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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi, I have been on fab a long time, but have always struggled to meet people. I send a message, they view my profile then delete the message without replying.

I need help and honest critique of my profile. So I would appreciate advice from you ladies as to where I am going wrong.

I am not a numpty just not very confident when trying to impress the ladies.

Thanks Joe

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No public photos = I wouldn't even read the profile.

You're "all man"? Really? Do you think people will be expecting part man, part something else?

It's ok, pretty inoffensive but there's nothing interesting or likely to grab anyone's attention.

You're one guy in a pool of thousands of guys. You need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why ask for advice for a profile that suppose to be about you ?? its easy tell folk about you and what you are looking for ?? think about how you want to be treated and no porn talk ll just be yourself that's what we look for is a person ?? rather than take advice from people who really don't know you ....

ps no 2 swingers are the same each and everyone on here are looking for different than you so sell your self and you'll find it will be ok ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and its early morning lol so sorry for the spelling I must now go to sleep lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try describing yourself in a more positive way. Each paragraph says you're average. Not fat. Not thin. Rugby player build, for example.

Just say you have a rugby player build, if that's the case. Is an attractive shape!

And pictures. We need something to see.

Not cock pics! (Goes without saying but I said it anyhow)

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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire Moorlands

Do you attach pics to your initial message? If not, I'm afraid I would look no further as there are no pics at all on show.

The 'all man' thing made me giggle too - what do you think others are? 90% man? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm ex forces too.

Way less than 100% male here

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Photos of some sort needed. A distance shot of you clothed is a start. We can see your overall body shape. One of your bum or back. A tattoo pic. Chest pic in an open shirt. Just a few suggestions.

As others have said you need to be more positive and interesting, so you stand out. If you imagine you are a shop windows. I am wandering past. I need to be interested in what's on display, before wanting to go inside to find out more. Your profile is how you demonstrate what you are about.

When sending messages, you hopefully write a personal message to explain why you are contacting that particular lady and not just a standard cut and paste message, or a hi, how's your day.

Hope that helps .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's better than mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's better than mine."

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll keep it simple.

Bland uninformative text.

No public pics.

Im guessing any ladies seeing it will just click on past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you for your help everyone, the comments about all man etc have made me laugh, what was I thimking lol

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

No public pics and you can be slim and be all man. Ive got a man who is that, despite the fact that he is very slim.

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