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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've seen couples posting, saying "No Bi men". Why? What is the problem with bisexual men? If we know the husband side of the couple doesn't wish to play, we'll respect that and only focus on the female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would think that wouldnt you? ....but some bi men try anyways...and some couples dont understand that some guys see the lines and boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just don't want to fuck those people. Why's it matter?

I don't wanna fuck women, don't see any women complaining about that personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen couples posting, saying "No Bi men". Why? What is the problem with bisexual men? If we know the husband side of the couple doesn't wish to play, we'll respect that and only focus on the female."

A huge part of sex involves fantasy and imagination. I just don't fantasise about bi or gay men.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Is this not just a preference such as;I don't want to meet 18yr olds or some people don't want older,straight,bigger &white etc

Some bi guys expect everyone to be game..Don't worry about it and focus on those who do meet bi's

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"I've seen couples posting, saying "No Bi men". Why? What is the problem with bisexual men? If we know the husband side of the couple doesn't wish to play, we'll respect that and only focus on the female."

It's just a preference like the poster above say's, just ignore those ( like us )who choose not to meet Bi or Bi-Curious men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't. "

Many a true word said in Jest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest "

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group. "

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to"

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to"

Everyone has the right to excercise their preference, get over it! petulance regarding others non conformity to your requirements is not an admirable trait.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest if you like another man's involvement even with no touching you are a little bit bi. If seeing another man's cock repulsed you so much you would shrivel up and say hello to mr floppy.

There is no 100% straight, there is maybe 99% straight but in the general population it is around 75% with sexuality being more fluid than people realise. Soon it won't even be a relevant question as it will be the norm to be bisexual.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Let's be honest if you like another man's involvement even with no touching you are a little bit bi. If seeing another man's cock repulsed you so much you would shrivel up and say hello to mr floppy.

There is no 100% straight, there is maybe 99% straight but in the general population it is around 75% with sexuality being more fluid than people realise. Soon it won't even be a relevant question as it will be the norm to be bisexual.

"

Very nice made up statistics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested. "

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm my previous guise I met 10 couples, 8 of those the guy either messaged me separately to say he was bi 'but don't tell the missus!' Or told me discreetly on the meet. But I am freakishly handsome and can confuse people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm my previous guise I met 10 couples, 8 of those the guy either messaged me separately to say he was bi 'but don't tell the missus!' Or told me discreetly on the meet. But I am freakishly handsome and can confuse people "

Totally off topic but I've seen the way you measure yours.....

Awesome! I have a nine inch cock!!!!

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol. "

Well I don't consider it disgusting to be Bi because am Bi myself, it's just our personal preference not to meet Bi males, just like we wont meet smokers and anybody under 30, just all boils down to personal preference

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I'm my previous guise I met 10 couples, 8 of those the guy either messaged me separately to say he was bi 'but don't tell the missus!' Or told me discreetly on the meet. But I am freakishly handsome and can confuse people

Totally off topic but I've seen the way you measure yours.....

Awesome! I have a nine inch cock!!!! "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol. "

that's not on and i don't agree with that, even before the hypocrisy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did my own qualitive research study. I can't post links (google it) but there is a study that proves all men have some same sex sexual feelings. They measured the brain activity of men when shown pictures of first women, then men then men and women together. They found there was more activity in the area linked to sexual arousal in the men that filled in the pre test survey stating - absolutely no sexual feelings towards men than the people who actually said they had liberal sexual feelings toward men. As Shakespeare said 'thou doth protest too much'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm my previous guise I met 10 couples, 8 of those the guy either messaged me separately to say he was bi 'but don't tell the missus!' Or told me discreetly on the meet. But I am freakishly handsome and can confuse people

Totally off topic but I've seen the way you measure yours.....

Awesome! I have a nine inch cock!!!! "

And that's one of those tape measures you can get with a fake scale! It's actually a mere thimble

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did my own qualitive research study. I can't post links (google it) but there is a study that proves all men have some same sex sexual feelings. They measured the brain activity of men when shown pictures of first women, then men then men and women together. They found there was more activity in the area linked to sexual arousal in the men that filled in the pre test survey stating - absolutely no sexual feelings towards men than the people who actually said they had liberal sexual feelings toward men. As Shakespeare said 'thou doth protest too much' "

More of this nonsense. It is just silly trying to make the case that most men are bi and are simply repressed. It is just not true.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"I did my own qualitive research study. I can't post links (google it) but there is a study that proves all men have some same sex sexual feelings. They measured the brain activity of men when shown pictures of first women, then men then men and women together. They found there was more activity in the area linked to sexual arousal in the men that filled in the pre test survey stating - absolutely no sexual feelings towards men than the people who actually said they had liberal sexual feelings toward men. As Shakespeare said 'thou doth protest too much' "

Shakespeare wrote: "The lady doth protest too much, methinks," in Hamlet.

I hope your recollection of stats is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm my previous guise I met 10 couples, 8 of those the guy either messaged me separately to say he was bi 'but don't tell the missus!' Or told me discreetly on the meet. But I am freakishly handsome and can confuse people

Totally off topic but I've seen the way you measure yours.....

Awesome! I have a nine inch cock!!!!

And that's one of those tape measures you can get with a fake scale! It's actually a mere thimble

"

Ooooooo. Did you get it on eBay? I could find mines a foot long

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"I did my own qualitive research study. I can't post links (google it) but there is a study that proves all men have some same sex sexual feelings. They measured the brain activity of men when shown pictures of first women, then men then men and women together. They found there was more activity in the area linked to sexual arousal in the men that filled in the pre test survey stating - absolutely no sexual feelings towards men than the people who actually said they had liberal sexual feelings toward men. As Shakespeare said 'thou doth protest too much' "

Thou are truly the "Rainman" of qualitive research study's

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

I am a bit bi (further explanation available upon request!) and I can understand that for some straight guys having a threesome with their female partner and another guy might be uncomfortable if they know that they are also the object of the other guys desire, wether it is acted upon or not.

