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By *fcouple3343 OP   Couple
over a year ago

hamilton

New to the site but not inexperienced however, finding it really hard to get started! I'm beginning to think we're hideous lol. Should we forget about trying to arrange social meets etc on this and hit the club's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not try both were no experts as we're new to this ourselves but patience will pay off were finding our social circle growing and this is both through the site and clubs

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

Your pics are too dark imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics are too dark imo "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your pics are too dark imo "

And your man's invisible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I will say is that looking for single bi fems, you are looking for the smallest grouping here, made smaller by the ones who will meet with couples. Most single bi fems who do meet couples are looking for all full on threesome experience, some will do soft swap, but many want to be attracted to and play with both male and female rather than be watched by the male half in f2f, however they can be found.

There are definitely soft swap couples out there as well

Clubs are great as you get to meet people face to face and decide quickly enough if you want to get to know each other better. Good luck

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I'm new but been on similar sites about a year ago on this one I've had a few who have messaged me and quite a few who have deleted messages take it on the chin me and laugh it off but il stick around figure out this site .maybe my aproach is wrong im far from shy so won't give up just yet .

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By *fcouple3343 OP   Couple
over a year ago

hamilton


"Your pics are too dark imo

And your man's invisible "

Yeah, we've just discussed that so will add more pics and see if that helps

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"Your pics are too dark imo

And your man's invisible

Yeah, we've just discussed that so will add more pics and see if that helps "

Good idea ... Couples profiles should have pic of both !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect to see pics of both of you.

I also wouldn't meet couples because I don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show for your hubby. I'm not a performing seal!

I'd say go to clubs and make friends. As a couple we have met single ladies but we all play as a threesome.

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By *fcouple3343 OP   Couple
over a year ago

hamilton


"I would expect to see pics of both of you.

I also wouldn't meet couples because I don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show for your hubby. I'm not a performing seal!

I'd say go to clubs and make friends. As a couple we have met single ladies but we all play as a threesome. "

My hubby has no interest in a show, we play together. We would also want to play as a threesome. Maybe I should include this in our profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would expect to see pics of both of you.

I also wouldn't meet couples because I don't want to feel like I'm putting on a show for your hubby. I'm not a performing seal!

I'd say go to clubs and make friends. As a couple we have met single ladies but we all play as a threesome.

My hubby has no interest in a show, we play together. We would also want to play as a threesome. Maybe I should include this in our profile?"

If you want full on threesomes that should be included in your profile yes. Because the way it reads presently suggests to me what has been said above about watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try cjs that way u can meet others with the same interests, but as long as u both enjoy yourselfs its a good start , mrb

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By *requent_FerryersCouple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

Hiya... We also noted a couple of your photos are very dark, you have a great bum, so show it off!!

Your profile is a tad "bland", but that being said, we have been heavily criticised by some for our "lengthy" profile (normally by those who think they are the God's gift to swinging). So give us more of an insight into what you are seeking? Maybe set out what you see as a "first step"?

In any event... Welcome to FAB and we sincerely hope you have as much fun as we have over the past year! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

Shag how did you originally screw up writing your signature 5 words?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol

Shag how did you originally screw up writing your signature 5 words? "
lol I typed an extra character there, it have to be correct you know

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