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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not long, a bit particular which might be hard for people to read and absorb but i wouldn't worry about it.

Your profile is there for people to read, if they can't even be bothered to do that then i wouldn't care.

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away."

If they think your profile might be a bit on the long side then we haven't a chance with ours

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not long, a bit particular which might be hard for people to read and absorb but i wouldn't worry about it.

Your profile is there for people to read, if they can't even be bothered to do that then i wouldn't care."

This essentially is our thinking, we don't like making people jump through hoops (buzzword) but it's an attempt to filter out the "meet today for fuk" mails we get.

We do tend to ramble on though so we're looking for outside/objective criticism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not long, a bit particular which might be hard for people to read and absorb but i wouldn't worry about it.

Your profile is there for people to read, if they can't even be bothered to do that then i wouldn't care.

This essentially is our thinking, we don't like making people jump through hoops (buzzword) but it's an attempt to filter out the "meet today for fuk" mails we get.

We do tend to ramble on though so we're looking for outside/objective criticism "

It's fine, really.

I don't usually have hoops on my profile, just what i'm looking for usually.

But i felt like ranting a bit and not that bothered about meeting right now because i can't find what i want on here, and what i don't want doesn't turn me on anyway, so did put on what i don't want as well an it has lengthened my profile.

But usually i don't do this as i don't want guys to pretend to be something they aren't to get with me and give me crap sex or a bad time together. Seeing as i'm only looking for MM couples right now people can't really get round that.

I also ramble on, people need to get used to thayt if they're into you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A MM couple! Good going you

We will keep our eyes peeled for you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A MM couple! Good going you

We will keep our eyes peeled for you haha "

Oh yeah if you can recommend me i'd love that.

Had a few contact me last week but i couldn't meet when they could and it's fizzled out already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont worry about it being kong- if a bloke/woman cant be bothered then theyre probably not for you anyway.

Could be worse and have a super short one that doesnt give anythi g awya. Or one like mine that makes women think im just after a fuk and go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see your profile as long, but then I think mine is of similar length ir even longer.

You state exactly what you are looking for and when you can play.

Overall a good profile. Perhaps those that can't stay the distance in wanting to know a little about you are impatient. Which maybe says more about them than it does you!

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Very good profile.

L2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with a long descriptive profile. Answers lots of questions before initial contact has been made and leaves more time for arranging meets and getting down to the nitty gritty of things!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and your profile is fine, but your pics are so hot they almost melted my screen! That's our only complaint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly you can't please everyone don't change it to please strangers. People that want to meet you will meet you regardless..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and your profile is fine, but your pics are so hot they almost melted my screen! That's our only complaint "

thanks!! (I think... You're not going to Bill us for a new monitor right!?)

Ok so general consensus so far is people should suck it up and read it and it's a fairly decent length.

Thanks for everyone's opinion so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and your profile is fine, but your pics are so hot they almost melted my screen! That's our only complaint

thanks!! (I think... You're not going to Bill us for a new monitor right!?"

lol not quite, but I'm sure we could come to some arrangement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh and your profile is fine, but your pics are so hot they almost melted my screen! That's our only complaint

thanks!! (I think... You're not going to Bill us for a new monitor right!?

lol not quite, but I'm sure we could come to some arrangement "

Ohhhh sex for forgiveness? Our favourite!

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By * love 69Couple
over a year ago

London

I think your profile is ok. I am a newbie only joined last week I have changed my profile several times already.each time it does get longer. some people think just because your on a site like this that will have sex with just anyone that sends a message or that your going to give your number out straight away You have to be specific in your profile we each have our own preferences to what we want in the bedroom x

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away."
. I do not think that your profile is long ..

The point of a profile is to market yourself effectively . It is difficult to see how you can do this unless you have a detailed well written profile .

Ignore those who say that yours is lengthy and carry on as it is working for you.

Short profiles are for the lazy and those who are fakes .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a really good profile. Don't change it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and your profile is fine, but your pics are so hot they almost melted my screen! That's our only complaint

thanks!! (I think... You're not going to Bill us for a new monitor right!?

lol not quite, but I'm sure we could come to some arrangement

Ohhhh sex for forgiveness? Our favourite! "

Well it beats a bunch of flowers we think!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away."
I thought the length of your profile was fine and the pics very sexy have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone I think we will be leaving our text alone as it's been nothing but overwhelmingly positive, screw the haters!

Ok so now for pics, is there anything you feel is missing or could be improved? We do enjoy taking pics so this is as much for ideas as it is for criticism, I know we are missing the standard sky remote and box of chips penis pics but we are working on that...

M&M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone I think we will be leaving our text alone as it's been nothing but overwhelmingly positive, screw the haters!

Ok so now for pics, is there anything you feel is missing or could be improved? We do enjoy taking pics so this is as much for ideas as it is for criticism, I know we are missing the standard sky remote and box of chips penis pics but we are working on that...

M&M"

Us!! We're missing!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone I think we will be leaving our text alone as it's been nothing but overwhelmingly positive, screw the haters!

Ok so now for pics, is there anything you feel is missing or could be improved? We do enjoy taking pics so this is as much for ideas as it is for criticism, I know we are missing the standard sky remote and box of chips penis pics but we are working on that...

M&M

Us!! We're missing!! "

I've screen shotted that as proof of consent for when we have 50+ pics of you guys and want to plaster them all over our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone I think we will be leaving our text alone as it's been nothing but overwhelmingly positive, screw the haters!

Ok so now for pics, is there anything you feel is missing or could be improved? We do enjoy taking pics so this is as much for ideas as it is for criticism, I know we are missing the standard sky remote and box of chips penis pics but we are working on that...

M&M"
yes you need me in them promise I will breath in x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha you are all terrible!

Anymore for anymore on the ideas front?

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks good to me "

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By *exymatcplMan
over a year ago

doncaster


"We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away."

Dunno about the profile but the pics are great lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not for one too long profiles but with that said I would not put yours into that category.

Bearing in mind you do not do instantaneous meets, surely those interested in it should have plenty of time to read it? If people's attention span is so short they cannot be bothered to read that then I would be concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've had a few comments recently about our profile text being a bit on the long side for most to read.

We personally feel it has everything anyone would need to know about us and our meeting schedule, preferences etc but any advice on maybe trimming the fat a little would be appreciated.

Anything else you guys feel is lacking would be taken under advisement but we know you can't please everyone.

Brutal honesty is appreciated as always dear forumites and we expect some sarcastic comments so fire away.

Dunno about the profile but the pics are great lol"

A great example of one of the issues many fab users have. Straight to photos, no regard given to profile text

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha totally agree but we don't mind people who just wanna perv having a perv

It's when we get bombarded by messages we have to sort through with people who've not bothered to read it that it becomes a bit of a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you everyone I think we will be leaving our text alone as it's been nothing but overwhelmingly positive, screw the haters!

Ok so now for pics, is there anything you feel is missing or could be improved? We do enjoy taking pics so this is as much for ideas as it is for criticism, I know we are missing the standard sky remote and box of chips penis pics but we are working on that...

M&M

Us!! We're missing!!

I've screen shotted that as proof of consent for when we have 50+ pics of you guys and want to plaster them all over our profile "

The guys from FAB wouldn't allow them as they will be far too dirty! xxx

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