I would always prefer to assume that this is the reason for the "No bi guys" statement rather than any kind of prejudice or anything like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok so it's an exact 7 and a half inch.

The problem is the people with 6 inch are claiming 7 inch and the people with 5 are claiming 6 and a half.. It's a godamn arms race. I'll end this and use my laser level

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol.

Well I don't consider it disgusting to be Bi because am Bi myself, it's just our personal preference not to meet Bi males, just like we wont meet smokers and anybody under 30, just all boils down to personal preference "

You spotted the double standards in their argument too then

I used to have "no bi women or anyone who associates with bi women" on my profile. All that messing around with each other. It's just not right. Lol.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol.

Well I don't consider it disgusting to be Bi because am Bi myself, it's just our personal preference not to meet Bi males, just like we wont meet smokers and anybody under 30, just all boils down to personal preference

You spotted the double standards in their argument too then

I used to have "no bi women or anyone who associates with bi women" on my profile. All that messing around with each other. It's just not right. Lol. "

I don't blame you regarding Bi Women So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so it's an exact 7 and a half inch.

The problem is the people with 6 inch are claiming 7 inch and the people with 5 are claiming 6 and a half.. It's a godamn arms race. I'll end this and use my laser level "

Seeing as I keep mine tucked away with any lover except my wife, my colossal size is pretty irrelevant unless I hear " suck on my big black cock baby". Then I tend to allow it out just to make a point

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By *ippingrugbyboyMan
over a year ago

Bishop's Stortford

Me if I'm playing with couple only play with the guy if he start to play with me.Or if he makes it clear he like to play together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol.

Well I don't consider it disgusting to be Bi because am Bi myself, it's just our personal preference not to meet Bi males, just like we wont meet smokers and anybody under 30, just all boils down to personal preference

You spotted the double standards in their argument too then

I used to have "no bi women or anyone who associates with bi women" on my profile. All that messing around with each other. It's just not right. Lol.

I don't blame you regarding Bi Women So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group. "

It was a joke line on my profile followed up with an explanation. I have no issues with bi women. It doesn't turn me on. I was happy to play with them until my wife stepped back from swinging for a while. So now I don't play with any females. My preference. Not hers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently bi men sleep around a lot and so pose a higher risk of carrying nasties.

Unlike swingers who don't.

Many a true word said in Jest

Who's joking? So many people on here look at statistics without realising they themselves are in an equally high risk group.

This is totally true. But my only annoyance is because they are perfectly fine to play with straight men, but bi men are not allowed just because they may hit on the husband, even if agreed not to

But how do you know the reason they wont meet Bi men is because of that and not what's been discussed above, I have yet to see a reason put on a profile why a couple wont meet Bi-Men, usually they just state they are not interested.

Going by the messages I've received in the past, once strong reason why people won't play with bi men or trans girls is because we are seen as 'disgusting'.

I've had three messages telling me that since I joined fab. Twice from single bi females and one from a couple with a bi female. Then they blocked me. Lol.

Well I don't consider it disgusting to be Bi because am Bi myself, it's just our personal preference not to meet Bi males, just like we wont meet smokers and anybody under 30, just all boils down to personal preference

You spotted the double standards in their argument too then

I used to have "no bi women or anyone who associates with bi women" on my profile. All that messing around with each other. It's just not right. Lol. "

It's great to see a discussion like this! The topic has been on my mind since I joined fabs, and i even have had a few "straight" men messaging me saying that they are bi, but they just want more meets. The reason I brought this up is because it's sad that people have to hide who they are, in 2016

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's hiding?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)"

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom"

I'm not into bottom/top anything, rimming yes ramming no. I'm so square

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom

I'm not into bottom/top anything, rimming yes ramming no. I'm so square "

I'm a top, but will suck some cock. But everything else, I'm in control. Sadly some people believe you are not "100%" bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent had chance to read the whole thread so my apologies if this has been covered but some couples base their reasoning in health reasons. I think that argument has its flaws but thought it would be good for you to know that is one of the reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom

I'm not into bottom/top anything, rimming yes ramming no. I'm so square

I'm a top, but will suck some cock. But everything else, I'm in control. Sadly some people believe you are not "100%" bisexual"

That works both ways. Funny ol thing I don't fuck guys. I'm bottom.

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

We only like bi guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

Y

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom

I'm not into bottom/top anything, rimming yes ramming no. I'm so square

I'm a top, but will suck some cock. But everything else, I'm in control. Sadly some people believe you are not "100%" bisexual

That works both ways. Funny ol thing I don't fuck guys. I'm bottom. "

I do enjoy a good bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what with the strange 'I'm so 100% straight I'm really angry about it' ' so don't go there' halfway through the meet.. ay up! someone's tickling my balls and the ladies hands are both in sight. (And no they didn't have a cat)

Y

Don't forget "please be 100% bisexual" meaning you gotta bottom for the husband. Even though I really hate being bottom

I'm not into bottom/top anything, rimming yes ramming no. I'm so square

I'm a top, but will suck some cock. But everything else, I'm in control. Sadly some people believe you are not "100%" bisexual

That works both ways. Funny ol thing I don't fuck guys. I'm bottom.

I do enjoy a good bottom"

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