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By *xnew2thisxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

holywell

The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!! 

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

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By *oreplay-Or-NoPlayMan
over a year ago

brynmawr

If they are cheting on thier partners here, they probably do on a night out also.

Not just men either, ive seen a few womens profile that states that they're in a relationship and on here without thier partners knowing. Unfortunate really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are just as bad !

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By *xnew2thisxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

holywell


"If they are cheting on thier partners here, they probably do on a night out also.

Not just men either, ive seen a few womens profile that states that they're in a relationship and on here without thier partners knowing. Unfortunate really. "

I've seen the ladies profiles stating that too!!! I just don't know why they are in the relationships if it is obviously not working and they have to look for more behind their partners back !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv just become single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seen alot of profiles like this asking to be discreet because partners don,t know there here it's all fun and games till the person who doesn't know...knows and it goes pear shaped.if your relationship is not working for you don,t cheat it's not fair on the other person..,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

Im single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I signed up to this when in a relationship as I new it was coming to an end so could what swingers was abt but im single now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm nine months single now and sooooo happy. But yea I told my hand up n say I was on here for a good 18 months before I got the courage to leave. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am married...and open about it....before you judge...walk a mile in my shoes......then lats see how you fee!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We e been on and off fab for 5 years now . And the majority of our meets are with ' single ' guys .

And we have never had a text from an angry partner .....mind you , we don't give our number out so maybe that's why ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mate if ur not happy leave. Chances are if your not your partners not. Cheating can have some servire affects on yours and your partners life and mental health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems those men don't got a clue how to cover their tracks. I mean who uses the phone if you are married lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bonnie748

there,s a difference being married and honest and opened is all good if both parties are happy...cheating on your partner and they find out is just hurtful and distrustful your way is good honest and open

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Some of us are so honest that our wives know.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I'd rather someone say. I'm not here to judge others, and their relationship is not my concern, but I'd like the choice. Sadly most will opt to say they are single as it makes them more appealing to greater numbers.

It'll never change, until women/couples all want married guys... Then all the profiles will change.

D

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By *igboy52Man
over a year ago

bodmin

im single, lost my wife a few years ago, when you look at peoples profiles and there likes, i would say at least 80% say not looking for single men !!

T

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn


"We e been on and off fab for 5 years now . And the majority of our meets are with ' single ' guys .

And we have never had a text from an angry partner .....mind you , we don't give our number out so maybe that's why ?

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Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

out of interest did the man in question accomodate?

I only ask as many women and couple son this site assume that if men don't then they are married. I don't agree with that principle per se but see the logic in it. Would be interested to know if the signs were there that he was married

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

Not all single men

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By *heclitmaster84Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Yes not all single makes lie I'm totally single x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"I seen alot of profiles like this asking to be discreet because partners don,t know there here it's all fun and games till the person who doesn't know...knows and it goes pear shaped.if your relationship is not working for you don,t cheat it's not fair on the other person..,"

Really nice and good advice,however life and people are not ideal..cheats liars etc from the top all the way down..why should fab Swingers be ideal??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are just as bad !"

Yes and couples ........ Arranged a meet with a couple a while back the first time I was on here and it turned out they were both married but not to each other!! They were having a full on affair, I wouldn't have minded if they had told me whilst exchanging messages long before the meet.

Honest NSA fun x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I think we should be less judgmental. Cheating is fairly common even among married women (a lot of my married GFs sleep around). Many of them have personal circumstances. I don't mind or care of a man is married. I don't climb on a high horse and give them a sermon. I only tell them that if the wife calls me I won't cover for them, I'll admit to the affair if she asks. In the last several years I've only been called once.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I will say, though, that I have ZERO tolerance for married men lying to me, ie, stating they're single when they're married. Just be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I will say, though, that I have ZERO tolerance for married men lying to me, ie, stating they're single when they're married. Just be honest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seen alot of profiles like this asking to be discreet because partners don,t know there here it's all fun and games till the person who doesn't know...knows and it goes pear shaped.if your relationship is not working for you don,t cheat it's not fair on the other person..,"

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By *xnew2thisxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

holywell


"out of interest did the man in question accomodate?

