think it's more we should play on here by his rules, using his idea of fun, and not have minds of our own or know what we want.

thats not what I'm saying at all! If everyone was the same this site and life would be boring. We all have different minds and likes!"

Exactly, which is why some people have rules/preferences, doh, we're going around in circles !

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By *elle2016Woman
over a year ago

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Are we really Shag?

That being the case...Id never meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are we really Shag?

That being the case...Id never meet you!"

Yes as I don't think men have so many rules as women got you know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bottom line is this. Everyone has the right to do what they want and have what ever rules they want.

And I fully respect that! just saying, is there any need to have too many/ ridiculous rules? Especially on a site you have come on to have a bit of fun "

Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only rules I have are I will meet whoever I want to meet not whever tells me I should meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of the rules are created because of:

Likes/dislikes

Comfort and boundaries

But generally because, sadly, there are rude, ignorant, pushy, disrespectful, self involved, desperate and fake people/profiles on here.

So people create rules to avoid, deter them, or attract the types they'd like to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely you have rules OP? Or are you happy to meet and play with anyone despite, looks, size, personality, gender, orientation etc etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The real truth is he hasn't got a shag and it's piss in him off. That's my last comment as I'm bored with this now.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's only been here ONE WEEK!

Christ man, wait until you have been here 6 months! you will learn...... eventually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What rules?

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

"

Are you happy to just shag anyone ??

or would you prefer that they conformed to some type of standard... maybe you'd prefer that they were female or didn't smell like Grimsby?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it is very simple. People have very little spare time nowadays. We all have preferences and pet hates that are unlikely to change as we get in touch with different people. Why repeat them to everyone we get in contact with when it is much easier to have a write-up that anyone can read before deciding if they want to contact the person? Obviously some people have reading comprehension problems, but those who are able to write a few sentences in decent English might be unwilling to meet those people, so win win!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Why does it surprise you that many people are here looking for what they want, not to try whomever is available and interested?

Nobody cares what you have to offer if it's not what they want. You could be the greatest person ever and an awesome shag but if they're looking for certain physical attributes that you don't have, it doesn't matter how fabulous you are.

I realise that's frustrating for you. I realise you think they are missing out by being so narrow-minded. I realise you feel unfairly excluded.

You have to accept it and get over it. People are here for what they want, not to provide what you want. You have to be patient, show yourself off to your best advantage and wait until you find the people you are interested in, who also want what you are offering.

People with strict criteria almost certainly realise they're limiting their potential meets. It's great you're concerned they're missing out, (except you're not really, are you? You're bothered you are missing out), but they've decided they're happy with that. If it's not working for them, they'll change their criteria, (or give up and leave).

People can look for whatever they like here. They're not going to put what you want ahead of that and it's pretty daft to think they should.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

People are allowed preferences;

Trouble here is that often staring "preferences" is pointless, as knobheads just ignore them anyway,

So lots of people reinforce their "preferences" as rules.

So what? Good for them; they know what they do and don't want .

If you don't like it; move on.

Make your own rule " don't deal with people who have rules"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I know what i like and what I don't like. We don't have any hard and fast rules on appearance or height etc, but I do have preferences but doesn't everyone?

We aren't on here for a quick shag. We are a couple, if i want a quickie i just wait for my husband to get home!

We are here for fun and relaxed experiences and that for us, means finding the right kind of people to have those experiences with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules only seem to be an issue for those who aren't included in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are in place to enable the person messaging to respect the recipients boundaries. I have a hairy chest, some ladies hate that, that's fine, out of courtesy I would not message them.

People have a choice and I find although new to the site if you show respect and courtesy that far better than being a bullish pushy idiot

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"What you are actually saying is.. I'm here you should meet me. You are wrong!

I'm not saying that at all! I'm saying your on a site to have fun, don't restrict yourself with rules. everyone has a story to tell, get know different people it will change your live

But its their rules and they are the only ones who are restricting who they meet through their choices and rules. How others run their profiles and their lives on here doesn't affect you and I don't see how wasting time on them is in the slightest bit constructive.

I don't have the time to waste it on these people. Just noticed recently that there is a lot of rules flying about. Maybe it's always been like that and I have never really noticed I don't know

Are you not wasting your time on them with this thread ? no just seeing if anyone else has noticed all the rules. Clearly not haha

Yes but only a few to be fair, I move on from profiles like that."

I do exactly the same.

Yes here are a fair few profiles with rules but I respect their preferences and move on if those rules blatantly exclude any desire to hear from me.

As for those rules being ridiculous...

One person's sensible rules are another person's ridiculous rules, all created to stem the flow of unwanted messages.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed ....."

I have never and would never message someone who has the 'put ****** in the subject line to show you have read the profile or you will be deleted' rule

Life is too short and I avoid other demanding profiles too - preferences are very different from making people jump through hoops for giggles so I can accept likes/dislikes but anything else smacks of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

"

The example you use is height, That is not a rule, that is preference. Some people are turned on by tall men, they shouldn't change that to please the people on site. No one would expect you to start sleeping with bbw's if they were not your thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I notice that you are not looking to meet men. Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed .....

I have never and would never message someone who has the 'put ****** in the subject line to show you have read the profile or you will be deleted' rule

Life is too short and I avoid other demanding profiles too - preferences are very different from making people jump through hoops for giggles so I can accept likes/dislikes but anything else smacks of entitlement "

In fairness I think the 'put xxx in your title' approach makes sense since far too many people don't read profile and just flick to the pictures. It demonstrates people have read the profile at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

"

We have a certain type we look for and don't need to meet people we don't fancy.

if someone doesn't catch our attention we ain't fucking them

you need a few preferences to cut the amount of messages from people you will never meet. Doesn't stop people who haven't a chance

swinging must stay fun for us. Fucking ugly people will soon turn it into a chore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed .....

