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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is getting off work early driving 6 hrs as your partner is nervous about playing with a couple and then being told he's not comfy with me being there as he's concerned about his partners safety

Classed as a cuckold ?? Lol

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang

Don't know but if a three some has been arranged you can't really make it into a foursome if they don't want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

who is not comfy with you being there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if you would be classed as a cuckold. It depends what was arranged between you all. If you weren't expected, I would say you were probably just unwelcome and not a cuckold.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this post from the m or the f of the OP couple?

Which of the other couple is "uncomfortable"

What was the actual arrangement meant to be?

Sorry but if you want comment or advice you need to be clear...this is as clear as mud at the moment.

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By *otblondewife hornyMrCouple
over a year ago

Cambuslang


"Is this post from the m or the f of the OP couple?

Which of the other couple is "uncomfortable"

What was the actual arrangement meant to be?

Sorry but if you want comment or advice you need to be clear...this is as clear as mud at the moment."

A one sentence paragraph

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

Sounds like something that should have been sorted out before the 6 hour drive!

The F half of the OP couple was nervous about playing with a couple, so asked her M to drive 6 hours to accompany her (we don't know whether the other couple knew he was attending or not). Then the M half of the other couple wasn't happy with the M half of the OP couple being there, as he was concerned for the safety of (other couple) F.

Sounds like both M's were concerned about their own F's. But surely, if someone is concerned about their own F, they should completely understand that another man would be concerned about his F? Sounds a bit like the other couple M was expecting FMF, and wanted what he wanted, regardless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like something that should have been sorted out before the 6 hour drive!

The F half of the OP couple was nervous about playing with a couple, so asked her M to drive 6 hours to accompany her (we don't know whether the other couple knew he was attending or not). Then the M half of the other couple wasn't happy with the M half of the OP couple being there, as he was concerned for the safety of (other couple) F.

Sounds like both M's were concerned about their own F's. But surely, if someone is concerned about their own F, they should completely understand that another man would be concerned about his F? Sounds a bit like the other couple M was expecting FMF, and wanted what he wanted, regardless. "

It's was just like this we have all been chatting and a 4 sum was on the cards to take place ?

I (m) contacted him 3 hrs before I knew I'd be able to get there ? He said he ! Wasn't comfy about this because of his ladies safety ?

My partner had to be ok with them ?

She also managed to get a friend(f) to go along ?

Maybe it was the thought of 3 ladies that he didn't want the interference too ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confused!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

A 6 hour drive.....between 3 junctions on the M25 carpark

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now


"It's was just like this we have all been chatting and a 4 sum was on the cards to take place ?

I (m) contacted him 3 hrs before I knew I'd be able to get there ? He said he ! Wasn't comfy about this because of his ladies safety ?

My partner had to be ok with them ?

She also managed to get a friend(f) to go along ?

Maybe it was the thought of 3 ladies that he didn't want the interference too ?"

Sounds like the other couple either didn't know what they wanted, or cynically wanted to change the arrangements, so that their M got to play with more than one woman.

To be honest, I'm surprised that your lady went along with this. If I (when I was part of a couple) was expecting a soft or full swap with another couple, I wouldn't stand for my partner being excluded at the last minute. Either we both played or neither of us played. Still less would I take a female friend instead of my partner! The other M must have thought all his birthday's had come at once!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She went out of loyalty to her friend and the promise to the couple !

She was not comfy but tried to enjoy the moment but couldn't relax so it was hard for her ?

I'm regretting coming back but did so when I had the opportunity to make sure that everything was OK !

Well another learning experience in the fun world of swinging ??

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