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what to wear for 1st time in the club?

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By *estcouple69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Any suggestions please.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

See new photos this is what I wore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the club. Dress down I wore the black outfit on our profile and before dress down a short plunge dress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the club. Dress down I wore the black outfit on our profile and before dress down a short plunge dress. "

Sorry. Meant to add I don't think all clubs are dress down. We haven't been to one yet that doesn't have that and when we do its a themed night anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the club and what you feel comfy wearing in honest truth, me, in clubs I wear barely anything but that's me and most people wear a lot more because that's what they feel comfy wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually go dressed as tho I was on a night out then some kind of raunchy outfit for dress down, body stocking, matching sexy underwear any of that would be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a male? Jeans and a shirt??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about a male? Jeans and a shirt?? "

Again totally depends on club and night. Some don't allow tee shirts or trainers, some don't allow jeans. Some expect you to dress down on entry which would be shorts or a towel.

Best asking about A specific place either on here or to them. We've only been to 2 clubs and planning a third but all have had different expectations for both sexes as to where, when and what for dress code.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

If it was a dress up club then smart black jeans and a collared shirt witha jacket or a smart jumper, shoes

Depending if it is a theme night I might dress up further

On dress down just boxers and a towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something you feel comfortable and confident in so you're relaxed. As others have said check the club's dress code out and go from there. I have a little black strappy dress that I wear especially when I'm not sure.

Have fun, Her

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Like others have said . It depends on the club . My wife normally wears very sexy dress for guys or women to look at . Once we've been in and walked around and relaxes she the will change into her basque . As long as club warm ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club really want to but feel like I need my hand holding lol. The nervous get me every time.. Thanks for the advice hopefully will come in handy one day x

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By *estcouple69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham

Great questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a towel when walking around and my birthday suit when i get in the jacuzzi

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By *estcouple69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Like others have said . It depends on the club . My wife normally wears very sexy dress for guys or women to look at . Once we've been in and walked around and relaxes she the will change into her basque . As long as club warm ??"

Leggings ?+ sexy top?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like others have said . It depends on the club . My wife normally wears very sexy dress for guys or women to look at . Once we've been in and walked around and relaxes she the will change into her basque . As long as club warm ??

Leggings ?+ sexy top? "

Yes, I've been to clubs wearing leggings and a nice too before

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By *estcouple69 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Like others have said . It depends on the club . My wife normally wears very sexy dress for guys or women to look at . Once we've been in and walked around and relaxes she the will change into her basque . As long as club warm ??

Leggings ?+ sexy top?

Yes, I've been to clubs wearing leggings and a nice too before "

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Some I've been to people like to take a change or two to keep the night fun. Importantly first time go in what your comfortable in. There will no doubt be more visits to get more risqué.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some I've been to people like to take a change or two to keep the night fun. Importantly first time go in what your comfortable in. There will no doubt be more visits to get more risqué. "

Really a change or two? I do my hair and makeup to suit a look and then have dress down wear to match the same look. Example last time was a plunge dress with over knee boots and then black set for dress down. Hair was curled, makeup strong. Next time I'm going for a more girly look with light colours, light makeup and straight hair.

Loving picking the looks but couldn't be doing with more than one!

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

No dress or skirt only in case of a bit of for play in chat ??

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By *adeSummersTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

I am finding this a very helpful thread as I myself am considering my very first visit to a club and so any advice on what people wear and what is appropriate is very much welcomed xxx

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By *ntnCleoCouple
over a year ago

Dortmund (Germany) might travel!

We've been to a few in Germany (awesome clubs here btw!) and at first were very worried what to wear. But by asking the management we have always had good guidance and found them helpful. Usually website has a section on what to wear and for further info email or ring the club.

The dress down bit we find most important - sexy but something you'll be comfortable and feel sexy in. The clubs we've been to, can't be too sexy!

Enjoy.

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By *adeSummersTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

In terms of the outfit I was thinking white crop top, sleek black micro mini skirt, black hold ups, heels, either a pink crotchless thong or black heart shaped back knickers. Then added accessories; earrings, belly button ring, bracelets, pink hair band.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In terms of the outfit I was thinking white crop top, sleek black micro mini skirt, black hold ups, heels, either a pink crotchless thong or black heart shaped back knickers. Then added accessories; earrings, belly button ring, bracelets, pink hair band.

Thoughts? "

I think you'll look the business

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By *addynLouCouple
over a year ago

Mad House

First time we went to a club I wore a very plain and slightly frumpy dress....after a few hours and once we felt settled and I felt comfortable I nipped through to the lockers and removed it to reveal a sexy revealing bodystocking for the rest of the evening ....loved the fact that I was all sexily dressed up under my plain dress Lou x

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By *adeSummersTV/TS
over a year ago

Liverpool

Great advice and thanks for the compliment, really means alot.

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