I have never and would never message someone who has the 'put ****** in the subject line to show you have read the profile or you will be deleted' rule

Life is too short and I avoid other demanding profiles too - preferences are very different from making people jump through hoops for giggles so I can accept likes/dislikes but anything else smacks of entitlement

In fairness I think the 'put xxx in your title' approach makes sense since far too many people don't read profile and just flick to the pictures. It demonstrates people have read the profile at least "

We have done that before and the amount that don't read profile is eye opening.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Maybe the OP instead of putting all his time into worrying about peoples rules he should put that effort into writing a decent profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rules only seem to be an issue for those who aren't included in them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed .....

I have never and would never message someone who has the 'put ****** in the subject line to show you have read the profile or you will be deleted' rule

Life is too short and I avoid other demanding profiles too - preferences are very different from making people jump through hoops for giggles so I can accept likes/dislikes but anything else smacks of entitlement

In fairness I think the 'put xxx in your title' approach makes sense since far too many people don't read profile and just flick to the pictures. It demonstrates people have read the profile at least

We have done that before and the amount that don't read profile is eye opening."

Not necessarily, we have messaged a few people we liked the look of after reading the profile but didn't include their "phrase" because we don't do that lol, but they all messaged back anyway

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Give us some examples of rules you find ridiculous, as I haven't really noticed .....

I have never and would never message someone who has the 'put ****** in the subject line to show you have read the profile or you will be deleted' rule

Life is too short and I avoid other demanding profiles too - preferences are very different from making people jump through hoops for giggles so I can accept likes/dislikes but anything else smacks of entitlement

In fairness I think the 'put xxx in your title' approach makes sense since far too many people don't read profile and just flick to the pictures. It demonstrates people have read the profile at least "

I read profiles and decide if I want to look at the pictures afterwards so if I see a really demanding profile I will not even look at the pics and definitely not message so what works for some will not work for others. I don't see the need to vilify the OP for a thread about rules - at no point in the original post did he say people couldn't have preferences or even couldn't have rules - just that he had noticed a lot of profiles with rules

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

The example you use is height, That is not a rule, that is preference. Some people are turned on by tall men, they shouldn't change that to please the people on site. No one would expect you to start sleeping with bbw's if they were not your thing"

I agree with your general point but I don't see much distinction between a rule and a preference, and the lists that appear in profiles could often be classified as either...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rules only seem to be an issue for those who aren't included in them "

Definitely agree with this ???? (Mr)

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By *nleashedCrakenMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Because every person has certain attributes that they find physically appealing. Would you fuck someone you didn't find attractive? "

Only occasionally on a Friday night. But I was very, very d*unk each time. hic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would we wanna swing with someone that didn't fit our criteria?

Wouldn't be fun for me

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Rules are for the guidance of the wise and the blind obeyance of fools."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

The example you use is height, That is not a rule, that is preference. Some people are turned on by tall men, they shouldn't change that to please the people on site. No one would expect you to start sleeping with bbw's if they were not your thing

I agree with your general point but I don't see much distinction between a rule and a preference, and the lists that appear in profiles could often be classified as either..."

I think the OP's example is that of a preference. I am not disagreeing some people have rules, or if you wish, hoops that members need to jump through and that the same are excessive. However it is important to point out that personal preference on issues such as height, weight, hair colour are not rules but rather preferences.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Because swinging is only fun with people you fancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!"

Is it not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Me thinks the op thought this place was a sexfest!

Is it not? "

no mate, too many rules! haha

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

The rules I have are that I won't play with someone who is cheating and only play with consenting adults.

I have preferences, in that I am only attracted to women and sometimes prefer curvy/BBW. I prefer someone who shares some sexual interests with me so we are hopefully compatible in the bedroom. And a nice personality helps too.

I'm not going to shag just anyone and I wouldn't enjoy a meet with someone who would shag anyone.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Rules only seem to be an issue for those who aren't included in them "

As it was, as it ever shall be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

trust me, I wouldn't shag anything, I am not desperate. we all have standards/ preferences I get that! but fuck me, one profile had a rule that they only meet guys who are between 6ft-6ft2!!

how is that not ridiculous?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, I wouldn't shag anything, I am not desperate. we all have standards/ preferences I get that! but fuck me, one profile had a rule that they only meet guys who are between 6ft-6ft2!!

how is that not ridiculous?

"

Over 6ft I can understand, specifically between 6ft and 6ft 2 seems bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, I wouldn't shag anything, I am not desperate. we all have standards/ preferences I get that! but fuck me, one profile had a rule that they only meet guys who are between 6ft-6ft2!!

how is that not ridiculous?

"

It may seem that way to you but Clearly it isn't to them or they wouldn't put it...why you appear to be letting it bother you escapes me...just move right along...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"trust me, I wouldn't shag anything, I am not desperate. we all have standards/ preferences I get that! but fuck me, one profile had a rule that they only meet guys who are between 6ft-6ft2!!

how is that not ridiculous?

"

If a guy says hes 6ft hes really 5.6. Same as cock. 8" is really 4". Like a women wont notice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

"

More swingers like us are required I guess .

Tall , short , black , white and any shade , dwarf , hermaphrodite , tv , ts , male , female .... its all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do people have so many rules On here?

You have to be this height, you have to be that height, you have to breath so many times in a minute then maybe we will meet.

Thought swinging was fun? What happend to haveing a little laugh with People then seeing where it goes?

More swingers like us are required I guess .

Tall , short , black , white and any shade , dwarf , hermaphrodite , tv , ts , male , female .... its all good "

ha now that's varity!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Welcome to the forum, OP

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