I only ask as many women and couple son this site assume that if men don't then they are married. I don't agree with that principle per se but see the logic in it. Would be interested to know if the signs were there that he was married"

This certain person said he could accommodate, so no signs .... also I don't give our number out this was over kik.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

did you ask them the question when you met them

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By *xnew2thisxx OP   Couple
over a year ago

holywell


"did you ask them the question when you met them"

I didn't feel the need to there were no signs ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't even get a reply and I am single I even had some rude women saying about spell checking another member what that got too do with it

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Women are just as bad !"

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

If your relationship ain't working get out of it instead of cheating on them .then it dont mater who u fuck

Can't keep it in trousers or keep your legs shut you shouldn't get in a relationship. Stay single

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"did you ask them the question when you met them

I didn't feel the need to there were no signs ..."

another text, it's happened before.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In almost 8 years of meeting guys this has never happened to me

I'm quite impressed

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I was getting on with a "couple" maybe 15 months ago...everything seemed good, they said I was exactly what they were looking for as I would probably play with both of them in a MMF.

Then comes the bombshell "We're not married to each other. We have a husband and a wife who don't know lol".

So I think I politely said "In that case I decline to meet you as I don't get involved in cheating" and got abuse hurled at me...about how I'm not special, they have loads of guys who want to play with them, I'm ugly etc....block and move on.

The not accommodating thing can be a warning that a guy is not really single, but some guys have reasons. My wife usually asks why they cannot accommodate and sometimes there's a valid reason such as they have a house-mate or a child at home. But on other occasions, even after she's had a couple of socials with them, it turns out they actually have a wife who has no idea.

We both have "single" accounts as we rarely play as a couple, but neither of us gets involved in cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women are just as bad !"

Yep had blokes text me. So happens both way around.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

This is why the more decent women on here don't meet guys for the fear that they may be cheating on someone (understandable) but some don't give a toss and will still hook up with guys knowing they have partners so swings and roundabouts I think. Just depends on where your moral compass is pointing I guess. But if guys realise they will still get a shag regardless of having a partner who doesn't know they are on here then......they will continue to do it BUT women are just as bad to be fair on us guys.

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By *ot so innocent nowCouple
over a year ago

Chorley

I would hate to find out that we had met someone who wasn't actually single or who's partner wasn't aware of the situation. I've accidentally been 'the other woman', the guy even went to the trouble of hiding all the wedding photos when I went to his. I got a text asking me to go round, when I got there his wife answered the door and invited me in, we talked and it transpired that he had a separate phone that he used for me (and whoever else he had been seeing). It was truly awful what he was doing, what he had put her through. As such if never knowingly facilitate anyone who isn't being above board with their partner.

I have been in a long term relationship (10years) where our sex drives were at opposite ends of the spectrum - I stayed faithful, because cheating, lying and going behind someone's back is not an option. (In my opinion). After that relationship ended I vowed to make sure I didn't end up in the same position again.

Thankfully the person who caught my eye and who I've now been with for a few years has just as high a sex drive as me. It's awesome

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"If your relationship ain't working get out of it instead of cheating on them .then it dont mater who u fuck

Can't keep it in trousers or keep your legs shut you shouldn't get in a relationship. Stay single "

This made me laugh ... don't swingers take it out of their trousers then? How do you swing with your legs closed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

Generalisations rule once more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

My Penarth worth based on numbers of winks and messages from "straights" - too many 'single guys" are confused about their sexuality or age or email writing.

"It's says straight but I'm really bi"

" I know I'm younger or older but would you...."

"One liner "fancy a shag"

So with such confusion about themselves, perhaps it's no surprise that they "forget" their marital position.

I don't mind playing with married guys or girls - but like others have said - be upfront.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

Very single here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a man on here 6 months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend after numerous meets then all of a sudden contact stopped and 2 days later his wife was knocking on my door calling me all the names under the sun I soon got an apology once she saw his messages to me and his profile on here

If your thinking of cheating just end the relationship why hurt someone for you own selfish needs

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork


"The single men on this site don't seem to be so single  .... I've had another text from a girlfriend / wife today!! Really pisses me off ..... men please just be honest if your looking to cheat!!  "

Omg what happened, how did it go down?!?!

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