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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Putting on their profile if I Don't know you if you message me I will delete you. Question what are you on here for ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

So! Did you message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why's it matter? They don't want people messaging them if they don't know them and that's all you need to know.

They probably should block everyone from messaging tbh but it's up to them.

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

No I didn't message but surely that's the point of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Various reasons, only want to be in contact with those they know, not meeting presently, whatever reason they have is good enough for them. Just look at the next profile

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Send a message saying "haha you read my message"

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Send a message saying "haha you read my message" "

Seriously though.......it takes all sorts and you can't ever know what reasons propel have so if what people say doesn't lie comfortably with you, simply look at the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I didn't message but surely that's the point of this site"

Kind of, but not exactly.

It's a place where people can ask for what they want and offer what they have to offer. No obligation to anyone to be a service or available to everyone who wants them.

ffs my typing when i lie down...

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I understand that but why put this.if I don't already know you I will simply delete your message atm, you have been warned!! This sounds a bit aggressive to me. Only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the overall scheme of "what's wrong with people", I'd consider this pretty minor.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"No I didn't message but surely that's the point of this site"

I think the point of the site is different for everyone

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Glad you find this attitude minor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that but why put this.if I don't already know you I will simply delete your message atm, you have been warned!! This sounds a bit aggressive to me. Only my opinion"

Yeah... you're original question was what are they on here for, they aren't here for everyone who wants to use them, simple as that.

But feel free to you change what you said despite it being up there...

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I've changed nothing

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Glad you find this attitude minor"

It "is" minor, in the grand scheme of things it's inconsequential surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad you find this attitude minor"

The attitude is minor that's why

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive"

You can't know, so don't fret about it. Relax and move on.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I don't have it on my profile, but I DO delete messages from people I don't know. I get to know people through the chat rooms, not through the inbox system. And so far, it's working well. So ... don't message me unless I already know you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive"

It honestly isn't worth wasting your energy on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive"

I'm not meeting, it says so in my profile, it also says I don't meet men. Yesterday I took my filters off for an hour. I got 4 graphic messages in that period of time saying what Men, who I'm not meeting, would like to do to me!!!! Not a go, how are you, graphic messages, and you wonder why it's not appropriate for someone to state this on their profile ??

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby

Ok just got my back up a bit carry on guy's I'm over it now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Ok just got my back up a bit carry on guy's I'm over it now"

Good!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Putting on their profile if I Don't know you if you message me I will delete you. Question what are you on here for ?"

Did you ask them?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Deep breaths.....and relax.

See? All good again.

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive

I'm not meeting, it says so in my profile, it also says I don't meet men. Yesterday I took my filters off for an hour. I got 4 graphic messages in that period of time saying what Men, who I'm not meeting, would like to do to me!!!! Not a go, how are you, graphic messages, and you wonder why it's not appropriate for someone to state this on their profile ?? "

I sort of understand but you took the filters off surely that means something

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By *es-s OP   Man
over a year ago

Rugby


"Putting on their profile if I Don't know you if you message me I will delete you. Question what are you on here for ?

Did you ask them?"

No didn't want blocking

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"In the overall scheme of "what's wrong with people", I'd consider this pretty minor."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just don't know why they need to be so aggressive

I'm not meeting, it says so in my profile, it also says I don't meet men. Yesterday I took my filters off for an hour. I got 4 graphic messages in that period of time saying what Men, who I'm not meeting, would like to do to me!!!! Not a go, how are you, graphic messages, and you wonder why it's not appropriate for someone to state this on their profile ?? I sort of understand but you took the filters off surely that means something"

Yes it was an experiment to see how many people took no notice of profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We mainly use the site for keeping in contact with people we have met at clubs - yes we've used it for meeting people and checking out what's on at clubs etc but there's plenty of reasons people might have nothing to say to new people.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Putting on their profile if I Don't know you if you message me I will delete you. Question what are you on here for ?

Did you ask them? No didn't want blocking"

Why not? You don't know them so you can't communicate with them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting on their profile if I Don't know you if you message me I will delete you. Question what are you on here for ?

Did you ask them? No didn't want blocking

Why not? You don't know them so you can't communicate with them anyway "

This

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