FabSwingers.com forum: New straight member

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi.

Im quite new here, just registered a few months ago.

Im looking for the same like all here, quality and exciting new experiences, but so far I didnt get any reply for my messages, not even one. I have sent hundreds, and not offensive, not too long or short, just get to the point straight, told what I want, and what I can give..

I think my profile is good enough, and I have some pics, prof pic is with face.

I am succesful in life, but here no one even care to say a no, or write back anything. Its quite frustrating..

Give me some advice how people get any answer from women here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me some advice how people get any answer from women here..

Makes me laugh

Im still trying to get an answer

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

You have quite a specific list of requirements which isn't a bad thing, it just means you'll limit the people who will respond.

Good luck.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Your looking for women and FF couples who can meet you 2-3 times a week.....I think you might be limiting the amount of people that may be interested in this but if that's what you want you should stick to it. Good luck.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Someone to meet you 2-3 times a week is a niche market......as you're finding.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well, my first thoughts were that most of the women here are fakes, or get so many messages that they just lose mine in the other hundred or thousand.

Im in many similar pages, but its almost impossible to get any answers here.

I am interested in swinging, or doing threesome, but i dont have too much experience in these, and would prefer to get into with a regular partner together.

The weekly 2-3 not a strict requirement, im in for nsa, or 1 night, but would prefer a friend with benefit.

The thing I dont undestrand, when a women I wrote just delete my message without reading, or checking my profile..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well, my first thoughts were that most of the women here are fakes, or get so many messages that they just lose mine in the other hundred or thousand.

Im in many similar pages, but its almost impossible to get any answers here.

I am interested in swinging, or doing threesome, but i dont have too much experience in these, and would prefer to get into with a regular partner together.

The weekly 2-3 not a strict requirement, im in for nsa, or 1 night, but would prefer a friend with benefit.

The thing I dont undestrand, when a women I wrote just delete my message without reading, or checking my profile.."

Would you be comfortable going to a club? You might have more luck face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't know if we checked your profile. We use stealth mode so we don't get extra messages just for looking.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Well, my first thoughts were that most of the women here are fakes, or get so many messages that they just lose mine in the other hundred or thousand.

Im in many similar pages, but its almost impossible to get any answers here.

I am interested in swinging, or doing threesome, but i dont have too much experience in these, and would prefer to get into with a regular partner together.

The weekly 2-3 not a strict requirement, im in for nsa, or 1 night, but would prefer a friend with benefit.

The thing I dont undestrand, when a women I wrote just delete my message without reading, or checking my profile.."

If you're having more luck on other sites, then there's your answer.....

There is no point in wondering why someone hasn't read your message or deleted it without reading it or looked at your profile (although, like me, a lot can look and you can't tell they have) so just imagine a non reply is a 'no thank you'.

Try going to a social or a club because, like the lovely couple from Hastings

have said, you might have better luck face to face.

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines

Your profile isn't bad but it does look a little bit like something you find on a dating site. Listing your hobbies etc and where you've been isn't really relevant tbh as you aren't looking for people to have a long term relationship with here. Cock pics also aren't always a great thing to have but if that's want you feel is right that's fine.

As an earlier poster said, maybe try a club? Use your personality to win people over

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok, thanks for tips, well in a way this is a dating site, adult dating. At least I thought. Also thought nude pics are normal here as people looking for sex here and maybe wants to see whats on the other side, and most member have them.

Well, as I said I dont really want to go to a club alone. Maybe if I would have a partner to go with. On these kind of sites always much harder to find any women than in life, i dont really understand why.

Thanks for advice, and good hunt for all.

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines

This isn't a dating site...... We have loads of messages from single guys, lots of cock pics etc. Try and be a bit different, just 'cos we have seen your cock, it doesn't impress us and mean we want you to join us. We have a hotel meet on the 17th with a male we have met social and we have no idea what his dick looks like, we like him because he was easy to talk to and a good laugh.

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